so i have been going with this guy for about a couple months, it started out real slow though...well he kept asking me what my dirty lil fantasy was...and i told him, but he kept trying to dig deeper and deeper till he heard something he wanted to hear...just the other day i turned the question on him...and kept trying to dig deeper and deeper, till he confided in me...that it is a fantasy of his to be manhandled by a woman...dressed in a thong and bra, and ''possibly'' even be penetrated by a woman....
what the hell am i supposed to do with that...the guy is a good guy overall, and he has a great bankroll...but this is kinda pushing me over the edge..i cant stop thinking about it!
2007-07-18 04:58:15 · 9 answers · asked by lil gaper 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason why i am asking about opinions on here...is that honestly its too embarassing to directly ask my friends about..after all if we stayed together...i would be horribly embarrassed that they knew...
2007-07-18 05:00:47 · update #1
Hey just give him what he wants. Buy a dildo or vibrator and do what he wants. I mean hey, what you do in your bedroom or his is no one elses business. It's not like it means he is gay or anything. It's not like he asked you to whip him and torture him or anything geesh. He trusted you with this information as you trusted him with yours. How would you feel if he responded this way to what you had told him? Not very good i assume.
2007-07-18 05:12:43 · answer #1 · answered by ~Angel Eyed Pookie~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a fantasy. Just let it be. If it comes to the point where you guys are comfortable enough to start acting out fantasies-only go as far as YOU are comfortable with-that is it.
But every guy has some kind of crazy weird sometimes questionable fantasy-and this one is not THAT bad...at least it doesnt have to do with any farm animals. I am sure some people would probably raise an eyebrow at your fantasy as well...
2007-07-18 05:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm short (5'a million") so it particularly is quite straight forward for a guy to be taller than me. The reasoning I even have at the back of all the tallness is women want to experience secure. by way of having a tall guy, we experience like he can hover over us and shop us risk-free. we at the instant are not thoroughly against relationship somebody shorter, in spite of the undeniable fact that it particularly is slightly awkward. desire this helped!
2016-10-09 00:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a strap on and handcuffs. When he walks in nail him with the cuffs {behind his back} and push him to his knees where you can "Apply" the object. It might lead to love. Who knows, it takes all kinds to make the world go around.
2007-07-18 05:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would your Friends ever need to know ?
If you want to try it, go for it--but keep your mouth shut- it's nobody else's business
What does his bankroll have to do with it?
2007-07-18 05:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your fantasy was to do that to a guy, then your all set.
if you cant handle it, dump him.
everybody is different. somel women like to used for sex. they just like to be taken. others will sleep with their boyfriends friend, just because the boyfriend asked.
if your not into it move on.
2007-07-18 05:06:00 · answer #6 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cause he wanted to share his fantasy with you thats why he kept bugging you hoping you would ask him his i mean you didnt have to pry it out of him id man handle him alright id tie his butt to the bed blind fold him in your underware and share the pics with me id get a kick out of it
2007-07-18 05:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by NovemberRain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well...all guys are a lil wierd but his is exceptionally wierd! if he loves you and takes care of you..i guess give it a try if you feel up to it...otherwise, play it down and see what he does about it...
2007-07-18 09:21:07 · answer #8 · answered by ignoramous i 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...is this b**** gay??!!! Drop his ***
2007-07-18 05:02:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋