Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

I have had a long distance relationship with this 24yr old woman for 7 months now. We would talk on the cell phone everyday. We recently planned to meet this month. Last Friday, I never got a call from her. That seemed strange. Then on Saturday I got a text message that her uncle was in the hospital again. Then Monday, I txt her asking if she was mad at me. She said no, just alot going on at home. Then she txt me back sayin she would call me later. She never did. I kept calling her and sending her txt messages and no response. Which is very odd. I mean we would communicate daily. It is now Wednesday, 2 more days and it will be a week since I heard from her. I didn't send her anything today. I am tired of trying. This has never happened in this relationship. What should I do? Should I wait it out? or should I just move on? Would be a shame for it to end this way after all we have been through. I mean if she doesn't want to talk to me anymore wouldn't she just say so?

2007-07-18 05:42:30 · 18 answers · asked by lifeisgreat 3 in Singles & Dating

This girl I went out with led me to believe that she was interested in me -- she went out with me once, and agreed to go out with me again. But since then, she has ignored every attempt at communication. I realize now that she is not interested -- she was just stringing me along, and it makes me mad. Should I tell her how I feel or just try to forget about it?

2007-07-18 05:41:16 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

due to something that happened to me when i was young i have a hard time trusting any one especially men. i really yearn to find the right man and start a family but this fear prevents me from trusting men its gotten to the point where i dont even date!
any one have experience with over coming fear of intamacy?
thanks
kat

2007-07-18 05:40:54 · 1 answers · asked by katylady77 2 in Singles & Dating

I've had long hair most of my life, and now that I'm getting older it's getting on my nerves. It's just below my waist, takes forever to dry, tangles like crazy (because it's naturally wavy) and is a general pain in the derrière. Anyway, my husband who I love very much won't let me cut it. Everyone says it's my hair and I can do what I want with it, but my husband always does things to please me, so I feel I should do the same. He loves my hair and I don't want something silly (like cutting my hair) causing tension in our relationship. He's told me repeatedly that if I cut it, he'll be crushed and upset. There has to be an answer... I just don't know what it is. Any suggestions?

2007-07-18 05:40:15 · 4 answers · asked by Bluebellringy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Reason is my best friend confessed to me why guys don't want to continue going out with me. My place is organized, the only problem is that is an old apartment complex. Is that very important in being in a relationship?

2007-07-18 05:38:45 · 11 answers · asked by dissappointedluv 1 in Singles & Dating

If u r being sexually assualted like fondling or oral sex, kissing & many more such things while u r in sleep from trusted family members & if u go 2 child protection agency or any other authority who r asking u 4 proof, then how will u prove it? Specially when u r disbelieved only coz u r a boy(late teen) & ur abusers r trusted family female members who r incredibly voilent as well! Even in case of injuries u r asked 2 prove that it is done by family members when a third party eye-witness is absent & u do have life threat from ur own family so u have to plan everything secretly, abusers r trying to keep an eye on ur every step and when u r sacred enough as half of ur life has been fetched away, having nobadys support & u r finding unable 2 trust anybody as well as don't want to be anybodys entertainment center. Abusers r much more elder than u, having majority who r trusted family members as well! So if anybody outsider comes 2 help, d abusers make u disbeliev by telling them u r mentally ill & they have done nothing wrong & d stupid outsiders(child protection agency or anybody else) believes them too & then starts asking u same stupid questions repeatedly like "would ever any trusted family members do so?" , "why u r being targeted?" , why they r doing with u?" , "how could it be possible?" , "why u want to stop it?" & many more humeleting questions, which u have nomore explanation. I don't want ans like locking door be4 sleep, pledge 2 d authority again & again or run away or to tell d abuser that I hate whatever they r doing with me, simply coz it makes no sense & not possible & I don't want to live hopeless life anymore.

2007-07-18 05:37:08 · 9 answers · asked by shakalakasan 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I moved out wtih each other for the first time after 5 years of dating. Everything was fine up until the piont I found out that his baby's mama lives just right around the street. He's been acting kind of strange. For example.. he'll get up late at night for an "outing"... I don't get an explaination for that... Then there's the walks that he takes.. he never went walking for as long as I know... Urghhh.. Is it me being inscure or is there something going on?

2007-07-18 05:36:16 · 29 answers · asked by ~*Johnnie*~ 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have been going out with my girlfriend for the past 3 years, we just got out of highschool and theres always been dumb girls trying to break us up...i will learn that a girl likes me in school, and if i find this out, i break off 100% of them. because i love my girlfriend more than anything, and when i stop talking to them, they get mad and try to break me and my girlfriend up.. and my girlfriend is getting mad at me because girls like me? im a very nice genuine guy. i have never cheated on my girlfriend and i have never came close. why does my girlfriend get mad at me for girls liking me? she acts like im flirting with them which im not. and my girlfriend is getting mad at me acting like its all my fault.. what should i do??=/

2007-07-18 05:36:11 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know him from seeing him out and about throughout the years,he always flirted with me,but i never gave him the time of day( i was hooked on my x)i saw him out the other night and he looked adorable,I ended up drinking a little too much,so I found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not reply,so the next morning i sent him another message saying'you are suppose to accept my apology'he replied with'im pacing myself'and a smily face.What was he saying? Is he interested or not?

2007-07-18 05:34:17 · 1 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex gf is a really troubled soul. She cheated on me numerous times because we were out of touch for 2 weeks and I wasn't the voice of reason to help her make the decision not to do that. Now I am weeks from being in Iraq and she says she doesn't love me because she feels guilty about her decisions. It's a lot to deal with but now I am in another relationship but it still puzzles me. Did I always have to be there to keep her faithful? If so what does that say about the relationship we had? She says that if her and her new bf break up then she'd probably want to be with me again. Should I fall for that mess? Would she deserve a second chance? Is the whole guilt thing a load of bull? Please help me out here?

2007-07-18 05:32:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my mom thinks im irresponsible and she wont let me date and even though im good in school and clean up around the house she still wont let me date.She doesnt want me to make the same mistake she made at having a baby at 16.HELP!!!!!!

2007-07-18 05:32:24 · 17 answers · asked by ~~MissCutie~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

I CAN'T AFFORD THE CEDAR POINT TRIP

2007-07-18 05:31:17 · 3 answers · asked by zarazowskijr 1 in Singles & Dating

I wanna send this guy a message on myspace about the two of us hanging out, what is a message to send? I know him but not that well. He is 4 years older than me. We went to the same highschool but did not know eachother.

2007-07-18 05:28:36 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to flirt back with guys.
when do guys think a girl is cheap.

2007-07-18 05:26:53 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 05:25:04 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the past couple years I have run into thsi guy here and there out at night,i remember him always trying to talk to me and I would blow him off(i was still hooked on my x at the time)well time has passed and i saw him out one night a couple weeks ago and i thought he looked adorable,i had a little too much to drink and probably looked like an idiot,so i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not reply.So the next morning I sent him another message saying'your suppose to accept my apology'he responded with'im pacing myself'so a few days went by and I sent him a message asking him to add me to his friends list(because i was not sure how to)and he did.It has been a little over a week since,now what?

2007-07-18 05:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Singles & Dating

A few people have asked this guy if he likes me. He is 3 years younger then me.. and his response is.. i don't know. I like her as a friend.. and then as a possible further response its still i don't know. Is there a chance with this guy or am i going upstream without a paddle?

2007-07-18 05:22:32 · 27 answers · asked by Slapabitchez 2 in Singles & Dating

im going out with this boy in my year group at school. my friends have had a problem with him in the past and personally don't like him. i really do love him but i have my friends saying things that they reckon will spilt us up and i have had enough of them interfering. i just want me and him to have a relaxed relationship without people trying to split us up. what shall i do?

2007-07-18 05:21:51 · 8 answers · asked by chloe s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat do girls wish a guy cud do romanticly
thanks

2007-07-18 05:21:45 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in bad relationship and scared of leaving incase he finds me and my little girl and i have no money he controls everything i have lost touch with most of my family and friends because of him. I confided in a friend who told me i should go to one i wondered what they can help me with and waht refuges are like and how long am i likely to be in one? Thanks.

2007-07-18 05:19:28 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my husband for nine years (5 of this married to him). He turned round and told me a month ago that the feelings he felt werent strong enough to sustain a marriage, we have a three year old son. I am absolutely devastated, he is my soulmate, I am totally in love with him and can't stop crying. I just feel empty and very very lonely, nobody wants a divorcee with a child do they? The thought of starting again is horrible, I miss him terribly he was so affectionate and always there for me nomatter what? Doe anyone else feel the same, or going through the same predicament?

2007-07-18 05:19:08 · 37 answers · asked by medra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-07-18 05:18:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My boyfriend and I have been going out for around 3 months. We are both in Love. He has a lot more experience then I do and he knows that. He completly respects me and doesnt want to make me feel uncomfortable. I'm ready to go further with and I dont know how to tell him. Should I just call him up and tell or what? Also whats the best way to ask your boyfriend about STD's I want to make sure I am safe before doing anything.

2007-07-18 05:16:51 · 7 answers · asked by GB 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been w/ my husband for 7 years, married for 4. I am very much in love with him and care deeply about him. We have had many issues in our relationship - but nothing that we supposedly could not work through. Over the years I had come to blame myself for many of the issues that we had - because I know that I have many issues - and had not really analyzed things to the point where I attempted to figure out what he was doing to damage the relationship - because it does take 2. I have been going to therapy for several months and have asked him to come but he says "no" - he has gotten worse now and I am starting to believe he is bipolar because of how he acts and talks - and it wouldn't be a surprise because people in his immediate family have been diagnosed w/ this as well and are on medication and in therapy. I feel so helpless - thinking about asking his family to help me talk to him...any advice?

2007-07-18 05:12:43 · 12 answers · asked by Kimbermai 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im talking to dis one dude and i wanna get to know him REAL well.

2007-07-18 05:11:55 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfrind that i have never met has put wierd stuff on his myspace?

2007-07-18 05:06:37 · 17 answers · asked by MeWuVU!! 2 in Singles & Dating

Im trying to figure out my bf,, we have now been living together for 9 months in his home,,,by his want,,,,but sometimes i dont know what to think, he has yet to say those 3 words,,and i feel like we are in neutral,,,We get along pretty good, great communication ,etc....but still dont know where this relationship is going,, am i wasting my time or should i still stick around. My 11 year old son really looks up to him and they get along great, but i think deep down inside, im not happy. we have been together for 2 years, but have lived together for 9 months

2007-07-18 05:05:28 · 4 answers · asked by kimmie_o2004 2 in Singles & Dating

Which I am upset and hurt by this, but my question is, do I have a right to be? Would you be so if your boyfriend did this, girls?

My boyfriend of 11 months, who I have had sex, went out and got circumsized last July 10th. The other day we were in his bed and he was half falling asleep so for fun I started to take "it" out of his boxers...and when I peaked down at "it" under the covers I noticed his foreskin was GONE. And instead there he had a few stitches from the procedure and a scar. I mean, I DO prefer a guy circumsized, but I was totally getting used to his skin, and it was a short foreskin so it wasn't a big deal.

I just feel hurt and upset he didn't even mention this to me AT ALL. He does NOT need my permission, but the fact he did this with out even telling me about it hurts alot.

He said he did it b/c his doctor advised for it to be done for "medical reasons."

Do I have a right to be hurt by this? Would you be? What should I do about it?

2007-07-18 05:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by Marissa 1 in Singles & Dating

the girl knows the guy likes herv a lot

2007-07-18 05:04:54 · 9 answers · asked by mani7_maneo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-18 05:03:44 · 8 answers · asked by Messenger Guy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships