OK have you ever had a boyfriend whom u loved but found interest in some1 else and u dumped your boyfriend to b whit this other guy and realised that the grass wasn't greener on the other side? what are hints that a ladyis trying to get back with u after doing this? did u go back out with your previous boy friend or did u not want to or did HE not want to? THANKS
I'm the guy and she actually started crying cuz i didnt want to talk to her ( im 19 and she's 18) and she would message me at like 3 am to c if we could talk but i also didnt want to b her safety net. im not goin to sit around and make my self available but would u go as far as to really try to get them back? how far did u go to get ur ex back( whom u dumped for some1 else)
2007-07-18 07:44:51 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Y wont anybody answer this?" You pathetic worm, you have asked this question 60 times in the past 4 weeks and received hundreds of answers. That is doing a piss poor job with the task of moving on.
Here is the correct answer again. READ IT, FOLLOW THE ADVICE THEREIN, and GET OVER IT. YOU ARE BEING PATHETIC.
Tell her you are not interested in being her emotional tampon for when even her female friends don't want to put up with her over-emotional or neurotic sh*t.
She is stringing you along as a safety net in case the new guy doesn't work, that is all. She'll do this time and time again if you let her.
She's a selfish cold, uncaring, manipulative b*tch. She does not care for you, or about you.
Blow her off cold. The very best you can do is totally cut off contact with her, and most importantly, GENUINELY NOT CARE what she thinks or does or wants.
She did this to herself, not you.
GOT IT? I don't want to see this question again.
2007-07-19 04:27:43 · answer #1 · answered by Fred M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not take her back. She only wants to get back with you because it didn't work out with the other guy. Move on with your life. If you take her back, it will only be a matter of time before she dumps you again for someone else. It is good that you found this out now about her. It could have happened when you were married to her and had 2 kids. Move on. You deserve to be treated better.
2007-07-18 07:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I left a greay guy for someone else who treated me like crap. Sometimes I came to regret my decision but never tried to get back for 2 reasons:
1) Dignity
2) Truth. What I mean by this is if I dumped someone to be with someone else, then I was not 100% happy. But when we make mistakes and loose contact with the other person, we tend to idealize them. Why go back to a relationship that did not entirely fulfill me? I am old enough for these games.
2007-07-18 07:52:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are doing good by not talking or getting back to her. You need to get over this girl who at the time when she left you saw nothing in you, and now that she is not happy or single again goes back to what she left. Just leave her and find someone new who will always have interest in you. The other girl made her bed now let her sleep in it.
The signs the girl wants the guy back are just those, where she looks sad and tries to talk to you, and say "lets get back" stuff like that.
2007-07-18 07:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know someone who was in the same mess. Her boyfriend went to california for a month. She met someone else, they fell in love and have been together since. She found herself thinking of her ex and what could've been.
Really the ball is in your court. I think honesty is your best route. If you really care for her and don't want to hurt her, tell her exactly what you wrote here. Tell her what you felt you needed from her that you found in the other person. Tell her how wrong you feel especially when you realized that she had everything you needed. If it was meant to be and she really loves you, then it will work. If not then at least you tried and you learned. Good luck and let me know what happens!
2007-07-18 07:54:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I did get back with my ex.
She's not worth it. Dont bother getting back with her.
You're just her safety net and she doesn't have real feelings for you.
Sorry, but if she's willing to do that to you once she will definitely not feel bad about doing it again.
If you take her back she will figure she can always come back and you will always take her back.
Forget about her.
You are young anyway.
2007-07-18 07:53:04 · answer #6 · answered by Christina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read your other one about her wanting to talk to you again. Dawg! You got to tell her to get rid of that other dude. She likes you. Just tell her "that's bull sh*t"
You got to be a little mean with this chick, she's not doing you any favors. She probably wants a guy to tell her what to do too.
I don't act that way personally, but I can see how that's right for this situation. Buck up and tell her that sh*t.
2007-07-18 12:18:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to be clearer.
That's up to you. If you still have feelings for her, by all means, hook up again with her. People break up and get back together all the time and for all kinds of reasons. If she dumps you again, what the heck! That's life.
Be cool and have fun.
2007-07-18 07:53:16 · answer #8 · answered by Wil T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear boy I think you're getting no answers because I have nooo idea what you just said. Maybye make this a little shorter and clearer. I'll be glad to help you. Send me a message
2007-07-18 07:47:57 · answer #9 · answered by Melanie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If I were you, I would just move on and find someone better. That's all I can say for you.
2007-07-18 07:49:38 · answer #10 · answered by Kim W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋