Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

My husband and i have been happily married 16 yrs,i am 38,he is 42 and we have a decent and satisfying sex life make love 2-3 times a week..Of course he has no problem talking about our sex life in fact in the last couple yrs he has open up more about it but a few times just to see what his reaction would be i mentioned masturbation and fantasies but he clams up and doesnt seem comfortable talking about these subjects..He has always seemed like a strait-laced guy like never watch porn,buy/look at dirty magazines..When we met he was 25,never had been in a serious relationship and was still a virgin cause he was waiting for the right 1 and didnt wanna have sex with just any girl...Like i said just in the last few yrs he has become more open in talking about our sex life plus we have been talking about buyin a porn movie since neither 1 of us has ever seen 1 and are curious to see what their like..So does he sound weird and is there any way to get him to open up more.

2007-07-18 09:42:55 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

everytime i would have sex w/ my x-gf she always wanted to go to sleep... do all women like sleeping after sex or do u like to do something else please answer..... im curious

2007-07-18 09:42:20 · 34 answers · asked by Michael E. 2 in Singles & Dating

I married my husband 6 months ago and I've gained fifty pounds. He says he doesn't care. Is he lying?

2007-07-18 09:42:09 · 35 answers · asked by Breckett 2 in Marriage & Divorce

the other day i saw my cousin getting undressed and i was watching for minuits whilst she rubbed herself then she saw me and shouted. I felt horrible and pervy. But after the shouting she grappled me and pushed me on her bed. She obviously saw my pants and realised it was what I wanted. By the way she is my stepdads neice

2007-07-18 09:40:39 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hi! how was your day today? i am quite bored and dont know what to do..i am missing my guy but his not around and none of my friends are online... Bless you all:)

2007-07-18 09:40:16 · 15 answers · asked by Yasmin 3 in Friends

can you guys add me to youe contacts
i'll tell you more about me later if you do!

2007-07-18 09:38:57 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to have a serious commited relationship with a divorced woman? What if you family didn't want you to marry a divorced woman?

2007-07-18 09:38:24 · 5 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Most guys when we hear about marriage is like calling the devil. Why is so normal for women to talk about it ? Can somebody just say something?!

2007-07-18 09:37:07 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why exactly do guys think it's hot when two girls make out? Personally I don't get turned on when two guys make out.

2007-07-18 09:36:26 · 4 answers · asked by Semper Fi 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have, I feel sorry for ya. I understand how it feels.

2007-07-18 09:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old were u when u tied the knot. My fiancee and i are 21 and 20 with a 2 yr old son and are planning to get married soon. Any advice.

2007-07-18 09:34:18 · 18 answers · asked by sheila 2 in Weddings

I really love my boyfriend to death and i wanna have sex with him PLEASE HELP! I dont know if I should!

2007-07-18 09:32:27 · 30 answers · asked by Trueluv 1 in Singles & Dating

Women, do you automatically get turned off to a man because has kids at home all the time? Does age the children matter?

Men, do you automatically get dismiss a woman because she a single parent?

2007-07-18 09:30:02 · 12 answers · asked by Go Dogs 1 in Singles & Dating

she doesnt let me go to my friends party because she planned something else. i dont have a cell phone. i cant go to my friends house when ever i want. she gets into my business. she is way over over protective. my friends hate hate her. i cant do normal teen stuff like go to a store and im in high school. thats not all...

2007-07-18 09:28:55 · 15 answers · asked by [[you're only selling sex now]] 3 in Family

2007-07-18 09:24:58 · 9 answers · asked by hixons_angel 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Mum can barely walk now and dad just got out of hospital with migraine suspected artery leak. The garden is a disgrace because dads been too sick to do it and brother living there means council will not do assisted gardening for my parents. I am living too far away to do it myself.

2007-07-18 09:24:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

All my life, my father has done these terrible things to me:

1. Called me names; everything from stupid a*s*s to b*i*t*c*h.
2. Cursed at me like an animal, saying F*U*C*K YOU to me literally.
3. Using me as a common punching bag by punching me constantly when I was a little girl.
4. Slapped me across the face when I was a little girl.
5. Scared me all the time; scared me so much I completely lost my appetite.
6. Scared me so much that I was afraid to get involved with ALL people.
7. Stated that I am nasty a*s*s b*i*t*c*h, year after year after year.

2007-07-18 09:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by Louise Smith 7 in Family

some of the guys in my class are calling me flat(chested) and i dont know what to say back to them after that! im not even flat! please dont tell me to ignore them because iv been doing that for months and im not going to tell on them because theres no one to tell and it would be embarrassing. im not willing to tattle tale even though its annoying. every time they say it its like a punch to the stomach. please help

2007-07-18 09:23:45 · 29 answers · asked by MAC 4 in Friends

2007-07-18 09:19:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-18 09:13:02 · 5 answers · asked by HeroMom 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and my daughter and I moved in with friends, to help out with both of our financial problems. Well she won't get a job because she refuses to put her kid in daycare, he won't find a better job or a second job. My husband and i end up paying for all the grocery's and even the cable and phone, and gas, and electric. Is it ok for us to tell them that if something does not change soon we will be moving out?

2007-07-18 09:11:39 · 18 answers · asked by sarcastic 3 in Friends

I think marriages would last longer....

2007-07-18 09:10:46 · 48 answers · asked by ScorpionOfLove 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in limbo for two months now stupidly waiting for a girl who will never be mine yet I still can't make sense of it. She wanted to go out with me yet decided after a few weeks to get back with her ex for "the sake of her kid." I knew the fact she had a kid would have made any relationship difficult and that she probably still loved her ex. However, I didn't find this out until about six weeks ago when I asked her what her intentions were. Despite the fact I feel like an idiot it hasn't helped with her telling friends that she knows she'd be happier with me. She's now getting married although she seems to change her mind every other day. Her parents don't even like their grandkid staying with the father when she's there because they are always arguing! They missed out on a house because he couldn't be bothered to fill in a form properly. He's a loser and has hit her in the past yet she's gone back for more. It's just so hard for me to understand her or why I'm still interested?

2007-07-18 09:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If she has one like right above her butt crack will she get mad?

2007-07-18 09:06:29 · 4 answers · asked by Jellybean 1 in Singles & Dating

Mom lives 9 hours away.She has survived many husbands. So now she is calling me alot and telling me the same things over and over. Do I not answer all her calls? I have made suggestions for her so she won't be as lonely. She ignores them. I try to be understanding but now it is getting on my nerves!.Help!(and please be kind) TIA!

2007-07-18 09:06:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My Fiance will swear up and down that he doesn't "look" at other girls. Even tho I have caught him before. He doesn't deliberatly do it, but it makes me more mad because he tries to lie about it and say he never did. I just want him to be honest w/ me. I don't lie to him about things like that. And I think it just aggrivates me more because I know he thinks other girls are attractive...its normal. I try not to make a big deal about it, but when I know he does it, I just want him to be honest w/ me. Thats all I want. I don't know what to do...

2007-07-18 09:05:09 · 7 answers · asked by Teeny 4 in Singles & Dating

there is this guy that i have liked for sooooo long that i work with. We work in an office building and he is our building maintenance man. We have known eachother for a year now and about a month ago we hung out for the first time outside the office. we were drinking and one thing led to another. we were drunk but we both knew what was going on. the next day we talked about it and he said hes not ready for a relationship, not with me, just not at all. he still talks to me all the time and things are like they were before, sorta. i asked him what he wanted and he said to be friends, not just office buddies. we haven't hung out since, but i still like him a whole lot. he's been burned by a lot of people, especially women in his life. do i accept the "just friends" and move on, or do i continue to feel the way i do? I know we're perfect for each other... will he ever think so? should i wait? please help my friends are tired of hearing about it :)

2007-07-18 09:04:30 · 13 answers · asked by kristen 2 in Singles & Dating

I am going away on vacation tonight to see my friend's from New York. I told my girlfriend I'd be home around the 25th. She came over last night and was crying. She told me she was upset and wanted to be with me on my birthday. I told her well she was there last year. I only get to see my friend's once to twice a year. My girlfriend is upset because she is going on vacation on the 25th which is the day I might possibly come back from my friend's house and she won't get to see me until the 30th. She then is leaving again on the 4th for a college class coming back on the 10th and leaving for college on the 25th or something like that.

I don't want to be a jerk but I told her the truth. It doesn't matter to me that she's leaving. I mean it does but it hasn't really hit me yet and I think it will take awhile. I'm staying local so nothing is changing as fast for me as it is for her. I think she's making a big federal case out of nothing!

Am I wrong?!

2007-07-18 09:02:59 · 4 answers · asked by Zullpin729 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a guy friend that everyone says likes me but we have been best friends for 4 years and he is always there for me but i look at him as a friend..so what characteristics would he have if he like me

2007-07-18 09:00:59 · 24 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Singles & Dating

can this actually happen after many years of marriage and kids?
I honestly think I may be beginning to hate him, I hate when it's time for him to come home.......
I can't stand to look at his face.......
I dread bedtime...........
I'm just so tired of his anger, his outbursts, his accusations and his complete control of my life etc........
How do I explain all this to the kids?

2007-07-18 09:00:16 · 38 answers · asked by Niki 2 in Marriage & Divorce