Also why do you think most of those books are geared towards women? as though women ALONE are responsible for the success/failure of a relationship?
2007-08-07 05:00:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, the books dun suggest that women are responsible for the success/failure of the relationship.
Also, these books are pretty tough. If we really follow these books to the letter, then it seems like every man out there is a major ARSeOOle.
2007-08-07 05:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by floozy_niki 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My Pastor says women are made for men not vice versa. True as this may be I hate the fact that they pretty much get to choose and then we either can accept or move around. Sometimes they act like they have it so hard when the truth is we are the ones trying to do the most attracting. When they decide to leave we can't stop them but they can stop us at least to a point. I think they should take those books and set that **** on fire.
2007-08-14 07:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by cjs23navy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Books are basically the authors opinion on how life and relationships work, they, like other people are not perfect. The books give that person's insight. They just give a different perspective on how things work and gives people ideas on how our societal mores work in the mating game.
Some ideas work and some don't. They give people options for their behavior and also acts as a salve to wounded hearts. They are not great, but they can help you get through disappointment and give you hope
2007-08-15 11:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by Ding-Ding 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
HI, If you have to read it from a book, you may have more problems than you think.
All relationships should be 50 / 50 between the man and woman, the other is that a lot of men don't complement their wife's / gf with out them asking to be told.
Some times a box of CHOCOLATES and 14 RED ROSE can show ( more than words can say ) how much she means to you and how much you care for her
2007-08-15 07:26:55 · answer #4 · answered by specops@btinternet.com 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think the books are fun to read but i wouldn't take them seriously because they are based on statistics and personal experience. everyone is different and to generalize in my opinion is setting up for failure. and yeah they are geared towards woman but if you think about it that's because woman are most likely to by and read them. So if you were a writer and knew who was more likely to make you richer wouldn't you just go with it.
2007-08-15 11:04:47 · answer #5 · answered by beautifull103087 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some of the things in those books are valid, and you can always pick up a pointer or two. However, each person is different, and each dating scenario is different, so it's hard to put people's body language and signals into book form.
2007-08-15 11:43:32 · answer #6 · answered by disgruntled600 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Asw far as geared torwards women I think first of ll not alot of men refer to reading books when it comes to relationship problems, but i shure wish they would. Kinda like the reason men will never ask for directions.
2007-08-11 10:25:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think they're crap. Becuase those books usually only focus on one type of guy in just different scenarios. But all guys are different and noone reacts the same way to the same situations. And you're right. It takes 2 to make a relationship work, not just 1. When it becomes one sided then it's time to get out.
2007-08-07 12:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by urstruly8604 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
because men are from mars and women are from venus
2007-08-14 16:02:20 · answer #9 · answered by @NGEL B@BY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋