just curious about his past..to him better..what happen they didnt last..ect..ect.. ect..
2007-08-07 02:34:52 · 27 answers · asked by waki! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We guys have learnt it the hard way, so in order not to give ourselves unnecessary trouble, we do not talk about our exes.
Don't wanna let our current partner to breath down our necks again. Its simple as that.
2007-08-08 02:32:04 · answer #1 · answered by ticktag 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he just wants to move on with his life. I was always bugging my husband about his past and he hated it. There is always reason for why the past is the past. Just try and let it go and be thankful that you are not a part of his past, but instead a part of his now and future. If you pressure him too much on it, it could cost you your relationship or marriage because nothing like that should ever come between you.
2007-08-07 09:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. I don't think it is a good idea to go digging for dirt, just out of curiosity. Sometimes the truth is hard to handle. On the other hand, if a person has an abnormal way of dealing with something because of an ex (or anything else), it probably is a good idea to be honest about it, because it affects you both.
2007-08-07 12:19:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married and then divorced after me meeting my soul mate. My ex wife cheated on me many times with many guys. She was also abusive. My wife knows about what happened but its not something I like to talk about because it only starts bringing up unhappy memory's. It does not mean that I am not over it it means I had a lousy time in my life and I want to focus on the here and now. The now being how much I love my soul mate and how our relationship (marriage) is.
2007-08-07 09:44:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a good topic to discuss to begin with. When my hubby and I were dating I asked him once about past relationships. He told me about all the partners he had and what happened to make the relationship end. I've never brought it up again. I obliged with the same information to him. We've never discussed exes again to this day !! Our past is just that.. our past. We want to concentrate on the here, now and future !!
2007-08-07 10:29:57 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's a sign of maturity. The guy recognizes the past for what it really is...The past. Nothing can be gained from bringing up a bad past. Don't hound him if you want a good relationship.
2007-08-07 09:41:52 · answer #6 · answered by pappysgotitgoinon 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
when your in a serious relationship the past is the past and nothing more. sometimes the past can get you one time an ex seen me and came up to me and my husband came up also well i introduced my ex to my husband and how I did it was Steve this is my husband Joseph and Joseph this is Steve and my husband got a little jealous and mad. but a assured him that this man and I have no future that I would not call or to talk to him threw away his phone number right in front of my husband because the past is the past.
2007-08-07 14:37:50 · answer #7 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel comfortable talking about everything in your past?
I bet there is a person or two that you tend to leave out, or try to forget.
Enjoy your relationship with him now, don't ask him to relive and brig up past relationships.
2007-08-07 09:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why talk about the past? Talk instead of the future that the two of you can make by being together.
2007-08-07 09:45:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just like women always over analyzing things when a guy says he dont want to talk about something damn it it means he dont want to talk about it we guys arent that complex there isnt something hidden that will bring up a painful memory its the past leave it there
2007-08-07 11:50:10 · answer #10 · answered by anthentherwasi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋