I want to meet my future wife in high school?

Question

I want to meet my future wife in high school. Here is my outline.
Go to college. Major in Meterology.
-Doctors Degree(age 27)
-Get Married(25-27)
- Get a Job for the first 3-5 years(27-32)
- Have two-three children(30-40)

Answer 1

ok and your question is?

Answer 2

So what is your question then? This is a question and answer forum, not a "Hey, look at me!" forum.

Regarding your schedule and marriage.... not happening. If you try to "schedule" your entire life and factor love in there, your schedule is going to look more like this:

- Get Married(25-27)
- Doctors Degree(age 27)
- Have one child (28)
- Get a Job for the first 3-5 years(27-32)
- Get divorced (28)
- Get married again (30)
- Have two-three children(30-35)
- Get divorced (35)
- Work late at nights to pay child support
- etc. etc.

Keep the schedule for everything BUT getting married. Let love take care of itself. If you force it into your schedule, if it happens at all it won't happen well. I guarantee it.

Answer 3

No, you should wait a bit, Meet her in college, looks like you are going to be there for a while. High school comes with so much drama, and people change so much after they leave high school. Trust me, I was there not to long ago. It is ok to date in high school, but don't plan on finding the one there, when there are so many more out there to look at, date and hang out with. Plus, chicks dig doctors.
I would date, ALOT, enjoy yourself, go to school, have fun with your friends. Join a faturinity. Then when the right girl comes along, you will know. Besides a plan like that never works. I had a plan too, to be married by 23, kids by 25. Well I am 26 and just go married. So the plan is not exactly following the course. Enjoy your time now, while you can.

Answer 4

I think you should wait to meet your wife in college or after college.
I say this because in high school, you are still young. What you find interesting and important in high school will change by the time you are ready to attend or graduate college. You mature.
I think you should take the time to discover what type of woman you are truly interested in.
Being married and attending college full time is also a difficult thing. You are torn between wife/family obligations and those of school.
I think you should re-think your time line a little.
Build in time for yourself to live alone and get to know you. You don't want to move out of your parents house, into a dorm (with other people) into a house with a wife. You need time and space to live alone to determine what your personal, emotional and financial needs are. Therefore, you are better able to explain to your future spouse the things that are important to you.
Best wishes!

Answer 5

You can't have an outline in your life. It's great to be organized and to really want to have your life planned out, but life is never that structured. It's highly unlikely that you'll meet the girl of your dreams in high school. But you have to keep an open mind and remember that life is fluid and changing. So good luck with your outline and i hope you do get everythign you wish for. Just be ready for to make changes as Life moves on. Also, don't rush love it's best to wait until you are absolutely positive that is who you wanna spend you're life with.

Best of luck to you! I hope everything works out!

Answer 6

While your outline is a good one...Life is sometimes unpredictable and as long as you understand your time line may change at some point, you will be fine. Don't be too strict with "The Plan", some things are meant to happen. If at any point you think your not on track...you really are where your supposed to be. Life has lessons, good luck!!

Answer 7

heh, nice thought but life never works out according to a set plan. Good luck with that though. Just be prepared for that one event that will throw that all out of wack

Answer 8

life is not always good when stuck on a plan. im in highschool and my boyfriend and I already talking about getting engaged. No kidding here. it is possible but the one for you might not be there. keep looking but dont ruch. live your life as it comes and always have one eye looking out for her

Answer 9

Hey if this works out for you, more power to you. But don't get upset and dicouraged if you don't find her in high school.

Good luck.

Answer 10

Plans like that never work out.

Answer 11

good outline : ) but i don't know about finding a wife in high school. i know that it happens but it seems just a little too fairy tale perfect you know? well... have a good life