the past couple years I have run into thsi guy here and there out at night,i remember him always trying to talk to me and I would blow him off(i was still hooked on my x at the time)well time has passed and i saw him out one night a couple weeks ago and i thought he looked adorable,i had a little too much to drink and probably looked like an idiot,so i found him on myspace the next day and sent him a message apologizing,he did not reply.So the next morning I sent him another message saying'your suppose to accept my apology'he responded with'im pacing myself'so a few days went by and I sent him a message asking him to add me to his friends list(because i was not sure how to)and he did.It has been a little over a week since,now what?
2007-07-18 05:24:17 · 8 answers · asked by kelly k 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now what what? leave him alone.
2007-07-18 05:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by ♥michele♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..Leave it alone. Don't keep sending him messages & etc..He now has you on his friend's list, so he can send you a message & talk to you. You don't need to keep it up. Let him show you some interest now..Since he's pacing himself, let him do things on his time frame..trying to get him on yours may turn out to be the opposite of what you're hoping for..good luck!
2007-07-18 12:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quit chasing him. Remember the drunken night in the bar? Well, you're reliving it now. You're on his friend's list aren't you? Let him contact you next. If a man is truly interested, you wouldn't be the one doing all the chasing.
2007-07-18 12:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Simply approach the person and speak out what you want and feel. No need give out lame half intended notes. Seize the moment!
2007-07-18 12:47:02 · answer #4 · answered by migs 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a cute picture or a quote on MySpace. Just keep contact for now. The fact that he said he was "pacing" himself lets you know he is definitely interested! Good Luck!
2007-07-18 12:28:24 · answer #5 · answered by wish2bwriter 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
leave it alone.. In my opinion, you done enough... He must make the next move...I mean, he seems upset or maybe even indifferent
2007-07-18 12:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by Chips 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him out for drinks or coffee. Nothing to complicated like dinner or a movie.
2007-07-18 12:28:04 · answer #7 · answered by hurleychic559 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
no, dont send him any message, if he cares he will do
2007-07-18 12:28:30 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋