How many out there use a vibe during intercourse? Like, holding it on the "spot" while you are doing it. Just curious. my wife always uses one. I don't have a problem with it, but I think she has gotten to where she doesn't want to do it without it. i mean she doesnt have to use it, but I guess it intensifies things.
2007-08-07 02:36:57 · 11 answers · asked by DMV 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I think it's okay to want to be playful and try new things in the bedroom but, if all you want is to keep things there then where is the pleasure from your mate?? How is that allowing you to enjoy one another? Sex should be about two people giving and pleasing each other..It should be full of intensity and excitement but, if only one person is feeling that and it's not by the other person but, through a device then I guess why bother...She's relying on a toy to climax and I think she should allow you to be the cause of that...
2007-08-07 02:45:47 · answer #1 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used a vibe twice in my life and had even bought one. They are "magical" and do wonders that is really great, but I had to get rid of mine by choice because I knew that it would eventually desensitize me to the "real" thing and I didn't want that. Men aren't machines nor are they battery operated and I didn't want to take away from the "real deal". I had never used it during intercourse.
2007-08-07 09:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Shelley 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes i use one most all the time. She wants to have an orgasm. Its very hard to get one without touching the "spot", and any woman who denies that is not being 100% honest. Even if you are the most amazing lover in the world, she would still want to touch herself there. It has nothing to do with the man or your size, its got everything to do with our anatomy. Relax your wife just wants to have a really good orgasm. I am married to a guy who is great in bed and he always asks me while we are doing it if I want to use my little toy and the answer is always yes.
2007-08-07 09:48:18 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I use it occasionally. I think it gets in the way, but it is nice to use every once in a while. Usually its my boyfriend that suggests it. It definitely intensifies things.
2007-08-07 09:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Alli 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I use one every once in a while. It does intensify things. some women need that extra stimulation - there's nothing wrong with the man; it's just how women's bodies react sometimes.
2007-08-07 09:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by sunny 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes i have used one but I decided not to use it again cause I didn't want to get desensitized to the real thing because it does that and that is what happened to your wife so in place of using it try your fingers ,try to slowly ween her off of it until she has no use for it anymore I hope this helps and good luck
2007-08-07 09:51:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
occasionally, toys are toys, not for use every single time. You could use your fingers in place of the vibe
2007-08-07 09:41:18 · answer #7 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I've tried it, and toys are distracting, and take up valuable space that is needed to get a good pounding. :)
2007-08-07 10:11:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some reading here or watch more movies.
2007-08-07 09:42:47 · answer #9 · answered by kim t 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it's okay for a EVERY NOW AND AGAIN thing. Anything used EVERY TIME would get annoying and boring!.
2007-08-07 09:41:48 · answer #10 · answered by ally'smom 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋