I have a 2 1/2 year old son and I am taking care of him full time. Right now the father just takes him every other weekend.he makes likes $14K a month and he pays for our rent and $200 food every 2 weeks. maybe he spent $1500 a month and every other weeks taking my son to spend time with him. Right now he didn't gave us $200 and he said that he will talk to his attorney. Is this because he wants to spend time with him more and he wants to cut our support?he complains about the teeth of my son since he drinks a lot of milk and is there a way that judge can give him the custody because of me feeding my son milk or anything bad that he thinks i don't take care of my son? Will this be the cause that he will win the custody? We are not married too and i took care of my son all his life and now that he is big he wants him..I don't have a job and I am a full time mom and he makes more a lot more. What are my rights? Do i have to hire a attorney too?Pls.help/
2007-07-18 16:13:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Get a lawyer
Get a job and
get good day care too
time to start taking care of yourself and not depending on a man to do it for you.
2007-07-18 16:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by teritaur 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get an attorney. Use the web to find one for free, or close. If you are a minority use that in the search......you are more likely to get help. Document everything....if he threatens you write it down, or record it........get a friend to listen in if possible. Please right NOW file for child support. You can do this through your local DHS. I know you say he is paying, but get it processed through the courts........he may not pay as much, but he will be legally obligated that way. Next take care of your child with great care. You really should consider getting the proper dental care for your child after that he can say nothing...if you have got him the proper care for his dental problems. And last but not least call your local police non-emergency number and get an officer to document his threats to take your child. They should take them seriously, but if they brush you off you will at least have a document of his harrasment. Good Luck
2007-07-18 23:34:17 · answer #2 · answered by Heather S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would get an attorney...fast. If you don't have money for an attorney, check with legal aid. They are supposed to help the poor with legal issues. Good luck.
2007-07-18 23:18:25 · answer #3 · answered by myopinion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a lawyer.
2007-07-18 23:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋