how do i get over my girlfriend?

Question

she broke up wih me yesterday and said we should just be friends after 2 months of a perfect relationship i dont know why but i cryed when she told me and i cryed this morning i keep thinking about everything we did together and we use to say we love each other soooo much but it seemed she didnt even care and we lost it to eachother how could she do this? when will i not care anymore that she broke up with me and u think she'll want me back im really depresses should i call her

Answer 1

go have sex with her best friend.

Answer 2

Well, don't call her. Make her miss you. Make her feel like she made a mistake, and the best way to do that is to pretend like she doesn't exist, and I promise you, it will get better. Look, this is only the day after, so it hurts the most now, but just focus on yourself and living life without her. Each day hurts a little bit less, TRUST ME ON THIS!

I was going through a similar situation this summer, and it just so happened that me and my ex got back together. I am much more distant from him now because he broke it off with me, but he realizes what he could have lost out on, and he was practically begging me back. When he realized that I am a beautiful girl and at any moment I could be SOMEONE ELSES girlfriend, he decided to come to his sense.

That's what you have to do. Go out and try to find you someone else, even if it's only for friendship, and do not call her. Give her a chance to miss you. Be sure that you LOOK GOOOOOOOD everywhere you go and if you see her out in public, be respectful but very standoff-ish from her to let her know that her time has passed. In your mind and heart, you may not want her time to be over, but your job is to not let her know that. If you are too clingy to her, she will always see you as a BACK UP PLAN, and you don't want to be that guy she always keeps on the back burner.

Whatever you do, make the choice that's right for you and follow your heart and everything will be ok........bk

Answer 3

Of course you are depressed. It just freakin' happened yesterday! Give yourself some time. It happens to everyone. Two months is nothing. You'll be over it in less than that time, provided you let yourself. And whatever you do, do NOT try to be friends and do NOT call her. That's like burning yourself and then reaching back into the fire for no reason. Let the girl go, keep yourself busy, hang out with your friends, have some fun, and you'll get over it. Then you can find a girl that is ready for a relationship. This happens to almost everbody. Everybody else gets over it if they try. You will too!

Answer 4

Man, don't call her she will be annoy about it. It's hard but you have to move on with your life. When one of my girlfriends broke up with me, I thought all this time wasted on her when I could find someone who would accept me for me. If you really need some advise, then pretend you don't care about her. If you use to hang together in any place, make yourslef like you are having a good time. Hang out with friends, but DO NOT TALK ABOT HER, ok? Maybe she would feel guilty and maybe try to get back to you. But if it doesn't work, show your nice guy to the next girl. If you are going to cry, best way is to do it by yourself. WHY? Do you want your friends to continue talking about it? It will just remind you of the pain. I hope this helps. Hang in there!

Answer 5

I can't say i know how you feel. Because i can't imagine being without my husband. I have felt that once when he said he wanted a divorce it's the most awful feeling i had a big lump in my throat. You know how i get over stuff? Well i go to the gym and work out so much it takes the stress out of my life. Then it gives me so much confidence and motivation to say What was i thinking crying over spilled milk?, I just workout look good, maybe call a couple of friends go out shoot pool, go dancing. Trust me there are plenty of fish in the sea to be killing yourself over one person. Later she'll see you buffed up and in top shape. Then if she does you tell her Hmmmm, I'll think about it i have a lot to do on my schedule. She might come around she might not. But quit waisting your life over one person when you can eventually find someone who your really meant to be with. She wasn't your soul mate. Everything happens for reasons, she wasn't right for you and if she is she'll come back. Hope you feel better!

Answer 6

It's okay to be sad and to cry. Give yourself three days or so, then quit sniffling and get yourself back in the game. Doesn't mean you have to be happy, just quit crying. You had a disappoinment and you are allowed to mourn for a period of time. Then start hanging w/ your friends and doing fun things again. You'll always have theawesome memories of a good first love, but you'll move on. Each relationship brings gifts to your life, think of what you've gained, not of what you've lost.

Answer 7

Being in love, is a "non-real" world where people have totally unrealistic expectations. "In love" is a deviation from reality and the consequences are what you expect- high "highs" and low "lows".

Everyone goes through this but the feelings you have are not really about this person who has moved on, the feelings are things in your head that you have to over-come.

The quickest way to move on is to get another GF, but don't get as emotionally attached or you will just go through the same experience.... sorry, but "in love" is a temporary thing, it does not last more than 6 months, in most cases, with anyone.

Answer 8

Man, I know. It's tough. You have to get back into the game. She's lying to you anyway, there's a man she wants and she's already met him. Whatever fine memories you have of the relationship, put them aside and go forth. Keeping her in your mind will torture you and prevent you from moving on. Forget and advance, go to some functions and/or clubs. Meet people and find a new lover. Don't cry or think little of yourself. She is a free person as are you. You will eventually find another and she will be better.

Answer 9

DONT CALL HER
she will only hurt ur feelings even more

u know how u can get her attention again

suck up all the crying

and pretend that everything is great in ur life
and if u see her tell her she did the right thing to break up wit u
cuz u r happy now

watch her want ur attention


good luck
and how to go over this

it will take time and keep ur self occupied

Answer 10

DO NOT CALL HER. Give yourself time to process the break up. It will feel bad for a while. Allow that. But don't call her and if she calls you DON'T ANSWER. You'll need space in order to get past this. Yes, it hurts because you two shared something special but you're young and you will find someone better for you. In the meantime, go slowly and allow yourself time to just feel like junk. Hang out with your friends. Play some video games. Read. Go for a run. Give yourself a week and you'll begin to feel better. Then you can find someone just right for you.

Answer 11

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone new ; )
nah but seriously you need to move on. You need to except that it's over but life moves on. I know now it might seem like the end of the world but things will get better. Time heals all wounds. Don't be angry at her, don't hate her. She must have had a good reason for leaving you. maybe you could still be friends. make sure you keep yourself busy. watch tv or go out with friends. you need to keep your mind off her! AND DO NOT LISTEN TO ANY LOVE SONGS!!!! get out the hip hop or the heavy metal. don't want to get back with her. there's no point wanting to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you! you'll be ok in time.