guys??? why do yall do this???? ugh!!?

Question

ok if guys see a girl that they think is pretty or whatever...why must they hit on them in such a disrespectful way??? for instance:
* i was putting gas in my truck and some idiot was like "damn girl you look good and blah blah blah" and followed me to my car or they'll just yell at you like a fuc king dog and expect you to go to them... it just irritates me because it gets old why cant a guy just go up to a girl and say hi i think that you are very pretty and go from there???

Answer 1

I know, it's such a shame that the whole chivalry thing has disappeared, I think alot of it is just peer pressure and like afraid that they'll appear soft.

Answer 2

Its maturity, or rather its perception. See we use "the game" as a way to keep from really making geniune relationships, it isn't really choice, as much as its social conditioning, but really the main goal is based on the ideal that man and woman are two different creatures. See most men are brought up under the doctorin that females are emotional, naggy, freedom stealing, hard to get along with, hard to understand, bossy, controlling, unpredictable, soft and hard, and nacrisctic. With that said, it isn't that males don't see your more then whats between your legs, its that were taught that everything you have beyond that, doesn't matter. And in the great schema of making a family the traditional sitcom american family way, you don't. You just find a lady thats willing to take your stuff and give it up to you as much as possible, so what do you expect form our society? Really? I mean when romance is thought to be all that love is, when people pride screw more then they actually make love (and yes having sex with someone because their so cute and sweet, is a pride screw) ,and what does virginity mean now? No cool friends really. Were everyone talks about going to parties! doing drugs, and of course getting laid. So in this society just accept that, thats normal behavior. Deal with it sister, wait tell you realize how well it ties in to how emotionally distant everyone is, and you actually see how much its all our faults.... but also realize that anyone who does it that way is truly only a male, not a man.