do guys like virgins?

Question

i'm 18 and still a virgin. just havent met the "right person" yet... i myself don't have a problem with it, but what do guys think of it?

wow what an amazing response! but i would just like to say 2 things... i'm not intending on waiting till im married... and i do have fun! a lot of people seem to be assuming i don't...

Answer 1

I am sure you will find men who both like and dislike virgins. Some men will swear they do just to be the first one in your pants. Whats important here is not weither we like virgins or not, its that your being true to yourself and holding out for the right guy. I think that is very noble. I have no problem with it.

Answer 2

I assume some guys will get their kicks buy taggin another virgin, some will live in the moment and treat as like another women, or some my feel guilty and leave. As for the right person, good for you. How ever you may sleep with what you deem the "right person" and down the line find out that it was the worst sex you ever had.

I am not a firm beleiver in waiting till you are married. My theory is this, if you wait till you are married then you will have sex with that one person. As time goes on, you may see someone that sparks a desire or hear something from a friend regarding thier sexual experiences and begin to wonder if there is something better out there. Which then can lead to an affair. There for, when looking for relationship make sure to keep "great sex" as a pre-requesite to the relationship.

And the best advice regarding men. Men are either horny or hungry. If you see a man without a hard on, make him a sandwich.

Answer 3

ok i have the answer to this,
Guys dont mind,althought guys find it mor exciting.
But remember when you do find mr right, after a while you might not be with him forever. Im not saying sleep with just any1.
People these days dont stay with their first,and so being a virgin doesnt matter.
I hope that helps and i respect you for bein a virgin at that age, dont rush into it,wait till YOUR ready and thats final, enjoy it when it does happen.
Chri$ x

Answer 4

For the most part it doesn't really matter. There is an ego boost knowing that you're with a woman her first time. The down side is a virgin is inexperienced and nervous. You add to it that you have to take things extra slow n easy and the actual sex isn't all that.

Answer 5

In theroy sounds cool to guys being mr teacher but in reality doing it with a virgin is painful to the girl, if the guy is nice hes getting upset as he does not want to hurt the girls, its all tense etc.

Really it needs lots of foreplay practice first.


Despite my age I have hardly had much experience so would want to date some much younger who ahas not done that much but its naff all to do with control.

More would want to date somone who has not done much so can try it out like sneaking into a golf course to do it or skinny dipping etc.

So things and new and exciting not been there done that its boring grow up get married and have babies.

But thats me, somone with more experience probably wants somone with similar experience as have gone further with their life.


Not this very important fact.


You are only a teenager once, enjoy it whilst you can when you can lots of friends and parties as when work starts you find nobody left to be with and people only whnt to be all serious and boring so want to make love whilst you still can have fun coloured hair and go to your first festival and make love seeing the sun come up and in cinemas and go to parties together etc.


get the idea?

When afterwards you can go and chat with the girlies on what it was like.


if you wait nobody will want to know as it will be look girl we all done it and who cares why you making a big deal about it.


Its nice meeting Mr nice but dont waste life waiting for somoe who may never come ending up onld and alone and nobody to be with and no crushes on you just a fact you put out and they have nobdy else to be with only finding people on dating sites.


you only end up hurt

Answer 6

It's good that ure waiting for the right person.I'm sure the guy u will fall for will not have a problem with you being a virgin.

Answer 7

had a friend a few years back who told me she was saving herself for Mr right. Spoke to her recently and asked how she felt about the subject now, She has left her husband and started a new life, Wished she had known how much fun sex was as she wasted years being celibate.

Answer 8

For most guys over 16 it is hard for us to control our sex drive until about 25. So by saying that you are waiting for the right guy or marriage to have sex, is well really really hard for a guy to hold back. I am not saying that you need to start getting it on with every guy and that your choice to wait is respectable. It is going to be a hard search for a guy that can control his hormones.

Answer 9

honey, do not feel the need to conform to society by being a sex-maninac. i wish that i would have waited. i did, just to get boyfriends. now i have herpes and a high risk for hiv, because i didnt wait. i have had 4 abortions and now feel less than human.

marry me first.

Answer 10

i think no matter what men say they all love a virgin. keep your virginity as long as you can. nothing is better then making love with the right person for the first time.