Are beautiful girls more likely to be mean/shallow than other girls? I've never been with a "hot" girl. I'd like to be, but I've been told that she will leave me for the next good looking guys she sees (I'm not the best looking guy). These kinda girls are probably out of my league anyway, should I just avoid them all together because they are more likely to be mean/shallow?
2007-07-18 04:58:27 · 10 answers · asked by sspence966 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be so stereotypical. Not all of us are like that. In fact, we tend to appreciate guys who compliment us and feel good about ourselves. We like guys who treat us right, not guys who like us just because we're beautiful. It seems like guys are shallow by choosing girls who are ONLY beautiful.
Well, atleast that's how I see it.
2007-07-18 05:01:50 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is all in your perception sir. If your definition of "beautiful" is external beauty, it really has no consistent rendering of specific qualities in individuals. If you would read your question, "Are BEAUTIFUL girls mean"shallow"?" I perceive beauty as the culmination of someones inner and outer traits. If someone is lovely and cruel than that is who they are. Don't be so quick to judge. Often times a well intended gesture is misconstrued as an insult. If you desire a lasting relationship communicate your barriers, needs, wants, goals and dreams. See beauty in all people and be sure that what you perceive is beauty, is what YOU WANT to perceive as beauty; not what your friends or the media have shown you. If you go into a relationship feeling you have had to downgrade, it isn't a good mentality to have for a possible future spouse. It isn't fair for that person who may just think you are the most wonderful person they've ever met. Do a little soul searching in who you are, what you need and want in a significant other, things you can't live without. Things you wouldn't mind, don't be too critical but have an idea. Hope this helps
2016-04-01 10:24:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont know if ud consider me a beautiful girl but my friends do and im not mean or shallow. there can be a beautiful girl and not be the slightest of a nice person. but there can be others that YOU may think is beautiful and have a beautiful mind and not be mean or shallow. IF ud consider me a beautiful girl then no not all of them are like that
2007-07-18 05:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beuty is in the eye of the beholder. I have dated hot non shallow girls. But Ok maybe they wer a bit shallow. Its when they become in love with themselves that they turn shallow.
2007-07-18 05:28:39 · answer #4 · answered by Minisheetsy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hitch: Basic Principles - no woman wakes up saying "God, I hope I don't get swept off my feet today!" Now, she might say "This is a really bad time for me," or something like "I just need some space," or my personal favorite "I'm really into my career right now." You believe that? Neither does she. You know why? 'Cause she's lying to you, that's why. You understand me? Lying! It's not a bad time for her. She doesn't need any space. And she may be into her career, but what she's really saying is "Uh, get away from me now," or possibly "Try harder, stupid," but which one is it? 60% of all human communication is nonverbal, body language; 30% is your tone, so that means 90% of what you're saying ain't coming out of your mouth. Of course she's going to lie to you! She's a nice person! She doesn't want to hurt your feelings! What else she going to say? She doesn't even know you... yet. Luckily, the fact is that just like the rest of us, even a beautiful woman doesn't know what she wants until she sees it, and that's where I come in. My job is to open her eyes. Basic Principles - no matter what, no matter when, no matter who... any man has a chance to sweep any woman off her feet; he just needs the right broom.
2007-07-18 05:03:37 · answer #5 · answered by Giggly Giraffe 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
With beautiful and hot, you mean that she`s got the looks...and only THAT. What is beautiful from your point of view?well it seems to me that you categorize this so called hot girl as brain-less and pathetic, ignoring that there might be a beautiful hart inside her too...
2007-07-18 05:09:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I get told im beautiful/pretty/hot/sexy/gorgeous quite often by guys. I dont consider myself mean or shallow though.
Im only ever mean to people i dont like hehe.
2007-07-18 05:07:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
like any human being it depends on a variety of things that makes up her life. Some of them can be, but then again, some of them are very nice becuase they do not get approached. My ex, we broke up on mutual terms and are still friends, dated me becuase I had the confidence to walk up to her and ask her out... Hell, no one else did, and becuase of that I got three years of very blissful relationship with theis strikingly hot lady. Either way your luck goes bruh, its a gamble. people are generally a product of their enviornment, which is why I kinda hate san diego.
2007-07-18 05:04:17 · answer #8 · answered by Aggin Tad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm..no..not all pretty girls are mean..and pretty girls wont leave you for the next good lookin guy they see..ho*s will..
2007-07-18 05:03:24 · answer #9 · answered by hey girl hey! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are more likely to be bittchs but not all pretty woman are
2007-07-18 05:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋