im dating a girl who is divorced because she cheated on her husband, who she has no kids with. I recently found out that she has not removed the names of the guy she cheated on her husband with or her ex husband. I asked her to remove them because it bothered me. She didn't, even after several times asking. She said she wont because she felt it was on principle that she shouldn't and that it felt like i was telling her what to do...am i wrong for asking her to remove the #'s or should i just let it slide and trust her? thanks for your responses everyone!
2007-08-07 08:04:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i meant she didnt remove the name from her phone...sorry
2007-08-07 08:06:29 · update #1
...but what if i spend every night with her and sleep there and she says she loves me and wants to start a life with me and wants me to forget about her past and move on...because our present and future isn't her past....
2007-08-07 08:21:08 · update #2
when could she cheat?....i mean...come on...she would have to be pretty slick to pull anything off...she said she also recently changed her email to get away from her EX but she keeps the number in the phone...shady? or no?
2007-08-07 08:22:08 · update #3
Dude, go find yourself a new woman. This one is trash, toss her in the dumpster and move on. She doesn't really respect you and given her track record she is probably going to end up cheating on you. Find a good woman.
2007-08-07 08:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about removing their number's from a phone? Boy if that is the case....then you had better run...she is a controlling woman. She has no reason to keep those numbers in her phone....sounds like she wants to keep them in case you don't work out.
2007-08-07 15:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you trust her she's a cheater.What makes you think you are going to be different that the other guys shes cheated on.You will be wondering if shes cheating for the rest of your days together.
2007-08-07 15:57:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my advice, date her, but nothing serious. just use her as a booty call and that's about all. start keeping your options open to other people. the reason i say this is because there is a good possiblity that she will cheat on you with both of those guys and probably others.
2007-08-07 15:19:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wants YOU to forget her past, but SHE keeps phone numbers of old flames on her phone?
That makes no sense whatsoever. Dump her for being stupid enough to say such a thing.
2007-08-07 15:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a micro detail person aint ya ? stop acting like a douche and take what you can when you can without stressing the unimportant
2007-08-07 15:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, she should remove him...if she don't...dump her, find someone who can be faithful...because she will cheat on you too...w/ the same man...sigh =(...sounds to me you need someone who is faithful like yourself...go find her! good luck!
2007-08-07 15:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by elvlayarvvi fEisty wife and mom 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
On principle!
What crap. She is testing you to see how much crap you will take.
Principle!
What principle she's a cheater.
2007-08-07 16:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it has been known to you about her trust then why you are so sticky, you too also should leave and let her live in her own way.
2007-08-07 15:10:13 · answer #9 · answered by Iqbal H 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋