Proof for sexual assualt in FAMILY???

Question

If u r being sexually assualted like fondling or oral sex, kissing & many more such things while u r in sleep from trusted family members & if u go 2 child protection agency or any other authority who r asking u 4 proof, then how will u prove it? Specially when u r disbelieved only coz u r a boy(late teen) & ur abusers r trusted family female members who r incredibly voilent as well! Even in case of injuries u r asked 2 prove that it is done by family members when a third party eye-witness is absent & u do have life threat from ur own family so u have to plan everything secretly, abusers r trying to keep an eye on ur every step and when u r sacred enough as half of ur life has been fetched away, having nobadys support & u r finding unable 2 trust anybody as well as don't want to be anybodys entertainment center. Abusers r much more elder than u, having majority who r trusted family members as well! So if anybody outsider comes 2 help, d abusers make u disbeliev by telling them u r mentally ill & they have done nothing wrong & d stupid outsiders(child protection agency or anybody else) believes them too & then starts asking u same stupid questions repeatedly like "would ever any trusted family members do so?" , "why u r being targeted?" , why they r doing with u?" , "how could it be possible?" , "why u want to stop it?" & many more humeleting questions, which u have nomore explanation. I don't want ans like locking door be4 sleep, pledge 2 d authority again & again or run away or to tell d abuser that I hate whatever they r doing with me, simply coz it makes no sense & not possible & I don't want to live hopeless life anymore.

Answer 1

Proof for sexual assault with regards to fondling, kissing or oral sex is very difficult to be produced medically unless such act caused physical bruises or injuries while done forcefully same is the case with regards to injuries suffered by vaginal or anal sex. In absence of any such medical record of such injuries caused during sexual assault on any one is very difficult to be proved in the court. Yes if this sexual act is being carried out by any male on another male or female & that left his semen in the physical opening of the victim ,the existence of such semen can be construed as sexual assault was conducted on the victim, similarly any existence of any virginal discharge left on the body of the victim if collected immediately from the body of the victim still will be a strong proof of sexual assault by a female on the victim, it will sound funny but the medical evidence of any such body secretion including saliva & blood of the assailant found on the body of the victim can be medically verified & used as a important piece of evidence. Any part of the body as hair or broken nail which again is found on the body of the victim left by the assailant again is a piece of evidence that can be medically verified. In such case apart from these pieces of evidence the evidence left during any sexual assault in the form of broken pieces of any object etc can add the to circumstantial evidence of happening of such act at the place where such act was reported to have taken place. Presence of any eye witness for such case will definitely be the best evidence but in such cases where such activities are done in close door it is very difficult to get unless some other member of the family or some servant working in the family agrees to give evidence to such an act .This is the legal position as far the proof of evidence is concerned in such cases. Now how to procure all the various evidences which I have discussed here is the immediate action in getting the medical examination done just after any such sexual assault then any left over secretion or any other body part on the body of the victim by the assailant can be checked & medically verified, any delay in such medical examination can weaken the veracity of the evidence left on the victims body, if you can get such a medical done immediately after this act of sexual assault then you have chance to get proper justice in such cases even against the family members who commit such an act against you.

Answer 2

My heart is breaking for you right now. I don't know how you could possibly prove that it is family members doing it to you -because obviuosly there will be no third party there! Sometimes the authorities are just jerks. Is there anyone else you can stay with? Do you have a friends or maybe a Pastor at a church? If you are over 15 you can petition the court to become an emancipated minor, but that doesn't really help the issue of where you can go to live... I wish I could give more advice but I will pray for you. Hang in there and keep reaching out for help. Someone will listen.

Answer 3

You do not want to do all that should be done. You should boldly tell the female abuser that you hate sexual abuse. Do not be attached to the people who are stupid and selfish. They will take advantage of you. Why should you respect the people who are not fit to be respected? In some way or other, you are also responsible.

Anyway, there is one more solution. Worship Lord Hanuman. He is the Chastiser of women-criminals. He will silence your so called "trusted" female family member who has the audacity to abuse you.

Answer 4

Go to www.saveindianfamily.org - they are a NGO working against Violence commited against Men in India. Get in touch with their nearest local chapter, they could both counsel you legally and psyclologically and be of a lot of help to you. If you are not an India they difinitly could refer you to your countries Organisation.

Answer 5

I do not know whether it would be right...
You may contact investigative TV channels… asking them to keep your identity secret… they may provide you with hidden cameras and help in collecting evidence…

Answer 6

Bad scene man!! . Try and get some professional help. Other than that can't be of much help.

Best of luck!!

Answer 7

Take a picture of the female without her knowledge when she is naked.
And post it to your own address or where she lives.
See to it that everyone sees that picture.
That will be more than enough to make her stop whatever she is doing now.

Answer 8

kya family hai!

Answer 9

God...............r u planning 2 be the producer of Balaji Telefilms?????