I had an on-off again affair with a guy for three years - recently, he said he doesn't want to email as much during the day. That is was taking a lot of focus off his work and that we were emailing more so than many husbands and wives. Now he just emails me once a day and says "how's it going?" Is he not interested in me anymore - he claims he is a lot...
2007-08-07 08:05:40 · 21 answers · asked by kittygirlwhoilove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe he discovered that he has a wife.
2007-08-07 08:10:40 · answer #1 · answered by LaLa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if he is at work, then he really should be concentrating at work. I guess the real question is do you two communicate when you are out of work? If not then there may be a slight chance he is moving on to something or someone else. Good Luck
2007-08-07 15:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by charm_link 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be distracting him from his job during work hours, or sending personal email to him at work, except on an occasional basis (once a week). It is not appropriate. It wasn't appropriate before.
Conduct your personal business on your personal time and your personal computer (and his too).
2007-08-07 15:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by treebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question I'm going through something similar. my friend was all in then all of a sudden he wasn't.so that made me wonder what made you change so quickly .it could be that he can't spend that extra time to keep emailing you or he's losing interest. but space it out that way you'll have time to miss him and vise versa.
2007-08-07 15:18:00 · answer #4 · answered by SYNCERE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all don't you have a man? what is wrong with you? does your husband know that this has been going on for 3 yrs? you have lost your mind and now your getting what you deserve. it came back to bite you in the butt and i hope both of you get found out.
2007-08-07 15:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by towmater 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is still interested otherwise you would not hear from him. It sounds like he genuinely cares for you, but maybe his work is important to him too. Take a bit of a step back and maybe not answer his email for a day or two, then tell him you was busy but its nice to hear from him, I think you need to play a little bit of hard to get otherwise he might get bored. Trust me it will be worth it. good luck
2007-08-07 15:11:24 · answer #6 · answered by juliewylie29 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Poor little you! Do women like you ever consider the wife when you take up with a married man? It's called karma and I hope it kicks you in the butt!
2007-08-07 15:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
YOU are married!!! why don't you worry about your husband instead of this idiot who probably sleeps with a FEW people more than you and his wife. Get yourself tested for some STD's is what I suggest.
2007-08-07 15:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ginger 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably is still interested...just wants 2 cool off a bit...all relationships slow down a bit...if he wasnt interested at all he probably wouldnt email you at all if he wasnt...just relax a bit and play it cool back...if hes really interested then he will come running wen you cool it off aswell cos he will wonder what is up...chill out love. what will be will be...dont go chasing him...that will just make him run...x
2007-08-07 15:13:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's probably trying to make things right in his marriage--or he found someone else to cheat with. Get a man to call your own--there is no glory in sharing a man.
2007-08-07 15:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by HeIsMyAllinAll 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he found a new woman...too bad you'll have to settle for the man you married...I can imagine how hard that must be on you.
2007-08-07 15:15:08 · answer #11 · answered by luckygurl284 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋