Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

ok so i like 2 guys...and they both like me. im 16..ones 18 the other is 19.
the 19 year old just moved to florida! but hes sipposed to be comin back.
the 18 year old lives like 2 minutes from me and is just going to college an hour away so i would see him a lot more. but i like both of them a lot. and they are both really good friends too. i see the 18 year old a lot at basketball and stuff.
so wat do u think i should do? which one do i chose? i dont wanna hurt them? idk wat to do? help me! :]

2007-07-18 07:55:23 · 23 answers · asked by bballchick24sc 1 in Singles & Dating

My older sister is 15 and I am 13. She tells me that I am being unfair to her and I am not that way. I am always nice to her and she always ignores me and say I am always bothering her and interfering with her academic and social life. She nevers talks to me anymore. Whenever I talk to her, she will yell at me and tell me to go away. I am very depressed. I love her and she doesn't understand. She say I don't love her. Whenever I bring friends home, my friends say hi to her and she ignores my friends. When I tell her about my social life, she tells me that I am babyish and she doesn't want to hear it. I tell my parents and they said "if she doesn't want to her, then let her be that way. Don't worry." I know that a decent older sister shouldn't be this way. She is suppose to look out and take care of me like a older sister should do. Right? Why don't older sisters do their job? Why don't parents tell the older sister to do their job if that is the way how things should be? It is not fair

2007-07-18 07:53:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-07-18 07:52:20 · 22 answers · asked by jessie22894 1 in Singles & Dating

why?
do you still think about geting in touch with that person?

2007-07-18 07:50:18 · 8 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

My husband and I were seperated for 8 months and seriously contemplating divorce. During this time, his ex-boss and I developed an emotional connection.

One day, the ex-boss called me on the phone and told me that my husband was a liar and hypocrite and said that our marriage was a fake and that I would regret my decision to stay with him. Was he envious because of me or was he just being a jerk?

2007-07-18 07:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by willow 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend is only 17 and i am 15 but next year after he graduates he is going to join the Military. I dont want him to go at all because I really care about him. We have been dating for about a year now and I know we are very young, but I can truthfully say that I love him. When he goes to the Military will i be able to talk to him at all?? And when will I get to see him??

2007-07-18 07:48:32 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK have you ever had a boyfriend whom u loved but found interest in some1 else and u dumped your boyfriend to b whit this other guy and realised that the grass wasn't greener on the other side? what are hints that a ladyis trying to get back with u after doing this? did u go back out with your previous boy friend or did u not want to or did HE not want to? THANKS


I'm the guy and she actually started crying cuz i didnt want to talk to her ( im 19 and she's 18) and she would message me at like 3 am to c if we could talk but i also didnt want to b her safety net. im not goin to sit around and make my self available but would u go as far as to really try to get them back? how far did u go to get ur ex back( whom u dumped for some1 else)

2007-07-18 07:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a guy who wants to be married at the age of 22. I am just curious to know what the average age that most men want to get married. For some reason, red flags are going up because I rarely meet men who want to be married so young. Basically at this stage of life one is still in college and just getting their career started. So, why the sudden need for commitment. Opinions please.

2007-07-18 07:44:06 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend, mother, youngest sister and I live together. We get along well.

I knew my boyfriend had been through some deep depression before but not really any of the details. I figured he would tell me when he was ready. One night, I go to bed before he does (I usually do), but he's out in the living room talking to my mom. I sleep for a bit, wake up and realize it's been about 3 or more hours since, and he's still not in bed - still out talking to her at like 3 am.

I can hear them from the bedroom. They're talking about his past and the bad things that have happened to him. I'm upset because I feel like I should be the one he's confiding in, not my mother. He's opening up to her because she has had similar experiences. I have never experienced deep depression, so I understand they're both looking for someone to relate to.

I feel like I've lost something with him - that she stole something important. Whenever they have long talks I feel edgy. Does anyone understand this?

2007-07-18 07:42:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I work and go to school constantly and I need to find a decent guy to spend my summer with any suggestions? you can contact me directly at browneyedangel24@gmail.com

2007-07-18 07:42:02 · 3 answers · asked by browneyedangel24_1984 1 in Singles & Dating

How high or low in age would you go?

2007-07-18 07:36:52 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

about past loves calling them up one day?

(i already asked this yesterday but i only got a few answers)

girls you can answer this too if you want.

2007-07-18 07:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm getting married next june. we're from arkansas, and we're wanting somewhere not more than a 2 hour drive from russellville (it's about an hour north of little rock). what are some cool places?

2007-07-18 07:36:29 · 5 answers · asked by Intelley 2 in Weddings

Ok, i am a 22 year old virgin. I have been with this guy, he's in his mid 30s for a month or two now. We've fooled around and almost had sex the other night. But I told him I'm a virgin. He wasn't mad at all. I said I'm sorry and he said its not something I should be sorry for.
BUT...he also said he doesn't want to be my first...
I want to have sex with him!! I've never had it before because I just didn't want to, now I do and I cant!
How do I take his response? There is more to our relationship than just sex but I just want to have sex with him. What do I even say to him?

2007-07-18 07:36:23 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi, I’m a 24 years old male and I've had good relationships in the past due to my humor and I guess my looks but when I think everything is going ok surprisingly they will brake up or leave me and their answer is that I’m too nice. Now I like this girl a lot and she is communicating through a best friend of mine and a good friend of her not knowing my best friend will tell me what she was saying; she think I’m cute but again just like every other girl she thinks IM TOO NICE. I really don’t know what to do should I change? Should I become someone that I’m not? Or Should I just be her friend? I WANT TO PUT SOME SPICE in my personality what should I do to change that?

Thanks y’all and I appreciate your time

2007-07-18 07:36:09 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i relly want to know i am very curious

2007-07-18 07:35:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Friend in England is going through divorce with abusive husband but co-owns house with him. If her request for an occupation order gets denied, does she have any options for moving (ASAP) that can reasonable safeguard her credit? She can't get another mortgage until house is agreed to be sold, which her ex won't do, she could try to rent somewhere and stop paying her half of the mortgage...but then she'll lose the initial equity she put in (alone) and kill her credit rating... but if she just sues for the money, that process could take months and she just can't handle staying with her ex alone in the same house - she has a toddler as well. She's making around 30k so I doubt she'd qualify for any financial aid or subsidies or what not. Any advice greatly appreciated!

2007-07-18 07:35:09 · 5 answers · asked by LifeXplorer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 22 years old blonde and very attractive but everytime i ask a guy to come back to my place they go running in the other direction. maybe they think that i cant please them but the thing is that i practice all the time with my girlfreinds. would anyone give me any tips on how to get a guy to sleep with me? any takers?

2007-07-18 07:34:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Whilst having sex, could the *** come out of the condom at the tight part, not the end bit which looks like a nipple , but the opposite end, would be a great help!
Please no comments saying "OmGz U NeEd SeX Ed BbZ"

2007-07-18 07:34:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an affair with a co-work on the west coast. Her husband found out about it and crap hit the fan. I was relocated to the east coast with a pay cut. Now I have been layed off and am trying to find a job back on the West Coast. My wife is upset with me for trying to move back their. How do I explain to her that it a better place because of money, career and just overall work?

2007-07-18 07:32:07 · 27 answers · asked by clive_beaumont_1957 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hubby was supposed to drop off a prescription for me on the way home from work, we talked about it that morning. On the way home he noticed our neighbor's 18 year old daughter walking to work at Mcdonalds, he gave her a ride because it was hot for her to walk. And yeah you guessed it, called him on my way home and he forgot to drop off my prescription. Why is it fair that he showed concern for our neighbor walking in the heat but forgot my prescription? Men and women...would you be mad? He did go get my prescription once i reminded him. And i told him, not a good idea to offer her a ride and he responded with "You've taken her to work b 4 why can't I"?

2007-07-18 07:31:17 · 12 answers · asked by denise b 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When we bought this house, in a middle-class neighborhood, an old lady lived next door,and then she died. The guy who bought her house, is a sex offender, and turned it into 2 apts.He rents one out to family,and is there all day!!!! I have two young children, and live right across the street from a school. What can I do? moving right now, is not an option...

2007-07-18 07:29:28 · 19 answers · asked by lolagrl 4 in Singles & Dating

with a white man..i dont get it..??..

when i'd go on a date with a white man..there would be black men walking by and making remarks..like you need a brother..or why you wit snow flake..like wtf..??..

2007-07-18 07:29:09 · 13 answers · asked by hey girl hey! 4 in Singles & Dating

WE been going out for 9 months by the time he leaves for college it will be a month He has no idea what he is gouing to do i don't wanna end it cuz i care about him soo much and i thin we can make it he is going to be 300iles away tho but we are use to not seeing each ther alot and we been through alot of hard time can you please give me some advise and like he is lieavingin a month but we still do not talk about it and that worries me is it a bad thing that we have not talked about what we are giong to do?

2007-07-18 07:27:08 · 6 answers · asked by countrybitc89 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm white but there is this girl that works in the same place that I work but I don't know if she is gay but then again My ex girlfriend (I'm still friends with her) says she misses me and can't stop thinking about me but she has a boyfriend
WHAT DO I DO?

2007-07-18 07:26:35 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she was very emotional throughout our whole marriage. Ups and downs, accusations of paranoid fantasies of me having an affair (i would never do that. I loved her to death), yelling, telling me she had PMDD a lot (the really severe kind of PMS), telling me i didn't love her, not trusting me. here's the thing though....I never did anything wrong it was like she was expecting it or purposely sabotaging the marriage for some reason. Her family always told me she was a little off and if she was taking her medicine. The final straw was during an argument in front of my son she accused me of abuse and went back to live with her family. Now she's got a lawyer and wants a divorce. I'm just shocked. I did love the woman to death but I'm leaving her totally alone. I haven't even heard from her in 3 months. She always told me I was the love of her life. What should I do? She's fabricated in her head that i was just awful and is telling everyone I was abusive and awful. I still love her though.

2007-07-18 07:26:23 · 15 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well, my eye... I thought this picture looked kind cool. A little random. If you like the picture tell me...I think I might put it on my myspace. hmmm. ok, so tell me that you think

http://i182.photobucket.com/albums/x50/Blahboredom123/myeyeyay-1.jpg

2007-07-18 07:25:28 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1.i ring you up at about half 4 andask you weatheryou would still want to come to my house later.. to which you reply with "ummm i wontbe able to tonight" giving no reason or explanation..... do you simply not want to spend time with me, have better things to do, are doing something youd rather i didnt no about, cheating on me or something else?

2007-07-18 07:21:29 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance has been urging me to skimp on a lot of things for our wedding, which I did - for the most part.

His Aunt suggested that I just have a relative take pictures, rather than a photographer. My thinking is that if I hire someone to do the job, they are responsible for doing it well. If they fail, I fight to get my money back or whatever, but I won't be destroying a relationship if the pics are bad. I think photos are not an area to skimp. And I did go ahead and hire someone and am paying $1400 for a pretty decent package.

What did you do? Any regrets on your choice?

2007-07-18 07:21:05 · 32 answers · asked by Proud Momma 6 in Weddings

My bf says, "let's be friends." The relationship was fine..until summer vacation arrived and after I sent him a text that pissed him off...we were talking on the phone one evening and he said about three times, that I deserve better and I should get my man." I hate it when he says that because he knows how I truly feel about him...He seems to be insecure at times, feeling unappreciated and somewhat jealous...like he would make a comment about how too short my shorts were or skirt, but he loved seeing me wear them..there were times when I think that he felt that I was cheating on him or somethin...but I never did...Anyways after he told me that night, that he had to take a call and that he'll call me back, I got impatient after about 20 minutes and text him sarcastically saying, "Thanks for calling me back. I hope everything's fine. Goodnight." He texted me back saying, " Sarcasm is not your strong point. Im in the hospital..thanks for your support. please do not respond. I was shocked

2007-07-18 07:19:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating