she is 18 and 5'0 and i am 14 and 6'1 she knows how old i am and she says that age dosent matter but my parents say that it is illegal. We get along so well and we are perfect for eachother and we are deeply in love but i dont know what to do???
2007-08-07 05:37:13 · 49 answers · asked by Jake p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take it easy with her. Remember, she's a minor.
2007-08-10 06:12:45 · answer #1 · answered by Mario Vinny D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes me sad that people would encourage a child, and yes you are still a child to engage in this type of relationship. You really ought to break it off. At your age you are NOT deeply in love, but deeply infatuated. People won't tell you the truth that some sexually transmitted deceases NEVER leave your body. I seriously doubt you and this person will stay together forever, so all you'll be doing is engaging in an adult activity that may sexually effect your permanent future spouse and yourself, and distract you from what you should be doing, which is going to school, and preparing for your future. By the way, just because you are tall, you may look older or like you belong together, but that is NOT a determining factor for a lasting relationship. Please think about your future. If you are determined to stay with her, then focus on your friendship and leave sex out of it, preferably until you are married, but at least until you are 18.
2007-08-07 05:46:55 · answer #2 · answered by Brain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, but be seriously careful...I mean a lot of people think there's a HUGE problem with that. And I mean SERIOUSLY careful. If you have sex or anything even close then he can get thrown in jail as a pedophile. Honestly you probably SHOULD find someone closer to your own age...I mean, you're barely old enough to not order off the kids menu anymore, you know? But there's nothing WRONG with it. Its just unlikely that it'll go anywhere except downhill. But if you do end up marrying the guy and having kids someday then kudos to you. It can honestly go either way.
2016-05-20 23:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that this girl is eighteen and your fourteen the answer is simple. You need to be smart and keep it in the 14-16 year old female age group because to think that she isn't going to want sex is crazy and she will eventually leave you because you aren't mature enough for her. You guys probably have things in common and are having puppy love but it won't last. Plus you are so young live your life boy and date as many girls you can before you need to be serious.
2007-08-07 05:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Perfect 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What on Earth would an 18 year old see in a 14 year old? You can't even drive!!!
Sexual relations with a minor (that's you) are illegal. The result of statutory rape, which your parents can press charges on without your cooperation, will be many years in prison.
The girl is a fool.
2007-08-07 05:40:24 · answer #5 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
at the end of the day nobody can determind who they fall for and nobody can change the way they feel. so if you are both happy and want to be together then i would say go for it because no age doesnt matter. but your parents are right in a way it is illegal if you take it to the next step but if all you are doing is going out then you are fine just be carefull and be happy. good luck
2007-08-07 05:43:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but a 14 year old cannot be "deeply in love." That's ridiculous. You need to grow up. I don't care how tall you are, you've got the mentality of a child. And that woman needs to grow up herself. Your relationship is illegal!
2007-08-07 05:46:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's illegal for you to perform sexual acts together, and since she is older she will be the one going to jail if you get reported. Since your parents don't seem to like the relationship, they may well report her, so be careful.
I think it's perfectly ok to date her, however. Since you truly love her, your #1 priority should be to keep her out of jail. Don't do anything which will risk her future.
That being said, I think hanging out, hugging, and kissing are perfectly safe for you guys. Sorry the laws are stupid. They are mostly made to protect people, but in cases like yours I think they backfire.
2007-08-07 06:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it is illegal if you have sex and stuff like that, but if yall are truely inlove then yall will be able to wait on that. Yall will be able to wait until you become of age. True Love comes to those who wait. Just dont go too fast. Relax and just hangout. Good Luck to you!
2007-08-07 05:44:40 · answer #9 · answered by justme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ur parents are right it is illegal.. but do they approve.... if ur parents approve i think its ok.... but just wait to get really serious about 2 or three years. By then, u will know that she is right for u and u are right for her. u are young and girls will come and go in ur life since u still go to school. if ur relationship can withstand that, then maybe u two are meant for eachother! only time will tell!
2007-08-07 05:42:16 · answer #10 · answered by Angelluvsu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're 14, you don't know what "deeply in love" means...and what is she doing with a child your age? She must be very immature to find any common ground with a kid 4 years younger...your parents are right, she could wind up in a lot of trouble - don't be in such a hurry to grow up, it ain't all it's cracked up to be.
2007-08-07 05:42:39 · answer #11 · answered by woodlands127 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋