When a couple breaks-up, and the man is still in love and goes after her, will she get tired of this or will she feel good about it? This is my case. She broke up with me yesterday but I still love her and I don't want to loose her but I don't want to scare her away so should I give her space?
2007-08-07 02:15:31 · 6 answers · asked by Con4Life 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
What you do is let her know you are unhappy about the break up and are willing to talk and work out the issues that have caused the break up. You can tell her this in a very short letter or by leaving her a message. I would not advise you to tell her this in person or on the telephone as you may begin to break down and she will notice. You do not want to come off as needy. If you find that she is not willing to be ready to do this, then what you do is let her know that she gives you no other option but to accept it and wish her well. After saying this, you leave her alone. By this I mean no phone calls, no nothing. She will regain respect for you and know that it will be her decision to make the next move if she changes her mind and decides she wants you back. Most times when a person breaks up they do so as a way to make a statement, to be heard regarding things that were not worked on in the past. Sometimes people use a break up as a tool to wake up the other partner to reality and force that person to look at the problems in the relationship. If you beg this will teach her that breaking up works to get the attention she seeked. By you letting her know that her freedom is secure, that you will not stand in her way, she will begin to wonder if indeed she really does want to be free. This happens in most cases, I do not know all the circumstances in your case, but if it turns out she truly broke up with you because she just does not care anymore, then at least you will come out of it with your pride intact. I do hope it all works out for you. Best of luck!
2007-08-07 02:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how you broke up was it left open for reconciliation? Does she want you to fight for her? Do you think she wants you back if so then do anything and everything romantic you can think of ... if not then back off give space send flowers or a card saying you miss her that is it.
2007-08-07 02:33:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her some space to breathe. You could send her some flowers, but I would not call. That will let her know that you are thinking of her, and leave the ball in her court if she wants to work things out.
2007-08-07 02:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by ~*Live*~*Laugh*~*Love*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should give her some space. She will either miss you and come back or figure out that this is what she wanted and move on. You may find some different feelings also.
2007-08-07 02:21:32 · answer #4 · answered by Laura Z 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was stunned to read this "I still love her and I don't want to loose her".
I do not want to answer this in harsh words but you need to use your mind and stop running after her, I don't want to see in tears after a month or two, get wiser, don't trust people for your own sake
2007-08-07 02:45:19 · answer #5 · answered by Goldman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No stalking ok, you do not want the police knocking at your door.
2007-08-07 02:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by kim t 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋