Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

There have been several questions asked about..Do woman read Playgirl magazine.
The most common answer is that alot of women have looked at it, but found it to just be a lousy magazine.
So the question is, if their was a magazine that had a content that women liked say Cosmopolitan or Redbook or other popular magazines, and had pictures of naked men in it.Would you read it? Or is the naked male thing just not going to work?

2007-07-18 02:25:57 · 21 answers · asked by Bill 4 in Singles & Dating

IF THEY TOTALLY RESPECT AND LOVE EACH OTHER?

2007-07-18 02:25:30 · 24 answers · asked by yikes_its_me 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 02:22:47 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I attended a Christian Women's Bible School for a short course on family relations a whie back and one thing that was discussed at length by the women was that men don't seem to have goals for the family like women do or if they do, they don't discuss these goals with them. If this is true in most cases? Do you think your wife feels you don't discuss things with her as much as she would like regarding long range goals and plans for the family? Just curious.

2007-07-18 02:21:47 · 7 answers · asked by BLM 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay... Why do women think that they OWN the man they are with, like if we dont do what you say you'll just dump us and get with another man, is that a good quality? is it fun? what makes you think WE cant do better but we love you enough to stay with you anyway?

2007-07-18 02:20:24 · 12 answers · asked by allihadtodowasletyougo 1 in Singles & Dating

....even when she makes it obvious she's not interested or has a boyfriend?

2007-07-18 02:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by pookie 1 in Singles & Dating

I was asked one time by a friend, "Would you choose a person who is fairly good looking but had alot of money... Or, would you choose one who was ok in looks with not much money at all, but could make you smile and laugh?" I said, "I would choose the second choice.

Which would you choose and why?

Sincerely, Shelia M.

2007-07-18 02:16:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother is taking over my wedding reception and I am lost on what to do. We orignally was going to have the food catered and last night she calls me up and says she is going to cook a turkey and call it good. no this is once in a life time thing and I already gave up my wedding I went to court. Then she said that she would just go borrow her friends flower decerations from her daughters wedding to use. there all white not the colors I am working with. then on top of it we wanted it out side and she is trying to talk us into renting a hall. Who's wedding is it anys ways. then when I try to say any thing to her she goes off on me and says well i give up go ahead and wait tell the last minute to figure this out. I already had it figured out what the heck am I suppost to do. She is my mother but she is controlling she did the same thing with my sisters wedding and my brothers and I don't want her to do it to mine.

2007-07-18 02:14:00 · 14 answers · asked by Krista S 2 in Weddings

When my daughter was born I was not with the mother and she did not include me on the birth certificate.

We have since formed a more constructive and cooperative relationship (not romantic!) and I have a good relationship with my 11 year old daughter.

My Ex and her new boyfriend were concerned that 'were anything to happen to them', I would have to prove my paternity before having custody of my daughter. I'm not sure it would be a problem to prove my paternity as I am well known as the father. But anyway....

They think I should be on the birth certificate for that eventuality. This brings me to the CSA. I pay good maintainance to my ex and am worried the CSA might demand more than I have already paid (which I'm sure I couldn't afford) if my name appeared on the birth certificate.

Am I overestimating the enthusiasm of the CSA and how difficult is it to prove paternity to the relevant authority without being named on the birth certificate?

2007-07-18 02:12:36 · 10 answers · asked by tuthutop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to call someones place of work and ask if a certain person works there without speaking to them, its complicated but im not sure what to say??

2007-07-18 02:12:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i feel like since my boyfriend cusins resently came to vist him and they were talking about how they lost there virginity at 13 and he is our age so my boyfriend thinks he should too but i really want to wait for marriage .. but is there a way i can please him but with no intercorse and no blowjobs like just kissing and touching nothing more what eles can i do to please him even more ??

2007-07-18 02:10:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend and we have known eachother for more then five years we are back together now. My boyfriend has a fantacy of me being with his friend or another man and him watching or joining but its not me and i told him that im not interested so he keeps mentioning it because he likes talking about it and thinking about it i guess. I think he is testing me because the reason why we broke up in the past its because i was with another guy so i think he is testing me to see if ill do that again well i never cheated i just left him for another and to see what i wanted because my boyfriend now was my first love . Your opinion on this would be great do u think as i do that he is testing me to make sure he can trust me again im almost 100% sure that trusts me pl;us he can trust me but whenever he mentions this i feel like he does not trust which i undrstand. If u can make sense of this and give me feedback opinions advice it would be good to know what other people though

2007-07-18 02:07:24 · 4 answers · asked by Cat 4 in Singles & Dating

ok...i moved to the place i live now when i was 3 with my family....my neighbors had 3 kids 1 that was my age....she was my age...we always played together and hung out...went to school together..same classes....campfires...cookouts..sleepovers...anything you name it we were always together...we were best friends...and she moved to the next town over 3 years ago...and i havent talked to her since then....but just the other day we saw each other and kicked it off like old times....i've always liked her and i know her like the back of my hand cause we grew up together...so i was wondering do you think it would be wierd if i asked her to go out sometime...maybe start out just hanging out then hopefully eventually leading somewhere else

2007-07-18 02:05:12 · 14 answers · asked by tony d 1 in Singles & Dating

Hello everyone, My husband and I have been trying desperately to have a baby for about 3 years now. He's a doctor so we've waited until he finished his residency/things settled down a little before starting a family.

Little did we know, I just can't seem to carry past 10 weeks. There have been 4 miscarriages, and we recently tried In Vitro...however, the 3 rounds we tried never took.

My husbands dream, besides being a doctor, is to be a father, and it has taken a toll on him, myself and our marriage.

Now, my sister is pregnant. I'm so happy for her, but her and her husband just got married and already they're expecting. It is hard for my husband and I to be around them, is that normal?

Since my husband is a doctor, he knows all of our options very well, and we have just about tried everything. I have suggested a surrogate but he said he wants me and only me to carry our baby.

Now he is just sad consistanly. I want to help him, he said he is just about done trying...

2007-07-18 02:02:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I got an email that my friend was in a car/bike accident. I got the email on July 5th, he supposively had the accident on the 3rd. Everyone doubts it and so do I. I got an email from him saying that he was healed or healing quickly. I blew up on him because I figured that if he got the injuries he described, he most lilkely wouldn't be healed by now. And maybe it was a little bit because I was scared. I really was scared because my grandfather had been in an accident, too, so I didn't wat to deal with both. I told him that I was sorry to blow up on him, but I don't know what to do. I still doubt it, but if it was true, I don't think I will forgive myself. Help!

2007-07-18 02:02:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Recently found out that my bf of 3yrs got another gal's tel# and he admited to somewhat being attracted to her but denied ever wishing to ask her out(just wanted to be friends cos she had gud manners)cos he has me n loves me more than anything. i cry all the time when i think abt this, cnt sleep, cnt eat and feel sick to my stomach. i trusted him so much n never thought he'd do this. Feel so betrayed.
He has apologised so many times but i cnt bring myself to forgive him. Dnt know if he tries to justify it but he says that i also exchage #s with guys(its true, have male friends but thats exactly wht it is, varsity friends). M i losing my mind cos all he got was a stupid phone #....(Oh, am 20yrs he's 28) He called her after i had called her(gave me an attitude) n he told her to f* frm our lives. he has really done everything to show how sorry he is but i just cnt forgive n forget. am i overreacting or losing it

2007-07-18 02:02:07 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 02:00:03 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear Terra, Me and her even have a serious conversation...i even let her know how i feel towards her and for waht she save done...i even breakdown on my knee right front of her. But all she said its unfair fro her to hurt that guy...Is trying to tell me that she would rather hurt me whom been with her through thick and thin for damm 2yrs than that guy whom she know for only 1mth.

2007-07-18 01:59:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to call my special someone with a unique term of endearment..and i can't find one..though i had some in my mind..its the common terms i only know.

2007-07-18 01:59:04 · 2 answers · asked by blhunche 1 in Friends

The guy I have been dateing sense Feb mentioned marriage before a year I called him on it and he said he was jokeing but why bring it up? Also when should we? Should we even move in together? We took a break for a month because he was acting insecure

2007-07-18 01:51:05 · 15 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

It's easy to say that you divorced because your spouse had an affair or got addicted to something. It seems at least like nearly everyone points to the spouse as the reason for a marriage's failure. But my question is, what could you or should you have done differently in order not to have been in a marriage that ended in divorce? If your ex was adulterous, abusive, or addicted, what signs might you have noticed or paid attention to before marriage, signs that tell you your judgment of character was off? If the divorce was for some other reason, what was your role? What part of the divorce do you consider to be your responsibility? In other words, for what are you to blame for your marriage ending? Finally, if you accept no part of the blame, why not?

2007-07-18 01:49:26 · 22 answers · asked by Happy-2 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am eager to find friends because most of my friends are either out of town or out of the country.

2007-07-18 01:46:56 · 7 answers · asked by rachael 1 in Singles & Dating

What is about you thats so special that you
need a man to provide you ALLLLL that money??
women these days can get any high paying career a man
can get.

2007-07-18 01:45:27 · 5 answers · asked by Jose A 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some friends none of my friends are on yahoo and this sucks do somebody want to be my friend.

2007-07-18 01:43:11 · 7 answers · asked by Pretty Bree 2 in Friends

I just broke up with another of my man and I keep on finding the stupid ones were are the smart ones.

2007-07-18 01:40:58 · 6 answers · asked by Pretty Bree 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife does not approve my habit of masturbation even though it does not come in any way of our relations. She is not ready to approach any counsellor either to discuss this. She does not think its required. I generally do it when she is in her monthly cycle to make sure I am always available when required. Still, she starts shouting when I am indulging calling me cheater etc. I have no relations outside marriage and she knows it very well. Please help me...
I donot know how women thinks but when I read on internet about it, everyone talks about being very healthy habit but reality seems to be contrary.

2007-07-18 01:40:24 · 28 answers · asked by Jim C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-18 01:37:38 · 6 answers · asked by debbie n 1 in Singles & Dating

I've recently started talking to a guy from MySpace.I knew of him before then because we went to the same school ,but we never talked then. We talk everyday now (by phone or send each other cute little comments on MySpace) but we live about 30 minutes apart and we work during the week so we don't get to see each other until the weekend. He tells me how much he likes me and a few months from now he sees us being serious. He asks me to call him more often and how much he thinks about me during the day, but I can't help but feel naive about this. He has other females leaving him "naughty comments" and he has a lot of females that he adds to his friends list and I can't help but think that he is all mushy with them too. I don't know if I should let things get too serious and this weekend he wants us to take his child and mine out, but maybe that's not a good idea. I'm a little skeptical about taking my son around him, I feel it's too soon and this may all be a game to him.

2007-07-18 01:36:22 · 1 answers · asked by 1 bad chick 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel as though i want a guy who is loving, caring, supportive and willing to listen and understand me as i have OCD. Am i asking for too much in a guy?

2007-07-18 01:32:41 · 12 answers · asked by allgiggles1984 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 01:32:15 · 7 answers · asked by jennifer 1 in Singles & Dating