Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

OK so me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 yrs and have 2 kids, and one on the way, and me and his mother dont get along.She is coming into town for his birthday to go out to dinner and idk what else, but here are some of the reasons we dont get along

1.my friend overheard her telling someone at the store that i runined his lfe and she dont know why he is with me

2.she bought a gift cerfticate for her other sons gf and not me when we had our party together

3.back when our relationship had just started he cheated on me and she took him and his other gf out to eat while knowing i was at home

There is more but I dont feel like getting into it,and he is mad that i wont go with them to dinner i want to stay at home is this wrong of me ????How do i explain why I won't go?

2007-07-18 16:33:21 · 7 answers · asked by mrsking022 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Before we got married I knew that my husband had a previous relationship and from that relationship he had a son. Although, this child has no contact with my husband I can't help but to feel upset by the idea that my husband has a son out there and he has to become a part of our family now (it was just confirmed that my husband IS the father of this child). I don't know how to accept the idea that this child is part of our family and that my husband has to give him love and financial support. Please advise.

2007-07-18 16:29:28 · 17 answers · asked by Bunny 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And has had the child taken from her because of a serious drug addiction and with me having a prior record?

2007-07-18 16:29:23 · 12 answers · asked by RICKY P 1 in Family

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2007-07-18 16:29:19 · 11 answers · asked by ladylynx26 3 in Weddings

my family and I have gonwe through finnacial problems since my early childhood and they have always scraped work to get out of debt and sometimes they did ask ask me to help them out and I didnt mind at first I mean its my family and everything but now that Im older now they gotten even more used to that if they an couple of extra hundred im there and in high school trying to ready my self for the real world but thanks to them I got 90 cents in my acoount

2007-07-18 16:28:36 · 9 answers · asked by johnny 2 in Family

I just realized my hubbie is vomitously ugly...i think i've been under a love potion that just wore off, it's that bad. i can't stand the thought that as soon as he gets home from work i am going to have to go in the same bed with him...if i tell him it will hurt his feelings but if i don't i'll throw up and die. i still like his personality like as a friend but i really love this guy at my church he's in college and 17 years younger than me, but he's waved at me and i look young for my age. help!!!

2007-07-18 16:26:32 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok, i had a sub in my drivers ed class before. and while we were driving he kept on talking to me..towards the end of the lesson he told me that he really loved my voice. there were 2 other students in the car, but i didnt think it was too big of a deal so i just said thanks. after class i went to get my bag and he stood in front of the door blocking it so i couldnt get in. he kept asking me what i wanted..after a minute or so he moved aside and said he was just saying that so he could hear my voice again..he really creeped me out but i figured i would never see him again..wrong. turns out, the next week my teacher needed a student to drive with the sub again because of some complication with another student..and my teacher sent me to drive with him again. when we were heading out, the sub kept bumping against my shoulder with his..and while we were driving he kept starting up conversations with me trying to get me to talk but i kept my answers very short. what do i do?

2007-07-18 16:21:55 · 23 answers · asked by A17 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-18 16:20:45 · 9 answers · asked by Bonita 4 in Singles & Dating

ok now my sister is 6 years old and she has three friends one is jimmy one is i think edgar and they both cuss alot and my sister learning it and she was mouthing off at me to day and she got in big trouble and i don't want het to get in trouble so? and she has a crush on Edgar so they can't see each other for a while and i don't want to hear her wine for a while! SO WHAT SHOULD I? Thanks!

2007-07-18 16:20:17 · 1 answers · asked by you can't see me! 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay so the other night my friend came back to the house to get my cousins key, and she had to find it, and my mom said she heard alcohal in her purse, and she claims to have heard the bottles hit each other, how can i convince my mom it wasnt, and it really wasnt i have no idea what to tell her but that it wasnt! shes pissing me off and she keeps accusing me of things what can i do, i havent done any of them, im about to break down in tears because i have no one to turn to my dad is out of the country my brother moved out, i have my license but she wont let me leave, advice please im sick of her, worst of all she cheats on my dad and i cant tell him because i dont want to break my dads heart, i want to say i hate her, but im always told not to say that! please help

2007-07-18 16:19:51 · 5 answers · asked by leslie g 3 in Family

While I will direct this question to especially womens whom may have been married or in active sexuall relationship, answers fom mens are appericiated too.

2007-07-18 16:18:21 · 5 answers · asked by D.R.M.M's Fairplay's Man 5 in Friends

Okay!, so I've decided to purchase blank invites from Wal-Mart......What's the next step?????
Also, would it be cheaper to print them out on my pc, or take them to a print shop and have them print them?

2007-07-18 16:18:07 · 9 answers · asked by *kOmpLeXx* 2 in Weddings

I just want too know before I ever have sex..

2007-07-18 16:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alright... first thanks so much for clicking.

so... ive been with this girl for like 5 days.
not long at all.

but we go back a whileee.

anyway......

i feel like we arent talking as much. and its making me nerveous because i dont wanna loose this girl.

i really like her.. and i dont know who else to ask. my friend told me... i should go hang out with her again and when the moments right... kiss her. [which i havent yett, yeahh] and see if theres sparks.

but ALSO what im really getting worried about too is... i dont want to it to turn out that she isnt getting boyfriend "vibes" if i may.

past relationships ended up that way. "better friends" they say. and i know in some cases yeah its right... but i just dont know what im doing wrong.

please someone helpp

how am i not being boyfriend like?? what am i doing differently?

thanks a tonnnn whoevers answeringg.

2007-07-18 16:17:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok both me and my b/f are 20 and we both still live w/our parents b/c we go to college. Anyway.... his mom never cooks and only buys fast food every single day for lunch and dinner. Well me and my b/f have been buying groceries and cooking and every night we cook she always is asking what we are making and eats with us. So it is like her son is buying groceries and supplying her when it is actually supposed to be the other way around. I think it is crap and I always cook so I just dont think it is fair that he has to work and pay all his bills then on top of that buy groceries and feed his mom too when she has a job and is capable of taking care of herself. What do you think??

2007-07-18 16:15:26 · 10 answers · asked by greenturtle 1 in Family

I have a tattoo that covers pretty much the whole top part of my back that I want to cover for a wedding next year, anyone got any good ideas? And yes, I am proud of it and dont mind to show it off any other time, but am doing it out of respect for my fiances parents. Any suggestions? I dont want to wear a jacket because the wedding is in May! Thanks!

2007-07-18 16:14:52 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have a 2 1/2 year old son and I am taking care of him full time. Right now the father just takes him every other weekend.he makes likes $14K a month and he pays for our rent and $200 food every 2 weeks. maybe he spent $1500 a month and every other weeks taking my son to spend time with him. Right now he didn't gave us $200 and he said that he will talk to his attorney. Is this because he wants to spend time with him more and he wants to cut our support?he complains about the teeth of my son since he drinks a lot of milk and is there a way that judge can give him the custody because of me feeding my son milk or anything bad that he thinks i don't take care of my son? Will this be the cause that he will win the custody? We are not married too and i took care of my son all his life and now that he is big he wants him..I don't have a job and I am a full time mom and he makes more a lot more. What are my rights? Do i have to hire a attorney too?Pls.help/

2007-07-18 16:13:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-18 16:12:39 · 11 answers · asked by ms chip dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I thought my friend and I sleeping together was a one-time thing because he said we're "just friends"and it was a "birthday gift."The next day, I felt rotten because I really have feelings for him and I thought I was being led on just to be hurt for the thousandth time. So, my ex called me, and I used to be very attracted to him and I was tempted by the devil and I slept with him!!! I wish I didn't because he is a user and not worth my time. I love guy #1 and he says he forgives me, will always love me, and will always be my best friend but he doesn't know if he can trust me! How do you gain someone's trust back? I've never had this problem before. He actually considered us being in a relationship! I DIDNT KNOW THIS! I don't know what to do because I absolutely love him! How can I show him how sorry I am, how much he means to me? I've completely cut off guy #2
Please email me with any questions if this question/ situation isn't very clear. I will write you back! PLease help me!!!!!!!

2007-07-18 16:12:16 · 23 answers · asked by mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

ok..well first of all im 13 sister is 19 7 month yo girl and 3 months pregnant again with another...and the bf is a total loser, trash and just plain ghetto, and so my other sister who is 25 acts like shes so perfect,and she is ALWAYS critisizing my other sister because shes pregnant again but my sister the 19yo is getting married to that guy, mostly because shes pregnant again, well anyways my 19yo sister told me tonight...that about 2 years ago she (my 25yo sister) had an abortion....and everybody in my family knew but me!! this is so hard..we were NEVER ever ever raised like that!!! and my 25yo sister is calling her immature and iresponsible..when SHE HAD AN ABORTION..atleast my other sister is taking care of her kids and not dealing with adoption or abortion..i mean right?

sorry this was so long!!

2007-07-18 16:10:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 6 mos - this is usually the time where I start to get insecure because I have a hard time making the transition to the comfort stage of the relationship. We have been super lovey-dovey up to this point, but now I find myself getting very anxious if I don't hear from him every day. I find myself wanting to say sweet things, not because I feel it at that moment, but because I want to hear him say it. I really want reassurance. We also have an odd schedule of seeing each other due to his jobs, so we see each 3-4 days in a row and then won't see each other for the same amount of time. This is all really heightened because I am a teacher who is off all summer and have a lot of time to think.

2007-07-18 16:10:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it ok to go ona first date with someone whose looks you are not too crazy about but really enjoy talking to you.

2007-07-18 16:10:16 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have just felt very upset with my husband the past few days. We have been arguing a lot, and we can't seem to agree on anything. I don't know what is going on? We have been married for 2 and a half years and have a 22 month old son. We have had some financial issues in the past, and money is another sore subject between us.

He has been asking me what is wrong, but I am not sure myself. What should I do?

2007-07-18 16:04:28 · 28 answers · asked by Ki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if you see your husband in a picture with his coworkers, and this coworker who is a girl keeps on sitting beside your husband in all the pictures, will you think that this girl has "something" to your husband? and your husband doesn't really like having pictures and very anti-social, but he has to make public relations with his coworkers, because you need to have friends at work.

photos can really tell alot, but your husband tells you to just trust him and he doesn't care about these people. but the photos are really traumatic. i'm not used to this, that my husband has pictures with people i don't even know, especially when every picture is with this girl coworker beside him. its like this girl is up to something. please advice.

2007-07-18 16:03:44 · 28 answers · asked by genericmamaw 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i said i love you more and he said you may love me more but i care about you more. is it just me or is loving someone caring about them and willing to do anything for them what the hell did he mean by that

2007-07-18 16:03:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Usually my husband picks on me all the tiem by tickling me or just aggravating the hell out of me...he says it is his way of flirting...but then there are times when he doesn't really talk to me that much and he isnt really affectionate when I ask him stuff he is like very irritated..but anyways then the other night when I was sleeping he came in and put his arms around me and held my hand it woke me up but he didnt knwo it did and then he whispered in my ear I love you and it was so sweet but anyways I am just wondering because I mena why liek during the day does he act like non affectionate and then when I am sleeping tell me he loves me? I mean don tget me wrong he isnt liek an *** hole during the day but he is very shy with is emotions. sorry for the question being so long :)

2007-07-18 16:02:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-18 15:59:26 · 19 answers · asked by sakal c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My cat, Princess, died on July 2 but i still cry myself to sleep and blame myself for her death.She wasnt JUST some cat we picked up off the street, she was a TRUE family member.
WHAT DO I DO???

2007-07-18 15:58:19 · 21 answers · asked by cameron c 2 in Family

2007-07-18 15:56:06 · 5 answers · asked by littlejamiebear 1 in Singles & Dating

so far i got:
Spanich eyes
This I promise you
Forever and always

2007-07-18 15:56:02 · 13 answers · asked by Flower 2 in Weddings