Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

I miss having my parents together and i cry almost everynight because like i know they were bad together but like my older sister chelsea had my dad at all her birthdays and he cant go to mine cause he now lives in Californa. =[

so please answer my question.

2007-07-18 21:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by Sexxiesweetblonde 1 in Marriage & Divorce

the guy being 17 and the friends sister being 14 and they realli like eachother haha j/w

2007-07-18 21:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by naturaldisasta 1 in Singles & Dating

The reason why I am asking is because I heard that the longer you stay single the the odds of ever marrying again get slim?

2007-07-18 21:06:10 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do you have any reason

2007-07-18 21:02:26 · 21 answers · asked by somveer k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Nothing...Just open to all...Share your experiences...

2007-07-18 21:01:59 · 11 answers · asked by Rayne 1 in Singles & Dating

Weve been together 10 yrs and seperated for 2 1/2 yrs. We have a lovely 3 year old. We have been seeing each other with our kid every weekend and seems like things are going to work out. But recently, he said let's file our divorce papers. I really want to save this marriage, especially with our child. It was my fault, I cheated on him before we seperated. Please help. He said to file the papers 3 times already but never did recently. How can I prevent it. Despearately need help.

2007-07-18 20:57:25 · 16 answers · asked by MC_help 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am due to get married at the end of this year but my fiance's ex-wife is still using his surname. They have a daughter together who also has his surname. I understand why his ex still has his surname but it has made me extremely reluctant to take it myself. I understand that I can not change my name on my passport, driving license, bank etc so they will still have my maiden name but will I still LEGALLY have his surname instead of my maiden name as a result of marriage anyway? If so, what will this affect?!

2007-07-18 20:56:10 · 13 answers · asked by helenness 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well....me and a lot of my cousins are very frank with each other...just coz we all grew up together! and all of them are married and they always talk about how unattractive their wifes are after having kids and all that stuff. One of them even said that you can't look at the place where were a "kid" came outta..all of them agreed with it. i;m just confused...are they tellin the truth?

2007-07-18 20:53:38 · 13 answers · asked by Koool dude 1 in Family

When the girl likes someone(person A) for years (just a crush) about 3-4 years and then stops liking that (person A) for about a year and then goes out with someone else (person B) and falls in love with them. Is it wrong for the girl to think about person A when she's having rough patches with person B in a relationship? If so how intense is your answer. Another question is would it then be ok for person B to be jealous that the girl considers (person A) to be her core or main friends? Even as a top friend in her life. Sure the girl only goes out with these set of friends and no others but almost like 3 to 4 times a week. How should person B feel about that and how should person B feel about her thinking about person A when their going through a rough time in the relationship? Please HELP!!!

2007-07-18 20:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by auk6000 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Between a man and a woman I mean. Not between family and friends. And please don’t say love will happen to me, as I think that is a load of crap. I mean if it hasn’t happened to me at my age, then chances aren’t that good it’s going to happen now.

2007-07-18 20:47:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 20:45:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-18 20:44:31 · 9 answers · asked by B L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-18 20:34:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is 100% a serious question. Here it goes:
Hubby and I have been married for 8 years. I actually have a higher sex drive than he does but, it doesn't really bother me much as I entertain myself :) Anyways, hubby is pretty shy when it comes to the bedroom. He performs wonderfully and likes to be control when having sex but, he turns all red-faced if I even dare try to talk about the actual acts. I guess he is a rare breed of guy!
I'm interested in spicing up our sex life and I would like to try light bondage. But, I have no clue how I should approach him about this. I'm afraid if I just say it to him that I will scare the crud out of him.
Anyone have any ideas how I could hint this to him without making him feel uncomfortable? Thanks!

2007-07-18 20:34:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i already asked this question but it seems that i got a lot of answers from people who do not currently worry about money - either that or their love overcomes their poverty.

if you had to choose between an increase in salary by well over 300% or staying married, which would you chose?
AND
your current income level was close to the poverty level
AND
you fought about money all the time.

please choose between the following: Literally go without for your whole life, fighting tooth and nail *or* get a degree without his/her consent or support, which may cost you your marriage?

2007-07-18 20:34:05 · 11 answers · asked by noname 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ring to propose to my new girl...... she found my exs initials embroidered on the fools gold....... why is she so mad?

2007-07-18 20:33:24 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

mainly due to the relationship /family problem/and money problem

2007-07-18 20:28:10 · 23 answers · asked by aadee2kk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend is trying to get her Super Sweet Fourteenth birthday party on MTV (I'm her helper so that means I'd be on TV too!) and it would be so nice of a few of you to vote for her.
If you're going to then vote for overall, outfit, cake, gift, invitation, venues, entrances, and theme. Thanks! Here's her page:

http://mysupersweet16.com/accounts/BrianaKirkland

I love you so much if you vote for her, lol.


For those who hate the show because of the snotty girls that are usually on it:

Guys, I swear to you, she is NOT a brat! She's been wanting to have this party since she was 10 and MTV (and her parents) just gave her permission to register. She is inviting everyone in our grade, not treating anyone badly.

We just want to get her party on TV for her, so please vote. =D

2007-07-18 20:24:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when she seems to be bullying only you? I met this girl online and to everyone else-she's amazing or so it seems to me....Yet when she talks to me it's just demands-she orders me around, but when I say something back in defense, I'm the insensitive one. How do I stop her?

2007-07-18 20:18:19 · 14 answers · asked by Illuminessa V 2 in Friends

im 21 and my husband is 44. and hes scolding me just like a little girl. how will i react? im hurt...

2007-07-18 20:11:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Can you love your wife with all your heart and still cheat? I don't get it! My husband was cheating, writing emails to another woman telling her he loved her and he wanted her to move to the states with him (from Germany). I found the emails and that same day I got a plane ticket and left his ***. Now he wants me back! I don't understand why men would risk losing a family, a home.

2007-07-18 20:10:47 · 10 answers · asked by * lovemykids * 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What do couples fight about? The last, and only, time I had a fight with someone whom I dated was when Clinton was in office. I'm working on a play, trying to write an argument between a married couple and I realized that I have no idea what couples really fight over.

Any and all information will be extremely appreciated.

2007-07-18 20:02:28 · 21 answers · asked by uscplaywright 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am torn between getting a divorce or taking my husband back. No, he didn't cheat on me, or anything like that, but he is a control freak. We have been married for almost 8 years and I have been so miserable! These last 7 weeks we have been apart have been so peaceful for me and the kids. The problem is money. If I go through with this divorce I will most likely lose my home and have to start over in an apartment. Is this fair to the kids? They say that they don't want him to come back, but I can't see losing our home. What should I do?

2007-07-18 20:02:27 · 13 answers · asked by emschick722 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can put 30 characters including spaces. I thought of "you to me is love to need" does it sound to corny?

how about 'it's what's inside that counts"

"life started on 9/26/06" (the day we met)

2007-07-18 19:49:52 · 18 answers · asked by i love being a mommy! 4 in Weddings

I want to know the difference between "girlfriend material" and "wife material."

I personally think I'd make a better wife than I would a girlfriend. It kinda shows seemingly how I attract nothing but older guys and noone my age. And I know how to do everything a wife usually does such as clean, cook, take care of the kids, deal with finances...etc.

If I was someone's girlfriend, I'd be at a loss of what to do. (I've never had a boyfriend)

So what would be the difference between "gf material" and "wife material"?

2007-07-18 19:47:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am not 100% sure of this, but the other day I was going through the web sites he had been on (don't ask why) one of the site was "lonelywives.com". I open the web site to find that he had made a search on women of his age group near his work place. SHOULD I TELL MY MOTHER ?

2007-07-18 19:40:51 · 23 answers · asked by Spindle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The man I have feelings for does not have romantic feelings for me "at this time". He said it doesnt mean ever, just not right now; he is NOT ready for a relationship. He loves me as a friend and loves our friendship. He doesnt want me to wait for him, he wants me to date other men. But my heart wont let me think of another man. How do I step back & switch to friend mode when my heart is in love mode? Ive never been through this before where the guy wants to stay friends. How do I deal? Is it possible and realistic to think that we can just be friends? Thanks in advance for your words of wisdom! : )

2007-07-18 19:37:30 · 4 answers · asked by tied together with a smile 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you like black hair that comes down 2 about 2 inches off the shoulder maybe a little longer in the front? Or what hair styles r u most attracted 2?

2007-07-18 19:36:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why or why not?

2007-07-18 19:35:18 · 14 answers · asked by fslcaptain737 4 in Singles & Dating

date, time, god, jeasue, how to get him really for wedding.

2007-07-18 19:34:55 · 11 answers · asked by mcdonaldhappybunnie 2 in Weddings