ok so b4 my birthday i told my friend that i liked him a lot and then a couple days later i asked him out and he said idk right now since we haven't chilled, so we made plans to hang out and they went through and we had loads of fun so then after we hung out and stuff i asked him if he had an answer for me and he said no i don't so i asked 2 more times within the same week and he still don't so i told my friend and she said just give up on him cuz hes making you wait all this time, i don't know what to do either wait or just give up? help me!
2007-08-07 05:01:40 · 20 answers · asked by kate M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe since you guys are friends he doesn't know because if he dumps you or you dump him either way someone will get hurt, and he doesn't want to ruin your friend relationship. so he probably just needs time to think.
2007-08-07 05:06:18 · answer #1 · answered by Beachblonde B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me he isn't too sure of what he wants cuz you guys did go out and you did have a good time, according to you (I hope this was a mutual feeling). I think you are asking too much, if he was interested he would have indicated so long time maybe you just need to lay off of it and see if he comes around. You probably seem too needy to him and believe me that is a turnoff for most men. Lay off and just be yourself, a good, fun friend and see if he comes around. Good luck!
2007-08-07 05:10:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up on him. He likes the fact that you pay him attention but he just is not into you. Guys don't need to think it over when they want to go out with a girl. If they like her they'll make the seas part to get to her.
2007-08-07 05:05:32 · answer #3 · answered by Dating Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax. Go with the flow. You're putting a lot of pressure on him and that will only drive him away. If he's interested in you he'll come around. Continuing to ask him about it will yield no results.
2007-08-07 05:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by Beth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to say no he doesn't feel the same way without hurting you and loosing you as a friend. Your constant persistance will only serve to push him further away and you'll loose him as a friend. the best thing is to back off.
2007-08-07 05:15:41 · answer #5 · answered by kiki b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he has some type of comimetn problems or has gf but doesn't know how to tell you or maybe he's playing with you but hey its your call i'm just guessing the situation and i think you should a couple more days
2007-08-07 05:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by elpruprulesnoone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should wait. but dont occupy all of ur time into him cause he might not turn out to be all that u thought he was. but i think he just wants to make sure that he wants to be with u before saying yes.
2007-08-07 05:06:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a bit longer and see what happens.If nothing happens listen to your heart and give up on him and move on.Good luck.
2007-08-07 05:05:19 · answer #8 · answered by ER Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ahhh i really dont noe but maybe hes checking to see if u really wanna go out wit him or somtin like dat but seein as it is a gay and a girls only do those things move on hes playing u
2007-08-07 05:05:10 · answer #9 · answered by Unbiased Laker's Fan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN! He sounds like trouble. He is trying to tell you no, but he doesn't want to hurt you! Stop asking him and find a new guy that will want to date you!
2007-08-07 05:05:05 · answer #10 · answered by starryluau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋