I am curently in a relationship with "victoria". For certain reasons we were on and off for 2 years (nothing we did wrong) but every time i was in a realtionship i would always see my first crush, stacie. I went to middle school with stacie when i was 13, we talked maybe a couple times, but for me it was love at first sight i guess.. Long story short thats as far as i got with her, but through out the years i've always seen stacie when i was with a girl, and then my mind starts wandering. Well last night I had a dream i saw stacie (it was a graduation) and i asked for her number and she gave it to me.. Whats this all mean?? I love "victoria".. she really is my everything.. I'm 22 by the way and i find it odd i still think about my crush of 9 years ago..
2007-08-07 02:33:53 · 4 answers · asked by twiztid642 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i never went out with stacie.. it was just a huge crush on my part..
and i dont have stacie's number (just got in the dream)
2007-08-07 03:30:45 · update #1
We all have our bouts of nostalgia - well, if it's just thoughts and you don't act on them by calling her up and becoming close to her again, you have nothing to worry about.
2007-08-07 02:50:16 · answer #1 · answered by bronzedgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try to find Stacie? You know where your heart is. If she's married then that's probably that. I think it's normal, I still remember my first love. After all, it's the one, as mismatched as it may be, it was better than all the rest. Ah.
Maybe V's heart is wandering also. Why not ask her and listen to what you feel and not to what she says? Usually a dream is telling you something. That may be it. Men need to get in touch with their intuition and gut feelings better. A smart person would look up emotional maturity and emotional intelligence on the net. You have to dig a little, but it's a whole new life for you. It's just about true to say your head won't lead you right, but your heart will, but that really depends on somewhat how much you understand it.
2007-08-07 10:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just curiosity. Get her number the next time you see her and talk to her. After a hour conversation you will know if you want to pursue it or not. Victoria mat be hurt if you leave her but at least you will not be wondering what could have been.
2007-08-07 09:41:04 · answer #3 · answered by My two cents 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, its normal.
2007-08-07 09:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by thesweetestthings24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋