I already have some great friends who treat me well, but one in particular is nasty when she doesn't get her way. She tells me that I would be the cause if she ever commited suicide because my parents won't let me spend the night at her house, she was bluffing. She also said last week that I cheated in a game (I didn't) at her party and she sent me home. She really upsets me and stresses me out. At my school it never matters how your friends treat you, the more you have the better, but I'm not like that. I would rather have 1-2 good friends then a bunch of nasty ones. my question is, should I not be friends with this girl anymore?
2007-08-07 02:52:02 · 10 answers · asked by Emilia 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm going into high school and I don't want to deal with her anymore.
2007-08-07 02:57:36 · update #1
I dont' think you shoudl sweetie. Don't hate her. But that doesn't mean that you have to be around her either. You deserve better than that and she has no right to treat you that way and you need to show her that she CAN'T treat you that way. If you continue to let her treat you this way, then she'll know she can get away with it and she will take advantage of you. People can only make you feel as powerless as you LET them make you feel.
So stop letting her. She's not a good freind to you and you deserve better. She needs to realize if she treats people like that she will lose them.
Good luck sweetie.
^_^ hope i helped!
2007-08-07 02:56:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way should you keep a nasty friend. Even if she is nasty to everybody else EXCEPT you. Who wants to be around that??? No real friend would send you home over a silly game. She sounded like a sore loser to me...She is completely negative and has self esteem issues.And any talk about suicide should set off an alarm whether she appears to be joking or not. This girls needs some serious counseling because she is taking out her insecurities and problems with herself out on YOU. She is not healthy for you. Friends are supposed to bring joy, happiness,comfort and be able to comfort you when you feel the opposite. They are supposed to support you even when you make a mistake. She doesn't sound like that kind of friend. I think you should let her know that you guys friendship isn't the type of friendship you wish to be involved in. She may have a few harsh words but I'd rather take a few harsh words at the moment than keep receiving harsh words over a long period of time. Tell her to kick ricks and keep it moving.... Good Luck...
2007-08-07 10:04:18 · answer #2 · answered by CoolBeans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should consider her a friend. You surely don't need one like that. Don't go with the norm just to fit in. I know it's difficult to do, but stand up for yourself and tell her you're not going to allow her to treat you that way. If she's talking about a suicide, she needs some serious help. Trying to blame you for that is horrible. Don't let her control you like that. Good luck and be strong!
2007-08-07 10:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, Come and be my friend. you sound like a Decent person. You actully sound a little bit like me. i would also would rather have 1 or 2 good friends, rather then theses so called "friends" (which i wouldn't even call a freind, because REAL TRUE friends woulnd't treat you like that)
i personlly can't be friends with someone who is nice to me one minute and acting like a spoit ***** the next. i would not put up with it. I'd be telling her to Grow up!! Besides, you probably won't keep in contact with all your friends when you leave school anyway.
2007-08-07 10:01:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest u give a little time to ur friend, look carefully how she treats u. after a while than u can hav an idea of moving away from her but don't show to her that u are no longer interested in her ways. Be close but take care of her she might one day throw u into a hole of lions. try it.................
K.
2007-08-07 10:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Get away from her, she's toxic.
As a teen you have enough stresses every day without having a 'friend' blame you for suicidal thoughts and make false accusations to you.
2007-08-07 09:55:39 · answer #6 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should definately not associate yourself with negative people. Its obvious that she has something against you. I would make sure to talk this over to your good friends and ge their advice. They may notice these things as well or may have been in the same situation.
2007-08-07 09:57:08 · answer #7 · answered by Fabian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you need a break from this person? then you may come back and talk to her and tell her how you feel and see what she says. maybe she can change how she treats you. or you can do things with other people
2007-08-07 09:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by Tivogal 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to continue being friends with her and try to ignore her nastiness...
2007-08-07 09:55:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't waste your life by hanging out with ignorance
2007-08-07 09:55:54 · answer #10 · answered by ndbt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋