Told you one the phone "Oh, you will get over it and forgive me like you always do" I think it means that he is saying he can get away with anything. He said he didn't mean it that way...he said he meant it like I'm a very forgiving person.
Oh and by the way the reason I was mad at him was because a girl answered his cell phone and he grabbed it from her and said "Baby, can I call you back?" then I hear the girl in the background go "Baby?" he said she was a friend that didn't know he had a girlfriend...but I think he is full of crap!
But I am a very forgiving person and I am more hurt about what he told me on the phone then the girl...I will never know for sure if he was telling the truth about the girl anyways.
2007-08-07 09:59:01 · 17 answers · asked by Courtney [gimpy] 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Okay...well dumping him is a lot harder then you think. He can be extremely sweet and he did write me a long writtin out apology for what he did. He told me I can even meet this girl. Also, he has never done this before with a girl (that I know of) and the last time I got mad at him is because he didn't tell me he had a one year old daughter...but that problem was solved quickly. He has not done too many bad things in the past.
2007-08-07 10:21:24 · update #1
Don't take him back. He is basically telling you that he takes advantage of you being a nice person. Don't be so nice. Decide to only be nice and forgiving to people worthy of that treatment. He is NOT one of them. He is going to break your heart again and again if you let him.
2007-08-07 10:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he is taking advantage of you, one way or another and in his heart it was not a compliment.
Are you married? Get to a counselor.
If you are in a sexual committed relationship, you need to tell him you think he has breached your trust with this other girl who is a friend (that means known a long time) who did not know he had a GF. That means he was not being honest. And that is the best scenario. The worst scenario, you can imagine yourself.
2007-08-07 17:06:53 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfithius 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His story seems plausible.He wouldnt call you baby on the phone in front of a girl he was cheating on you with!!!
I would be mad about him assuming you would forgive him.And sure you can be mad that another girl answered his phone.But mad enough to break up with him? If you love him this isn't really that big of a deal.
2007-08-07 17:14:36 · answer #3 · answered by deathbykerosene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What he said and what he supposedly meant is the same thing. You will get over it and forgive him like you always do because you are a very forgiving person.
You're not over reacting btw.
2007-08-07 17:18:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump the *** and let him know who's boss. There's no way in hell I would ever put up with that kind of attitude. I have way more self respect than that. Hopefully you do as well!
2007-08-07 17:02:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, you should already know the answer.
Sound like you let him walk all over you.
Go find someone who won't walk all over you or take advantage of you, or better yet, one who won't run around on you.
2007-08-07 17:06:01 · answer #6 · answered by Sean C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would never take a guy back after that. If this person was actually a "friend", he wouldn't have asked to call you back.
2007-08-07 17:03:50 · answer #7 · answered by Jen0408 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He meant it the way you're taking it. Unless you want to stay with someone who walks all over you, you probably shouldn't take him back.
2007-08-07 17:04:22 · answer #8 · answered by Saphira 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not unless you want more of what he has already been giving...Seems like he will not change anytime soon- so you might have to be the one to do something different for anything to be different.........
2007-08-07 17:05:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if he is not willing to loyal and honest you are not willing to build a one-sided relationship!!!
2007-08-07 17:03:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋