So my boyfriend is moving and I am afraid that he will forget about me when he goes to college. I don't want to loose him. He is everything that I have ever wanted and he is leaving to college. I just don't want to lose him. I am scared. I just don't want to be cheated on. He hasn't given me a reason to think that he will but I am just scared. college other girls
2007-08-07 03:44:37 · 4 answers · asked by Lita 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
From the wording of your question, I will venture to say that you are still in high school. I hate to be pessimistic, but I can't say that there is an overwhelming amount of evidence out there that is in support of you guys being together in the long run. I am 22 and was with my b/f since I was 16. I just recently found out of his infedility and it brought to the surface that many of the people around me have also dealt with the same type of situation. It's just that no one likes to talk about it.
When you are young and in love, you can be blinded by the harsh truth of the world. The truth is, a man who gets committed at a very young age will inevitably cheat; this is a fact that I would venture to say occurs in at least 95% of relationships, if not more. It's 2007, women are more premiscuous, therefore men have more choices. You must understand, though: if he does cheat, it is not due to anythign you did. Monogamy is a very hard thing for men, especially if they have only been in 1 serious relationship since a young age and are about to move away to college.
I'm sure there will be much rebuttle to my statements.... that is fine, I completely welcome optimism in love! I only wish it were more rampant in our society as we are consumers, not producers.
Sorry to be so harsh, but I truly wish someone would have told this to me before I put in 6 years with a seemingly perfect guy.... who I would have never guessed in a million years cheated. Good luck, sweetie!
2007-08-07 03:58:55 · answer #1 · answered by Hey now! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distance is expensive and tough ordinarily. vacationing might desire to be arranged with the aid of the two events each time attainable or attainable. on line time and make contact with calls help too. With technologies immediately, you relatively dont might desire to attend to speak anymore. i might manage with the guy regulations relating to the communique element on account which you the two might get sucked up into purely conversing instead of residing existence. a protracted distance relationship is somewhat like this: a million. stay your functional a single guy or woman 2. Act like a taken guy or woman. you will possibly desire to stay your existence as in case you're single to maintain your innovations occupied between visits, yet you will possibly desire to behave such as you have some one on your existence (in spite of in the event that they arent modern-day), meaning each and all the couple regulations nevertheless word. Its relaxing, yet stressful.
2016-11-11 11:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by tahir 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is essential for a good relationship. Long distance relationship is really difficult. If you don't trust your partner then it is better to go on your separate ways. Peace!
2007-08-07 03:51:45 · answer #3 · answered by allanrockz8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Getting engaged would (should) prevent this. Unless you make a commitment, the field is open.
2007-08-07 13:26:32 · answer #4 · answered by RB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋