Is it normal for a woman to not be attracted to men who are criminals or rebels and don't date men to change them because she knows she can't change anyone but herself?
2007-08-07 08:11:28 · 23 answers · asked by earth_dragonai 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You've absolutely got you head on straight!!! If you keep thinking the way you are, you're going to save yourself a lot of heart aches as life goes on. That's why so many women get themselves in over their heads. They think they can change a person if only they have the chance to. How wrong of them. You're rite on the mark when you say no one can change anybody but themselves. Been there TRIED to do that, learned the hard way. Good thinkin, just continue to do so!
2007-08-07 08:18:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sue C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't date the bad guys either!..You aren't the only one and changing a man will never happen because he is who he is already why change him for you. If you fell in love with him when you first met him and the way he looked why would you want to change that. Its perfectly normal! There is nothing wrong with you because if there was then there would be something wrong with me!
2007-08-07 15:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by Simply Lisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with you 100 percent and I also am not attracted to bad guys and know many who are not and it is completly normal. That is so true the only person you can truly change is yourself and I cant stand those people who make projects out of people.
2007-08-07 15:15:11 · answer #3 · answered by NONAME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That whole "bad boys are hot" thing was retarded to begin with. The kind of women who go for that are usually the kind of people that should be avoided anyway.
So no its not unusual, I've never known a good woman to go in for that sort of thing. Leave that for the Britney Spears's of the world.
2007-08-07 15:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Xenjo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me I have experience coz most of my relationships have been with bad guys. There is nothing wrong with not being attracted to them you are smart. So the answer to your question is no there is nothing wrong with the way you feel.
Don't change your mind the bad ones are nothing but trouble!
2007-08-07 15:17:57 · answer #5 · answered by sam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would u date a criminal think about that one. Good guys will always care for a girls and bad guys will just care about sex.
Good guys all the way.
2007-08-07 15:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is ok. last year at the beginning of school I was attracted to a bad boy. But later I saw the real him and I thought he was the ugliest thing! If you are scared about being attracted to him, it will eventually fade away. It's ok
2007-08-07 15:15:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normal I would say no, but smart is a definite YES! Just because you are able to see reason is no reason to think you are weird, it sounds as if you really want someone that you can trust and confide in and know that your secrets are safe with him. You want someone that you know will be there to catch you if you fall. Keep on thinking your way and get the man you deserve.
2007-08-07 15:15:03 · answer #8 · answered by marissaklump2004 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That isn't normal at all. A girl like that is FAR more sensible than most of the girls I've ever met. Why would you put yourself through that stress, that trouble? I congratulate you and hope you can infect others with your personality.
2007-08-07 15:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by mantleofearth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a casualty in the war of love, I can say one things. Most women love the badboy (and love the assholes)
Sad to say nice guys finish dead last.
2007-08-07 15:18:51 · answer #10 · answered by Cavor 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋