well....me and a lot of my cousins are very frank with each other...just coz we all grew up together! and all of them are married and they always talk about how unattractive their wifes are after having kids and all that stuff. One of them even said that you can't look at the place where were a "kid" came outta..all of them agreed with it. i;m just confused...are they tellin the truth?
2007-07-18 20:53:38 · 13 answers · asked by Koool dude 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Well I personally would say it has a lot to do with your age and health...
My husband and I are both in our 50's and have bad health in different areas of our lives...
Sometimes it is uncomfortable to have sex, and sometimes you are too tired from a long day at work or it's too hot or other things in your life are just not right...
All kinds of things contribute to not feeling up to having sex...
Some people gain weight and let themselves go in their appearance...
Some cannot afford to make themselves beautiful on the outside every day...
So yes, sex is not all it is cracked up to be later on in life...
2007-07-18 21:04:30 · answer #1 · answered by aspenkdp2003 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
Most people in our society believe that, but the truth is, it depends on the person. Maybe what *they* were talking about is that compared to when you're a teenager, you're not interested in sex every minute of the day, whcih is true. Frankly, that's a relief. Who would want to spend their entire lives constantly jonsing for something they can't have constantly? Besides that, which isn't really a big deal, the problem with sex and marriage can be that the people dont' communicate, they have different wants or needs about sex, or their personalities don't jive as well anymore.
People are people. Lots of people enjoy sex until the day they die. The trick is to find someone you feel comfortable being yourself around, who's a good friend, and develop a relationship from there. Then you'll feel more inclined to communicate when something's wrong and listen when they do the same. Working through problems will help contribute to understanding, which makes life smooth and good. Just remember everyone has their own sexual preferences, and if you make a good match, you're good.
2007-07-18 21:00:56 · answer #2 · answered by Razorchilde 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As particularly some the persons stated, some human beings and their ideals merely have self assurance that it extremely is spectacular to attend till marriage to have intercourse. Their isn't something "gross" approximately wanting to attend. there is not any longer something incorrect with being 25 and a virgin, some human beings might decide for to attend even longer. that doesn't advise that that's "gross" to attend till you're an person and in a dedicated relationship to loose your virginity. sure, i became into youthful then 25 when I lost my virginity, yet I made advantageous that i became into in a dedicated relationship and that i'm nevertheless with "my first" today. sure, marriage might properly be difficult(and looking out the main suitable individual is merely too) yet is on no account incorrect to attend till marriage to have intercourse.
2016-10-19 06:03:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say if you truley love someone that them having a child is the best thing in the world and the women dont get unatractive after having children they really dont so i would say dont listen sex drive usually dies off a bit after having children but that because of the priority of children take up in your life but it will regain full swing after a while a romantic night in will regrain a sex drive for a couple
2007-07-18 20:59:56 · answer #4 · answered by GG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've never heard anything like that!! that "place" where their children come out of looks the same within 24 hours after the birth, my ex loved it just as much if not more, that was his favorite place to start (if you get what i mean) and sex never got worse, so maybe your cousins need more info
2007-07-18 21:00:27 · answer #5 · answered by michelle s 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do your cousins love their spouses? I have had 2 children and my husband and I have a great sex life. We have a great relationship. Maybe your cousins need a reality check.
2007-07-18 22:03:32 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your cousins may be grown up with families and everything but they sound like childish jerks with major Oedipal issues.
Freud would have a field day with your family.
2007-07-18 21:00:12 · answer #7 · answered by Melly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah, but it differs in most cases....EXAMPLE: when you were a kid you loved milk, when you grew up you learned how dirty cows are mainatined and stress so you don't loved it as much, peoples ideas thoughts change after seeing how things work?
2007-07-18 21:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by Joule 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
been married 5 years now. it hasnt gotten less exciting. definately dont watch a baby come out of there though. if you see it come out you will probably have a hard time finding her vagina attractive again.
2007-07-18 20:58:11 · answer #9 · answered by rob b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they need to spice up their marrige...i have cuzins and friends who are married but some of them ***** about their marriged and some of them say they adore it and it was the best thing they done in the life..
2007-07-18 20:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Dada 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋