Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

Im 7months pregnant, & Me And my Husband were together 4yrs before we decided to get married, we have now been married 2months and everything is horrible. He lives with his parents and I live with my father, & just one day he stoped coming to stay with me for 2weeks! Come to find out he was with someone else, nothing sexual but he did like her and they were hanging out everyday! :( We have been having problems with being happy really the last yr & now things are worse. He wont take me anywhere to hang with him and his friends, I cant call or txt message him without getting grief, I cant come over here without almost begging, Hes not as Affectionate with me at all anymore, Our sex life is horrible..Im just so unhappy right now with things but, I Love him with all my heart & know there is still enough there to make us happy together he just wont try and help himself find it. Were both trying to make things right but, its just so hard & its hard to forget abot her! Any Suggestions?

2007-07-18 05:02:44 · 17 answers · asked by birdluver24 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok every one this is the deal when i started dateing this guy for about 2 weekis i was calling him to say hi and just to talk he was fine with it, then like 3 weeks ago he asked me not to call him alot due to the fact that i was always calling, and im not going to say no because i was calling him, so he says "Hey call me but dont call me alot, i want to get to know u better but on my pase" and i siad ok that's fine with me, so i stoped calling him, then i went in vacation for a week and he called me rarely that week. So i stoped calling him i waited tell he called me and stuff witch he did but just for alittle bit. Know we haven't seen each other for 2 weeks due to our work and he's school and last night he called me asking me why i haven't been calling him, and that he think's that i dont care for him, i leave him for last and all these things, so i dont know what he want's 1 he tells me not to call him and know he want sme to be there and call him. what's up with him?

2007-07-18 05:01:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if you are 1 of 4 kid's i do not hv a wife at this time som i moved back home to help with my mother which is sick however she can still get around it's my father the land which they live on was giving to my mother years ago by her mother my mother had told my sister the way she wanted to leave it but my father wants my baby bro to hv the house and most of the land . well i am the one who is here helping them out i do not care about the house ect..........but it's just hurts me to see that my mom will do what he wants she will not fight him on this my sister feels why should she fix anything up if our brother is going to get it and the houst does need repairs made to it at this time. my mother wants me here to help with her but my father run's everything if i clean the house up he puts everything back the way it was. he makes me feel like a child help

2007-07-18 05:01:32 · 5 answers · asked by just me 1 in Family

My best friend (since the age of three) was married this past weekend. I live across the country, so when she asked me to be her maid of honor I was so happy that the distance would not stop me from being that. She ordered the dresses through a chain, so that I could pick up the dress she picked out in my city. Well, the dress she picked for me was a set (like a top and bottom that match). It was EXACTLY like the other girl's dresses, so I got a different top (same color) to stand out. I also ended up embrodiring it and making some really cool jewelry to match it. I even put streaks of blue in my hair to match the dress!!! This girl knows I am an artist and I never look common. So I don't understand, she started freaking out she saw the streaks at rehearsal diner, but totally flipped when she saw the dress and the embrodiery I had done and the different top. She couldn't stop crying. I had to be in the wedding because she coulnd't have uneven numbers, but now she won't talk

2007-07-18 05:00:30 · 93 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-07-18 04:59:02 · 42 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Singles & Dating

Are beautiful girls more likely to be mean/shallow than other girls? I've never been with a "hot" girl. I'd like to be, but I've been told that she will leave me for the next good looking guys she sees (I'm not the best looking guy). These kinda girls are probably out of my league anyway, should I just avoid them all together because they are more likely to be mean/shallow?

2007-07-18 04:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by sspence966 1 in Singles & Dating

so i have been going with this guy for about a couple months, it started out real slow though...well he kept asking me what my dirty lil fantasy was...and i told him, but he kept trying to dig deeper and deeper till he heard something he wanted to hear...just the other day i turned the question on him...and kept trying to dig deeper and deeper, till he confided in me...that it is a fantasy of his to be manhandled by a woman...dressed in a thong and bra, and ''possibly'' even be penetrated by a woman....

what the hell am i supposed to do with that...the guy is a good guy overall, and he has a great bankroll...but this is kinda pushing me over the edge..i cant stop thinking about it!

2007-07-18 04:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by lil gaper 3 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up a year ago, but we've still been sleeping together despite the fact that he has a gf. yes, i know im a bad person, but i did call it off a month ago when i started seeing another guy. well i friended his gf on facebook and he freaked out and threatened to punch my face in if i told her that he's been cheating (i have proof).

i dont think he'd actually hurt me or my property. especially since my friends have told him that i considered going to the cops with that stuff. i never wanted to tell his gf and ruin their relationship cuz i still care about him even though he doesnt care about me. so do i tell her and risk him freaking out on me? or do i just forget about it and try to move on with my life? thank you for your help

2007-07-18 04:57:06 · 5 answers · asked by Steph 3 in Singles & Dating

All out get on one knee and ask him to marry her.
Would he have to go out and buy her a ring after she proposed?

Just something I always thought about

2007-07-18 04:55:48 · 25 answers · asked by La Princesa 6 in Singles & Dating

when i was pregnant and very young iasked someone who was black and married to a white man if they were excited to see what their kds would look like. She got mad. But i was asking honstley b/c my hubby and i were from different races too and we were excited too.LOL

2007-07-18 04:54:40 · 15 answers · asked by girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Many people see love as the primary reason to marry, but in the US the divorce rate is obscence. I am beginning to think that there must a more solid basis for marriage. If you marry a who person that you like a lot, share similar dreams, trust and are basically compatible, will love just occur naturally?

2007-07-18 04:53:36 · 11 answers · asked by 101 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a problem with my husband, and I'm not sure if it's a real problem or just something in my head. I have been married for almost ten years, have two daughters. I may not be gorgeous, but I think I am attractive. I'm 32 years old but most people say I look younger. Size six, sometimes four, red, medium length hair, fair skin. I am not a health freak but I take care of myself as much as I can. My husband often calls me "HOT" and says I'm sexy - that is not a problem but he never, EVER says I'm beautiful. Not even pretty. I feel like a piece of meat, not a wife. Do you guys think this is a sign something else is wrong or can you give me the male point of view on this? Am I just over-sensitive? THANKS.

2007-07-18 04:52:29 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hey boyz, what do you love most about ya ladies??

2007-07-18 04:52:16 · 6 answers · asked by xXxEpic VictoryxXx 4 in Singles & Dating

I just found out I'm pregnant, I'm scared to death & I haven't had the time to enjoy the fact that I'm pregnant because my family hasn't been supportive. My bf is happy but we're not financially stable & he's what my family calls 'ghetto'. He's not 100% well educated but he's aware of things he does. I know he's not what people would consider the best choice to be a parent. He has a 3yr old son who is beautiful & he loves him with all his heart. I know he'll be there for our baby in case we end up separating, but still,I love him & want my baby to see a family together,eventhough I know it will be VERY hard to deal with teaching a baby and a 'dad' (my bf). I know it was my mistake,but my mom is really being so negative about this,my sister & dad are just really quiet about it.My parents divorced and have made many mistakes that I don't want my baby to see in me,so I guess they can't tell me much, but I'm just desperate & I feel like I let everybody down. What should I do 2 feel better?

2007-07-18 04:52:09 · 9 answers · asked by Diana 5 in Family

If there was anything that you could have done differently, either in your personality or appearance, to have had things work out differently?

2007-07-18 04:51:06 · 14 answers · asked by rhiannon2797 3 in Singles & Dating

My livin in boyfriend of 8 1/2 years fell out of love with me and found another girl whom he started talking to a month a go or so. I found out he slept with her and so now we are broken up and I am moving out back to my hometown. How can he just move on in a blink of an eye. He says he will always carry me in him and cares for me but he's all into her these days. I am moving 6 hrs away in 2 weeks and I don't plan on talking or seeing him anymore- Does he feel any pain? Will he even miss me? Or is this girl going to fill his void?

2007-07-18 04:49:01 · 21 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that has been talking about how he can't get me off his mind. When he first met me I was dressed up with a little cleavage showing and I have given him a kiss about 3 times in the past month he has known me. He says he goes to sleep thinking about kissing all over me and wakes up thinking about me. He calls me three times a day morning, noon, and night. hes a older man & i love older men but he is scaring me. I want to give him some but i am scared it will be some fatal attraction stuff going on. I had this to happen to me twice by older men too. and they started off just like he did, with strong feelings before i even got in the bed with them. even though i can do for myself, this man can do even more but i hate to be smothered & i really don't like talking on the phone everyday about nothing. I tried to back up once & he said he would not give up that easily so i just talk 2 him on the phone. should i let him go or what do you think?

2007-07-18 04:47:57 · 30 answers · asked by My two cents 4 in Singles & Dating

Hi all. My mother-in-law used my baby's (4 months old) picture to make homemade mailing labels that she puts on envelopes that go to friends, family and even for bill paying! I really do NOT want my little baby's face all over the place like that. I talked to my sister-in-law about it (she was a recipient of a card with the address label on it) and she thinks that there are so many crazy people out there, that seeing a baby's face on the label, and associating it with home address can be dangerous. She also thinks that her mother has no right to use our baby's picture in that content. She brings up a very good point. It really is upsetting me. How should I approach this? I love my mother-in-law very much, but this is just over the edge. I also spoke to my mother about it, and she thinks it is very wrong, and also brought up the same "danger" warning. She should not be promoting MY child!

2007-07-18 04:45:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

She has three kids by different fathers. She doesn't work. She stays home with these kids all the time, and she acts like she hates them. She will do cruel things, but not abusive things. Like, she will buy new toys or take their toys and break them or set them up very high where the kids can't get them. She will make them eat raw veggies while she eats cookies and Happy Meals, just to tick them off. She puts them to bed at five o'clock at night and expects them to stay in bed until at least nine the next morning so she doesn't have to deal with them. If they get up, the get punished. She throws food at them, and dumps water on their heads and if they wet the bed she wno't change the sheets. She basically torments them, and punishes them when the react. But they are clean, well fed, disciplined, and she never hits them. And she only throws soft things like mashed potatoes at them. She also mimics them and makes them dress in really embarrasing clothes when they go out.

2007-07-18 04:45:43 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I told her she can't bring her kid (1 year old) to my wedding because the fiance and I have decided on an adults only affair. The church is across her condominium.
When I told my friend that she can't bring her kid, she says she'll stand outside the church with her kid so she can see me even if she can't attend. Now, I'm worried. It's going to look bad esp if our other guests see her and she gets the pity vote since I didn't invite her because she can't bring the darn kid.
She keeps asking if we have booked the church yet and what time the wedding is. She knows the date we are planning on, but I just told her that we haven't booked the church yet (which is the truth).
I told my other friend about what she said and I told him not to tell her the date and time of my wedding. My friend really felt insulted for me since he knows that we are only inviting 50 of the closest relatives and friends the fiance and I have.
How do I do damage control? Is she being passive-aggressive?

2007-07-18 04:45:11 · 37 answers · asked by doktorangbaliw 4 in Weddings

mine was on christmas eve last year and i was my boyfriends first kiss! i think its so sweet cause he actually didnt act all macho and didnt lie about it. and he trusted me enough to tell me.

2007-07-18 04:44:41 · 22 answers · asked by Loved 4 in Singles & Dating

if i will be your slave for one day so you can do anything to me..........what will you do whole day??

2007-07-18 04:43:26 · 37 answers · asked by cuz he will die soon 2 in Singles & Dating

I think its rude! If you spend time answering someones question, you probably won't be fast enough to be the first response. But if they don't pick an answer it goes to voting. And people lazily pick the first answer without reading the responses.

2007-07-18 04:41:46 · 12 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

All we do is argue, we argue over everything and honestly i'm fed up with it. He's nice to me when he wants something and that's it. I just don't know what to do anymore, it's really frustrating. He leaves every night to go hang out with his friends while i stay home with our 14 month old son as i do 24/7. I don't get to go hang out with my friends or even go to the store by myself. Any ideas??

2007-07-18 04:41:44 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i fell asleep with the tv on twice this week, and my step dad gets SOO pissed off as if i was doing this on purpose. i dont even mean to do this, its an accident. now he took my ps3 away for the 2nd time for something that was an accident.
lets say if you fell asleep with the tv on like couple of times, would you want your parent taking a valuable stuff away from you? do you think that is fair?

2007-07-18 04:39:19 · 5 answers · asked by BaSeBaLlKiD721 6 in Family

2007-07-18 04:37:04 · 27 answers · asked by Nay Nay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok if guys see a girl that they think is pretty or whatever...why must they hit on them in such a disrespectful way??? for instance:
* i was putting gas in my truck and some idiot was like "damn girl you look good and blah blah blah" and followed me to my car or they'll just yell at you like a fuc king dog and expect you to go to them... it just irritates me because it gets old why cant a guy just go up to a girl and say hi i think that you are very pretty and go from there???

2007-07-18 04:36:54 · 2 answers · asked by ☆..LoSEr..☆ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-18 04:36:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...would you get an instantaeous divorce? Or, would you figure, maybe I am partly at fault? Or, figure, I cannot support myself and the children even with support, it would kill my parents, I can't take the humiliation, etc?

2007-07-18 04:36:10 · 30 answers · asked by danashelchan 5 in Marriage & Divorce

and it does not work she gets really mad at me and i don't know what to do

2007-07-18 04:35:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating