Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

2007-07-18 15:55:33 · 3 answers · asked by Heather H 1 in Singles & Dating

Help i am Really in love with this guy and i really want my first kiss does he kis me or do i kiss him

2007-07-18 15:55:14 · 14 answers · asked by tigers4life 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:55:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:53:03 · 8 answers · asked by Larry 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife and I have been married for 3 years. We have one child and one on the way. I feel that everything I do I am walking on eggshell so she does not get mad. I understand the hormones are raging right now, we work opposite shifts and see each other for 20 minutes in the morning and that is about it. On weekends it seems like 90% of the time we are bickerign back and forth instead of enjoying each others company?? Any suggestions??

2007-07-18 15:52:17 · 11 answers · asked by lucky301010 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We've been together for 3 months and hes been cheating on me the whole time. I promised myself that i would NEVER be with someone that cheated on me. He toldme that he loved me and that he cared. If it was any other guy i wouldnt of cared because i never cared about them other guys. But we were best friends before we started dating and i love him with all my heart. What should i say to him that will make him relize how bad he has hurt me?

2007-07-18 15:51:05 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:49:48 · 51 answers · asked by JAI T 1 in Singles & Dating

so this married guy has been hitting on me... I find it very tacky but hes an old friend so I don't want to be mean. How to best approach the situation?

2007-07-18 15:49:19 · 14 answers · asked by krissy 5 in Singles & Dating

am NOT an image in your world, i am a real person! Get it????
Why do my parents want me to be something i am not just to satisfy their need for regularity? Why do they expect me to behave as they think i should so i can be happy. Why they don't understand that i am a real person, an individual, a human being that thinks, believes, behaves ,hopes different than they

2007-07-18 15:49:11 · 8 answers · asked by kittana! 2 in Family

My mom doesn't know that. I want to check again to make sure, please tell me what to do. I need your advices!!!

2007-07-18 15:46:58 · 4 answers · asked by ntvn 1 in Family

What would you do if your fiance's friends (who are 15-18 years younger than he is) want to take him to a strip club for his birthday? How would YOU react?
This is part of the email I sent him telling him how I felt. Is it wrong? Or am I overreacting?
"I know it's all in good fun and all, but it bothers me. It makes me feel that I'm not enough for you and that you have to find your kicks somewhere else. I know you probably think I'm feeling sorry for myself and all that, but I would think that you shouldn't even want to do that since we are engaged.
It would be totally different if you were not in a relationship. We've promised to each other that we are going to spend the rest of our lives together. I was hoping to spend your birthday with you (if you didn't already know that). I am perfectly fine with your friends wanting to celebrate with you as well, but there are far more appropriate ways that wouldn't compromise who you are or what our relationship is about."

2007-07-18 15:45:56 · 11 answers · asked by knifelvr 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:42:47 · 8 answers · asked by eabaer03 1 in Weddings

I fell in love with this girl when we joined school at the age of 3 (Hard to believe?)I married her in 1976 and lost her in 2007 recently. The love never diminished a bit during all these years. All these years I never left her for a moment. She would always be with me or I would always be with her. Never left her alone. The trauma is simply unbearable. I do yoga, meditation,play music, go walking and do my regular office work plus cooking (never did before she left). Spending time alone at home in her absence without her beside me is unbearable. Her thoughts are there with me all throughout the day. Feel heavy in the heart all throughout. Can anyone suggest how to cope with this unsurmountable pain and lonliness?

2007-07-18 15:41:37 · 28 answers · asked by Simbah 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the other day my ex told me that he was moving away forever and he seemed happy about it. of course i wasnt happy because i still love him but there's nothing i can do. he said he doesnt love me anymore and i know it's true because he's not the same around me anymore. i want to write him a letter to tell him how i feel and that i still love him and that i want us to keep in touch even though he's 3 hours away. do u think that would be a good idea?

2007-07-18 15:40:20 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with this guy for about 7 or 8 years now. It got physical (wink wink) in the last 3 years, we'd be together for a night, and then never talk about it again until we saw eachother again, and then it's the same thing all over again. I don't want to date him, I don't want everything to be this awkward...is it just going to be awkward forever or is there a way to talk about this rationally?

2007-07-18 15:39:16 · 31 answers · asked by Abbey 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:38:53 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:36:08 · 2 answers · asked by martialartsman 2 in Singles & Dating

The website should be age appropriate and as I am looking for a fifteen year old something she would enjoy. Nothing like myspace though because she already has one. What I'm really looking for is a website that she can look at when she is "dying from boredom".

One website she showed interest in for a while was www.bored.com which offered a variety of things, so she could pick what she was interested in. Something like that would be great.

Thanks for your help!

2007-07-18 15:34:26 · 2 answers · asked by littlemin5 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Currently my husband and I are separated, not living together still married. We have agreed to move back in when he can afford to get us an apartment. Right now I live with my dad. My husband will hand me $20 when I need something, but that is only when I need it. I asked him if he would give me $200 per month for both our son and me or I would file for child support. He got mad and told me if I filed he would kidnap our son. I don't know what to do, is there anyone that can give me some advice? should i just file for divorce and take my son or try to work on this? He and I had a long talk about that and he doesnt think its right that he should be supporting me. At the same time he doesnt want to sign divorce papers. Im a college student and dont work right now. any suggestions?

2007-07-18 15:34:13 · 15 answers · asked by h2gj87 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Alright listen I am a grade 11 student and i am 16 years old and like most people of my age I have settled in my own group of friends. I have about 12 or 13 close friends who i usually hang around however there is this girl that I hangout with all the time that i have feelings for. Under normal circumstances I would ask her out in a second but its different. Two of my close friends have asked her out but have been rejected and if I do ask her out and it doesn't work out it could ruin the friendship we have. I have asked many people what I should do but their solutions just don't work for me. Can someone give me a piece of advice.

2007-07-18 15:33:19 · 29 answers · asked by Kevin T 2 in Singles & Dating

I am always reading questions on here from men who have problems with their wife's weight..They sound very shallow to me and must think their perfect..My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and i am full-figured and weigh about 270 but hubby met me this way,married me this way and it has never bothered him 1 bit cause he loves me more then anything...When we met i was over 200 and thru the yrs i have lost and gained and trying to lose again but for me NOT him..He is still very attracted to me and we have a decent satisfying sex life...Why cant these men just love their wives unconditionally?

2007-07-18 15:30:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been together for 5 years, married for 1. We want to see a counselor just to always keep us right. But they are so expensive. We would like to do this at home together and are looking for a good workbook to use. Any ideas? Thanks!

2007-07-18 15:27:39 · 11 answers · asked by Happy Girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My father is not in the picture so my brother is giving me away and dancing with me. I only seem to be finding songs that sound like I'm in love with my brother (they're too lovey dovey love songs that should be for a spouse-not brother). Also, all the wedding sites only suggest the same father/daughter songs for the brother/sister dance....HELP!!! This is SO frustrating!

2007-07-18 15:27:02 · 8 answers · asked by christinak701 1 in Weddings

my husband seems to be keeping to himself lately. when i want to talk about everyday things like bills and kids he shrugs me off, and has a very short fuse. i'm frustrated with the fact that he dosent seem to care about anything right now.

2007-07-18 15:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by amersunshine 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with a girl for over a year and a half, and we have a six month old child. We have a trying relationship sometimes and have been through a lot.
She is bi-sexual, but we seemed to be committed to be together. After a calm discussion, she said that she thinks that she may be a lesbian, so I decided to break up with her.
We are still friends, and this was a week ago. We do not live together, and are not married (I am paying child support), and I still help out a couple of nights a week with watching our son. She saids that she misses me, but does not want to be committed to a relationship. Other than assisting with my son, I really do not want to pursue anything further because I feel that it won't be in the best interest of our son (given the situation). I don't want to make things more complicated. I don't care about her life choice, just a little hurt. I love her, but I can't do that.

Did I do the right thing by breaking up with her, or what would you have done?

2007-07-18 15:18:45 · 4 answers · asked by Query 1 in Family

Answering so many questions in class because every year I do girls just think of me as a nerd or something else like that. I have noticed this since like 6th grade, Im going to tenth grade now

2007-07-18 15:17:57 · 16 answers · asked by Miguel Z 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 15:17:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My friend and I got into a fight over this guy and we havn't talked since the third gr. we are now in highschool and she asked me if we could still be friends.
Should I say yes or no?

2007-07-18 15:16:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Do you respond or do you go about your own business?

2007-07-18 15:14:43 · 50 answers · asked by *Veronica* 4 in Family

2007-07-18 15:12:25 · 24 answers · asked by Page 4 in Marriage & Divorce