Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

that she would want to wait for a serious relationship.because she puts her family first and that see doesn't hurt.should i move on?or just wait around for her
she means some what a lot to me cause like i felt something that i never felt with the other people i have been with.she also tells me my friends that she likes me but she never acts like it around me.what do you think i should do to see when she is ready and i show that i like her well i try to at least and she doesnt respond or she changes the subject

2007-07-18 07:18:51 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs and i am 38 and he is 42..During most of our marriage i seemed to have a higher sex drive then him and his sex drive seemed lower then i read and heard about most men's but for the past 7-8 months his sex drive has gotten higher and mine has gotten lower..He said he wants me more and to make our sex life better..For yrs and yrs i waited for this change in him and now that it has finally happened it doesnt seem important or matter to me anymore and i dont know why cause i still love him more then anything and i still find him sexy and attractive and we make love 2-3 times a week and its still very satisfying but i dont seem to have the desire for sex like i did when i was in my mid-20's thru my 30's..So what is my problem.

2007-07-18 07:17:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-18 07:17:13 · 15 answers · asked by klutzyautumn 1 in Singles & Dating

Do men find lingerie to be a turn on or something that doesn't really matter? Do you prefer a girl in lingerie or naked when it comes to having sex?

2007-07-18 07:16:38 · 30 answers · asked by Just.l.o.v.e.Me 3 in Singles & Dating

what is a nickname you always call your boyfriend/girlfriend/crush???

2007-07-18 07:16:29 · 37 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

If he'd really rather go somewhere else if he could, is there a point in the relationship? Geez, why get put thru the humiation. How could anyone be proud to be with the man? Wouldn't it be less humilating if it's not his baby anyway? I mean if he's not going to be 100%.

2007-07-18 07:16:05 · 10 answers · asked by so tired 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We started to get intimate 8 days ago and now it seems that is all he wants to do.And I am feeling like that is all he thinks of me as...What do I do from here ?And is this normal?

Thanks:Sahara

2007-07-18 07:15:07 · 41 answers · asked by ™ ♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am fifteen and i have a job at the farm next door from 4 to 630 in the morning and i baby sit my two younger sisters and cousins from 7 to 5.The cousins listen fine and help me a lot but my sisters give me such a hard time and it streses me out and makes me crazy. I'm not a mean babysitter, i make them do their chores but then i take them to the pool and for bike rides and stuff THEY like to do but the chores have to be done first and it all depends on how they behaive..but the sisters dont listen they hit me and when they dont wanna do something theryre told to they throw a fit and i just cant take it anymore....something needs to change and talking to my parents did nothing because these kids dont listen to any one..please help me i really need it or im afraid i might do something to myself

2007-07-18 07:14:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my boyfriend gives me oral sex all the time but he knows that im kinda meh about giving him oral sex; plus i just had jaw surgery awhile ago but he says i still can do some stuff... should i listen to him and do it or just trust my gut and do it when i feel ready

2007-07-18 07:14:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we dont want to have sex just hang out and watch movies i have been datin her for 5 months

2007-07-18 07:13:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been with this girl for 3 months now,we're both seniors in college. I'm 25, she's 22. She's been wanting to have sex for the last couple of weeks with me,but I back off everytime she invites me to her apartment. I haven't had sex since I was 16.
when i was 13, i was raped by two female friends. i didn't want to have sex with them, but we did have a bit too much of alcohol. I didn't tell anyone because I would certainly been made fun of. Then when i was 16, i had sex with my gf. she became pregnant, and i dropped out of h.s. and started working full time to support the family. a couple years after, i found out the kid wasn't mine and we separated, even tho i loved the kid alot. and since then, i haven't had any relationships.
And now i don't know how to tell my current gf about my past. I feel very embarrased because i haven't had any for years, because i was raped,and also for dropping out of h.s. and supporting a kid that wasn't mine. so how do I tell her about my past.

2007-07-18 07:12:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married less than a month. I know I love my husband, and until very recently, was certain he loved me too, more than anything. However, I feel he's done a 180, and he says it's my fault. While I don't feel I criticize him (I make a conscience effort not too), he feels under attack a lot of the time and is very sensitive and angry and defensive. He loses his temper almost immediately if he senses a disagreement of any kind coming on. He is less affectionate, has stopped saying he loves me unless I say it first (but when asked says how much he does love me, only it seems out of obligation), he doesn't look at me the same way, it just isn't what I thought it was going to be. HE isn't what he used to be. And in such a short time!! How does a marriage go south so fast? I cry almost daily and he never seems happy with me anymore. He's unwilling to communicate or try to fix things, but won't leave me and says he is committed. Am I expecting too much?

2007-07-18 07:12:07 · 25 answers · asked by elkhartz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother-in-law has consistently ruined every single family gathering I have attended in the 9 yrs that I have known her! If it's an adult party then she gets drunk and starts crying and shouting.On kids occasions she sits there like the bad fairy making rude comments and generally being unpleasant.She justifies this by saying stuff like "I speak my mind,tough if you don't like it" On saturday it's my son's birthday.I have a small party organised with a couple of his school friends and kids from our street. I can do without the stress of walking on eggshells for fear of setting her off.I just want one family occasion that doesn't end badly. Do you think this is unreasonable.

2007-07-18 07:09:41 · 16 answers · asked by New Boots. 7 in Family

I'm interested in seeing how others share chores at home.

To start with, we both work full-time jobs.

We have a farm, as part of a co-op, and split the farming chores (we grow the fruits & vegetables for the co-op) between 2 couples.

Household chores are split as well. He fixes all the "stuff." I prepare all the meals. He sets the table, clears the table, and loads the dishwasher. I unload & put away. I do all the laundry. He scrubs (bathtub, stove, oven, countertops). I clean the sinks, toilets, and I vacuum. We both avoid dusting at all costs.

What do other couples do?

2007-07-18 07:09:03 · 10 answers · asked by kja63 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

My future ex-wife had a DUI. She used a lawyer that her family knows. She started having relations with him. Then she left me and wants a divorce. Thats fine with me but she wants me to pay for all of it and I refused. I told her to use her f buddy lawyer that broke up our marriage. She said that doing so would be unethical . Haha that was funny to me. So I guess is there anything I can do to get her to pay for the divorce? And yes the lawyer knew we were married. He was a friend of her Dads. Hes like 30 years older.

2007-07-18 07:09:00 · 14 answers · asked by Number 3 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been married for 6 months and last night i had a dream about having sex with my ex but when we were going out we never had sex but what does this mean?

2007-07-18 07:08:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

His marriage survived (the wife knows all), she has a great son, no contact with the father, but child support regularly. The guy has grown children with his wife. My friend is feeling guilty that her son has step siblings out there and feels her son should know this before he gets too old.

I told her I think she should tell him and also contact the siblings, because what if one day this boy hooks up with a girl that is an offspring of one of the grown children???? That would make him their step uncle. I mean come on - stranger things have happened!

What do you think she should do?

And ,no, we don't live in the south! Ü

2007-07-18 07:07:51 · 15 answers · asked by CluelessOne 5 in Family

i've had a major crush on this guy forever, and he's liked me a long time too. just recently my friend (now x-friend) started dating him, but i can tell he doesn't like her. how do i win his heart back for me?

2007-07-18 07:06:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im planning on going to disneyland first week in september and here's the deal, Im going with my hubby our 3 year old girl and my mother in law and sis in law we were going to take the baby who is four months old but will be five months when we go but now they want to make us get another room because it will be more than 5 ppl in the room with the baby so it will end up costing us over 600 bucks to take the baby because we cannot afford that i was just going to leave her with my mom for the 3 day's we will be gone but now im thinking it's going to be really hard for me i don't know if i can leave without her for 3 days and we can't afford to take her but i now she will be fine with my mom it's just me i've never been away from her and im sad to leave her, what should i do?

2007-07-18 07:06:38 · 7 answers · asked by kimberly b 2 in Family

My ex-husband wants us to get back together as a family. He spoke to me for about 1 hour the other day.

I have always hated the fact that he compared me to his sisters. He has two sisters and one is exactly the same age as me (born on the same day/ year) and the other is 4 years younger.

He was saying how the sister that is my age is so loyal to her husband and would never go against her. He says that I was not loyal to him.

It bothered me that I have made a big issue about being compared to his sisters and he still does it.

Am I giving it too much importance?

I know that he also has his own issues with me. I sometimes hang up quickly without really closing the conversation and saying Goodbye.

2007-07-18 07:05:45 · 11 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-18 07:05:39 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my mom and i are haveing a fight... she yelling at me caz i can't find a job... i'm 14years old and i need a job, i look every where ito find a job.. but no luck... i live in westchester in new york.. can some one help to find a job.... my older sis as been helping me but she has no time to go with me and ask for a job... can some one help me.... remeber i'm 14 years old and live in westchester new york... i'm near the Bronx, yonkers, white plain, new rock, and other places... can you help me... please... e-mail me @ soccerloverxdancer@ yahoo.com

2007-07-18 07:05:37 · 15 answers · asked by soccer91 1 in Family

okay so i have been dating this new guy for a while and things have been goin great. he treats me perfect! but for some reason i cant stop thinking of my ex. My ex was the best! we did everything together...and he was my 1st love.:] so im asking..should i leave a great guy for some one that i love?

2007-07-18 07:05:30 · 23 answers · asked by latina beana 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so.....

boys ask girls out on a date

boys ask girls for hand in marrage

but what about sex do boys ask girls or do girls ask boys (i belive its usally girls but correct me)

2007-07-18 07:04:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you girls think about having sparklers at the reception...It's going to be about 10-10:30 when we leave the reception and I dont think bubbles would look very good at night...I LOVE the idea of sparklers, but my mom says that my dress will catch on fire...What is your opinion on sparklers at weddings? (As long as we follow safety precautions.) =) Thanks! -Emi

2007-07-18 07:03:28 · 17 answers · asked by emeia04 2 in Weddings

My boyfriend and I are looking for a new apartment together and his older sister wants to come live with us after we find one. Their dad is moving to another state and she does not want to go so she figured she'd move in with her brother. I did not ask how long she would be staying, but I have a gut feeling it would be permanently.

I do not want to live with his sister because she smokes weed, is bipolar, loud, lazy, and she manipulates her brother for money. A month ago, she called my cell phone and demanded that I let her live with us. She said that she was my boyfriend's sister for life and that blood is thicker than water.

The last time we visited his family, she kept knocking on our door while we were trying to be intimate and bothering us with stupid requests. She needed my boyfriend to come get her cell phone back from this guy she was dating because he stole it while in a drunken stupor.

My boyfriend doesn't mind if she lives with us, but I don't want her to. Help!

2007-07-18 07:03:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im 15 and see my grandma once a week. i havent seen her for two weeks and i miss her. she never calls me and when i call her, there is no answer. i got a hold of her last week. she said she was busy. she is always busy. i called her twice today and she wont answer. she is very popular and always hanging out with her older friends. how can i make her call me? everyday is wasted because i have nothing to do. help! this is going to be another day wasted! btw her name is nancy. i made up a song:

nancy please call me
i was wrong
i messed up
and im so sad
your hello right now
would be the sweetest
voice i know
nancy please call me
i miss you
nancy please call
nancy please call
HELP I ****** MISS HER

2007-07-18 07:00:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

No transvestites or crossdressers please.

2007-07-18 07:00:42 · 12 answers · asked by Oooooooo 1 in Singles & Dating

what are the pro's and con's of them both?

2007-07-18 07:00:24 · 23 answers · asked by Sylvia Lei 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-18 06:59:45 · 3 answers · asked by earth_dragonai 1 in Friends