I miss having my parents together and i cry almost everynight because like i know they were bad together but like my older sister chelsea had my dad at all her birthdays and he cant go to mine cause he now lives in Californa. =[
so please answer my question.
2007-07-18 21:12:15 · 6 answers · asked by Sexxiesweetblonde 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
only people in same situation know how you feel, and im one of them. my parents have been divorced 13 years. i cry all the time, i feel like it helps me if i let it all out.
i've tried many times to get them to talk and get back together but no luck.
i live in australia and my dad is in Bosnia, i only see him ever 3-4 years. i call him all the time though... it helps to speak to him....
i think just talking about it and crying it out helps
good luck sweety
2007-07-18 21:16:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You become a bitter adult, who realizes logically that your dad could not be there but who still hates him for not being there. There is nothing you can do to bring your parents together, the best you can do is to appreciate the parent you choose to live with and move on with life. Lots of kids don't have dads. Lots of kids don't have moms. Be appreciative of what you do have.
2007-07-18 21:18:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I,m sorry you feel that way. Talk to your grand parents or an uncle to arrange a small family meeting and tell them /try to communicate with one of them and explain how you feel. If it will make you feel better just to see them for a one day together as a family , tell both of them that and that you can't concentrate in your life cause this depression disturbs you.Be good and Good Luck. I feel for you but count on us.
2007-07-18 21:22:52 · answer #3 · answered by Modu R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call them, If they act like mean to each other you should learn from that and never do that to your family. Im best friends with my ex and everyone tries to make it look bad but I dont let them. I just dont love him anymore, but he was a part of my life so no one can take that away from me or my son. I dont allow it. Call your mom, call your dad and make them be friends.
2007-07-18 21:17:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it.s where you are used to them being together not there not that.s what.s bothering you where you ws used to thm being there not like this i truley feel sorry for you on this mater really in my opion?
2007-07-18 21:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents are split too, i feel your pain buddy...i try to keep my mind off it, occupy yourself with a hobby
2007-07-18 21:15:20 · answer #6 · answered by Cody F-D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋