2007-07-18 04:37:04 · 27 answers · asked by Nay Nay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first.. ask people that have experience with this subject..
second. ignore the doomday dr phil parroted answers from the non experienced answers here....
third... it is a lot of fun...
fourth.. find someone who is a complete stranger...
2007-07-18 06:38:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You could be really testing your relationship or opening a Pandora's Box by venturing into 3some territory. It really boils down to how much trust you and your husband have in each other.
Good Luck! Have fun
2007-07-18 04:43:02 · answer #2 · answered by Melly 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
What answer do you want to hear? It is possible to have a threesome every now and then and it be okay. The problem is threesomes are like gateway drugs. They lead to more serious things. Consider you might become a full blown swinger over time. Can you handle that? Also why do you need a threesome is there something missing in the bedroom as it is?
2007-07-18 05:22:32 · answer #3 · answered by budlightdonkey 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Go for it:) There is nothing wrong with it, as long as you are both agreeable! In fact, it is a great way to spice up your sex life. But make sure to find a female who you are both comfortable with, more so you. Do not pick someone just because he likes her. You will be sexually interacting with this woman, and you need to find her attractive, and be able to interact sexually with her! Good luck (oh and make sure she is disease free, and on birth control)!
2007-07-18 05:17:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go for it!
Ruin your marriage, end up jealous, (because he'll like her more than you) - struggle with a huge amount of guilt (because you did this to your marriage) - get a divorce and end up miserable for the rest of your life. While he has a relationship with the girl YOU were interested in. Sounds like a good plan.
Have Fun!
2007-07-18 04:45:01 · answer #5 · answered by jt 3 · 2⤊ 3⤋
all answers above me are correct, if a little over dramatic,
use your better jugement, it can be really fun and if not handled right it can ruin your marriage, best advice i can give is to make sure it isnt one of your friends, go out and YOU pick up on the woman not the husband,
2007-07-18 04:57:28 · answer #6 · answered by eyesinthedrk 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It really depends on the strength of your relationship, and your individual levels of security and confidence. It might be a fun sexual experience, or it might be the beginning of the end of your marriage. Evaluate your own emotions, and those of your husband objectively before you make the decision.
2007-07-18 04:40:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 2⤋
in most of the cases i've heard this has ended(in the long run)badly, i would try to find other ways to do new stuff only with each other or get together with other doing stuff that may be sexually stimulating or exciting but does not involve having sex with an person outside your marriage.
2007-07-18 04:43:59 · answer #8 · answered by dino w 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
If you value your marriage i would not do it. So many things can go wrong. He might want her more without you, you might want her more without him. Etc etc. It could cause major issues in your relationship. I have not yet heard of any good results from a married couple with a good relationship benefiting from a 3 sum.
2007-07-18 04:42:42 · answer #9 · answered by ~Angel Eyed Pookie~ 4 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Been there and done that. Its not worth the guilt in later years, It's a bad idea!
2007-07-18 05:12:02 · answer #10 · answered by widowmaker157 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋