Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

NO flasks, lighters, cigars, watches, cuff links....something original

2007-07-18 04:04:36 · 11 answers · asked by alyvac 2 in Weddings

The couple have no minor children and have not lived together for more than 25 years, but the clerk of the courts office(ILLINOIS)says'no record on file certificate' cannot be issued because the license was applied for it was just not sent back.

2007-07-18 04:04:29 · 3 answers · asked by dino w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He doesn't have alcohol problems. He doesn't drink at home at all. When we go to Europe he always spends the nights at the bars. How do I make him not go? I threatened to accompany him at the bar (I'm 17) and he's okay with it. But I really have better things to do like party, you know? How do I stop him?

2007-07-18 04:03:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

There's this boy that lives on our street, I'm telling you he's HOT!! I have a huge crush on him, it even seems as if he likes me back! He gives me special atttention that he doesn't give any other girl. My mom doesn't want me to be around him 4 some reason though. She says I'll get grounded. how can we still see each other??

2007-07-18 04:02:21 · 16 answers · asked by blah. 2 in Singles & Dating

We all have a time limit whether its the first chance we get or 6 months...but how long can you really wait to have sex once your are dating?

2007-07-18 04:00:50 · 13 answers · asked by PoshBCD 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been having a really tough time since my mom got a new bf. My dad died in March of 2005. He was a very important person in all of our lives and i just don't understand how my mom can like this new guy. My younger brother and sister both agree. When we try to talk to my mom about it, she just throws out the excuse, I'm the mother, I know what I'm doing and I can do what I want. It feels like im talking to a wall. Help.

2007-07-18 03:59:52 · 30 answers · asked by x0blonde0x 2 in Family

2007-07-18 03:58:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother has been paying the house. As soon as she got a job, the man i call my father quit his. Now he's been sitting around not giving a damn. He's lazy, he doesn't help in anything, and he doesn't care that we're about to lose the house because my mother just can't pay it. I've applied for several jobs, and now I have to wait impatiently for one of them to respond. I've been trying to get father to care, to get a job, but he just won't get one. It's like everything I say goes through one ear and out the other. I feel so desperate, I don't know what to do anymore. How can I convince father to get a job?

2007-07-18 03:58:32 · 4 answers · asked by Cassandra 3 in Family

I have huge ears, and im wondering if this makes me look really bad. Or if it is not much of a factor.

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2007-07-18 03:57:35 · 8 answers · asked by Tennis Star 5 in Singles & Dating

My story is very sad. My 4 year relationship ended last summer. Nothing bad happened, we both just decided we needed to take a break to think seriously what we wanted with the relationship. She started going out with an ex of hers and he proposed, she accpetd and they got married 4 months later. I know this was a rebound...I tried to convince her not to get married and to marry me, but she wouldnt.

Since she has been married now for 5 months, she emails me and calls me all the time, adn tells me that she is not happy, that she misses me too much, that she wishes she wasnt married. Tells me she loves me so much. When I tell her to divorce and marry me, she just says she doesnt know, she would hurt him too much, etc., she doesnt know if she could do it, because he is a good guy, etc. But she doesnt love him.

What should I do? Is she going to fall in love later? This whole thing makes me sick, I cannot describe how much I am hurting.

2007-07-18 03:56:01 · 12 answers · asked by robert7 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i hv pakistani bf,i meet him just on internet 2 years ago.till now he's still jobless,he alwayz blame me n complain me cuz of his condition.n u know he often having enjoy with other girls on internet.n my parents also not agree if i get marriage with him, cuz he's far away from my country.he got some money from me,cuz i wanna support his for move out from pakistan.but still failed.cuz of that, all the blame is in on me?so...i can't do anything without my parents.we have not enough money , cuz my parents will not support me if i am with him.if he's jobless it's my faults?then finally he asked me for our meeting in real, but i am not agree, cuz he's still jobless.then he get mad.but we are also boring with this condition,what shoul i do now?

2007-07-18 03:55:09 · 12 answers · asked by mango 1 in Singles & Dating

Can the extra full day of weekend make up for the days of being gone? Or will the wife feel like a single parent 4 days a week? Is this schedule too hard on a family?

2007-07-18 03:54:58 · 2 answers · asked by em T 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married with 5 kids to my hubby. He is sweet, kind and nice natured and all, but he is as lazy as hell. I work 60 hours a week, run a business from home as well on weekends and he does not work. He is meant to do the home duties etc and he does as little as possible. I do a lot of the housework, cleaning and monitoring of the children.One child is diabetic, and blood records dont get recorded.The doctors have asked and asked, and I cover up for him. All he does is sit at a computer all day, OR on the X box, or shops on eBay. He has drained my account, and now have little money to register the car. I try and sit and talk with him but it goes nowhere. He is good for a few days, then slips back again. I struggle and struggle, and now feel I cant do this any more. I am considering leaving him to make things better for the kids mainly. We didnt have much money to take the kids out this holidays neither, but money was spent on expensive hi fi stuff, we already have.Please help?

2007-07-18 03:54:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i am dating this guy that my friend likes.he likes me and not my friend.she told me its ok if i date him so i am.so today i told her i was dating him amd she called me a backstabbing b***ch.she said that i had to choose her or him.what should i do.who should i chose.

2007-07-18 03:53:57 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I married when I was 19 to a great guy but somewhere along the way we just started falling apart, we fought all the time and could barely stand to be in the same room with each other, so we decide to separate, a few weeks later I met a guy and we started dating we really hit it off and 2 months later we married, however I was not divorced. some time went by and my father died and at the funeral i ran into my ex husband, when I saw him a lot of feelings came back and we ended up having sex (he did not know I was married) however at the time I was pregnant and decided to tell him I was, he said he knew it was not he's and was really hurt so he left me, its been a year now and i still love him but I recently heard he is dating a very beautiful girl and that he loves her very much and is planning to anull our marriage so he can marry her! is this possible? what can I do to get him back?

2007-07-18 03:53:05 · 10 answers · asked by yahaha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

of a different race?

2007-07-18 03:52:50 · 7 answers · asked by hey girl hey! 4 in Singles & Dating

ive got the usual stuff phone, ipod, money, cds,dvd, clothes ... need something unusal adn funky!!

2007-07-18 03:52:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I was raped when i was like three or four or five and my husband all of a sudden thinks he should tell my family. The person that raped me was a fmaily member......a cousin that no one talk to anymore. I'm over it, i've been over it. But out of nowhere my husband thinks he has the right to ell my family. He is threatening me that he is going to tell! I am so upset right now. I don't think he has that right. What do you guys think? And the rape doens't effect me sexually at all......trust me. Or mentally.

2007-07-18 03:51:23 · 23 answers · asked by Queen_of_Nice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me an my friend joel have been friends since like preschool and we went to this party last week and i got way to drunk and like when we went back to school
there was this big rumor that i slept with joel so i asked him about it and he said i started hanging all over him and stuff and that he was really drunk to and that we had sex he said sorry and he should of never done it i dont know if i should still be friends with him because if he was so drunk like he said he was why would he remember it?
what should i do?

2007-07-18 03:50:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-18 03:48:24 · 20 answers · asked by JingleBellRock 2 in Singles & Dating

there are a lot of people who say "she can't be taller than me"
"she can't be too short"
"I love tall women"
"short women are so cute"

so on and so forth. How much does it really matter to you on first impressions?

2007-07-18 03:48:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out that my boyfriend did not have his phone yesterday and that his so-called wife got ahold of it and was pretending to be him. i was trying to tell him that my ex husband was coming back from california and "he" said good then i don't need him because i can get serviced by the other guy, to which i responded there was absolutely no way because i loved him with all my heart and couldn't stand the thought of being with anyone else. then "he" said he was supposedly happy with his wife, and i asked if that was so then why did he make love to me the day before and talk about how we might be together sooner rather than later. ok so right there i just told the woman that i was still sleeping with him and that we had plans on being together. does anybody think it'll get her to finally get a clue and go away or just play her stupid head games even more than before? and please don't bother telling me to leave him cuz i'm not going to.

2007-07-18 03:47:53 · 7 answers · asked by robin s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok
so im listening to working class hero by green day right
and it hits me that i dont understand a thing about the war going on.
i dont have an opinion about it, cause i dont know whats going on. whenever i try to get my dad to explain it to me he gives me the same closed minded awnser because he feels a certain way about it. and it still confusses me.

can u guys explain it to me, i want different opinions so i can see everyones side.

2007-07-18 03:47:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was talking to a friend,her adopted dad molested her and her siblings 33 years ago, and nothing was ever done to him.She found out this man has married a couple times since then and had molested theses woman's kids. He moved out of state and changed his name,he has to be stopped but she doesn't have any idea were to even start.If you have any info I can give her to help her I would appreciate it, Thank you.

2007-07-18 03:47:30 · 7 answers · asked by simple serenity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my life consists of being the quiet one...this leads for me to be not like standing out and not actually asked out. This makes me kinda depressed sometimes and makes me quiet. (So its like a circle) Then my friends takes the spotlight. I just wish I was like notice...and happy that I am. I need to break the chain of me: Sad>Quiet>Noone notice>Sad> This is a full circle. Help with my life please...?

2007-07-18 03:46:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I had met my ex wives first husband on two occasions,they have a son together.They were married 15 years ago.I called him the other day with the hope he maybe able to shine some light on her behaviors while we were married.He is a real nice guy like me.My wife had told me she had caught him in bed with another woman,and that he wanted the divorce..there son was 18 months old...Come to find out she was the one cheating and asked for a divorce on there second aniversery.Why would she have told me he cheated on her?

2007-07-18 03:45:47 · 13 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-18 03:44:12 · 18 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

i never done any thing to her beside marring her son tim i tied to contact her though e maile but got nothing back so why dose she hate me so much

2007-07-18 03:43:21 · 12 answers · asked by trouble005 1 in Family

I'm the one to usually give advice, but this time I need it.I have this boyfriend,who's 15. I'm a virgin and 13.he's not. HE'S wanting to change that. He tells me you can't get pregnant the first time.Bullhockey. But I'm going to stay a virgin until I'm married. I'm a girl who's worth waiting for. I told him If he stops pressuring me, we will stay together. But if he doesn't, then it's over. Either way I'm NOT under ANY circumstances having sex. What should I do? THank you for reading and God Bless.

2007-07-18 03:41:25 · 51 answers · asked by Sierra Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

I told my fiance how many men I had slept with which is 8 I dont think that is a high number, I told him when I lost my virginity and now a YEAR later he is upset about it.
He claims he "waited" for me by only sleeping with 2 females (I smell bullcrap!)...
So I say well there is NOTHING I can do about that, its my past , what do you want me to do about it.
I told him these things trying to be honest and now he is throwing them in my face!
Has anyone been in a situation like this before?

2007-07-18 03:41:00 · 22 answers · asked by Jessica W 2 in Marriage & Divorce