i just got a bf and ive been having doubts on it, due to a sticky situation im in and explained to him, tht if it ended the relationship then i'd understand, then he said *u shouldnt let ur mind get hold of ur heart, and we can make anything work* sweet . but then smthn puzzled me after tht he said *do u rlly think this is a relationship and do think we can make smthn out of it* and i said * i dont know ...i guess we have to see wat happens* then he answered back * gd..just wat i wanted to hear*...wat did he mean by tht ???
2007-08-07 04:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Guys don't like it when you plan the wedding after the first date. He wanted to be assured that you're not in love with him and going to stalk him.
2007-08-07 04:44:37 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like classic fear of commitment. If you don't call it a relationship, then he doesn't have to feel guilty if he sees another girl he wants to date also, or instead of you. Ask him to say what he means. If asking him to be honest, and less cryptic, with you makes him leave, then you were better off without him.
If he meant something else, better he should explain it before he accidentally ends this "relationship". Guys are simple creatures, when we try to get sneaky, one or both of your eyebrows is going to raise up. Watch your six.
Good luck. Keep your eye on the ball, and your teammates, and the other team, and the umpire, and...well, everything.
2007-08-07 11:53:06 · answer #2 · answered by John N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was being sarcastic, i believe. He probably wanted to hear something more reassuring than "i dont know..........guess we have to see what happens. He might have preferred to hear you say "I am confident we can make it work and i am will to put 100% of my effort into it". He obviously wants the relationship, but he wants to know how that you feel the same way. Mind you, i was not there and i dont know the full conversation, so this is mereely opinion.
2007-08-07 11:48:23 · answer #3 · answered by kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you and instead of you going with the flow of things and taking them for what they are - you are now putting doubt out there that he didn't feel and so he's upset that you now doubt the relationship. He likes you and is willing to work with you and you are ready to just give up - which is not the answer he wanted. Not rocket science here, you know.
2007-08-07 11:47:43 · answer #4 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He likes you he just wants to see where the relationship will take both of you!
2007-08-07 11:44:45 · answer #5 · answered by barrenwolves 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wanted to make sure that you and he were on the same page in waiting to see what the future brings to the relationship you two are in good luck
2007-08-07 11:46:23 · answer #6 · answered by sassysandyinmi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋