2007-08-07 10:01:26 · 19 answers · asked by mercury31 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Teach him you dolt!
2007-08-07 10:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Be happy and satisified and content that you have a good man that treats you well and loves you. Some search all theri lives and never find that. I don't know your age or his. Marriage is not all about sex. If you need it, he may not be able to preform normally but he still has a hand and kisses, that are very useful and may learn to use toys for you. Don't go looking for it somewhere else and ruin a good thing.
2007-08-07 17:16:41 · answer #2 · answered by lana s 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are married, get to a counselor. There are a number of possible explanations you could give on what you mean by meeting needs. Bad technique, frequency, you don't find him attractive and do not get turned on. Some of these can be fixed. Some of these could lead you to infidelity.
2007-08-07 17:10:50 · answer #3 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to talk with him , show him trust and love and try to get him some books to teach him how to do it in a way that satisfy ur needs as he always does with anything else and good luck to u both .
2007-08-07 17:07:17 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be thankful you have a man who understands you and treats you right. And know that you can't have absolutely everything and a "perfect man" doesn't exist. And consider - would you rather have a man who is an animal in bed but treats you like junk or a man who treats you like gold but is average in bed? I think that's an easy choice! (Or should be anyways)
2007-08-07 17:06:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
if he's worth it work it out if not, there's plenty of fish in the sea girlfriend. My man tried that with me until he realized i could have ANY MAN I WANT, then he got scared of losing me and he started to "take care of business" finally after years of waiting for him, and now i get it whenever i want, because he doesn't want to lose me to someone else.
2007-08-07 17:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Sexy Anna 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like a good time to learn together. Remember the home work, LOTS of home work
2007-08-07 17:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by BTP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your man what you like and what you would like for him to do. Don't assume he knows it all. Women don't come with an owners manual.
2007-08-07 17:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by D.I.L.L.I.G.A.F. 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sex is a huge part of a successful relationship...if he's not satisfying you, you need to tell him what he needs to do...talk to him, teach him....if he still can't do it you'll have to decide to forget about great mind blowing sex or you'll have to find a friend w/ benefits to help you out...
2007-08-07 18:08:12 · answer #9 · answered by Cupcakes Moosey! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh I have so been here. You have to teach him how to meet your needs!!!
2007-08-07 19:32:31 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps you both could see a therapist together to work out your differences.
He really does need to learn how to please you too. Sometimes it works to tell him that he can't have "any" unless he pleases you first.
2007-08-07 17:16:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋