All my life, my father has done these terrible things to me:
1. Called me names; everything from stupid a*s*s to b*i*t*c*h.
2. Cursed at me like an animal, saying F*U*C*K YOU to me literally.
3. Using me as a common punching bag by punching me constantly when I was a little girl.
4. Slapped me across the face when I was a little girl.
5. Scared me all the time; scared me so much I completely lost my appetite.
6. Scared me so much that I was afraid to get involved with ALL people.
7. Stated that I am nasty a*s*s b*i*t*c*h, year after year after year.
2007-07-18 09:24:46 · 15 answers · asked by Louise Smith 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes he is an abusive bully. it's wrong to treat your kid like that.
2007-07-18 16:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by Emm- just simply me! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a very confusing, bewildering situation. I wonder why you're own father would act in this way towards you. You are his child and surely he should be there for you, teach you good value, love you and most of all respect you. This is quite sad to see someone go through this with there parents. You should tell your father how you feel when he calls you names, frightens you and hits you. See if by talking to him he can become a more understanding father and learn to treat you better. If things do not change seek a specialized family counselor. If things escalate, really get mom involved, but the authorities should be a last resort. Most importantly record what is happening by writing, the date, time and most importantly what occured.
2007-07-18 10:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by lainexperiment2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
THAT is DEFINITELY abusive.
Where's your mother? If she hasn't done anything (she might have tried) then she's just as scared of him as you must be. Talk to her first. You might have to do something together - LIKE TALKING TO SOME AGENCY. Cops, I'd be careful with. They'll show up at your door, alert your dad that you're doing something about his violent nature and just leave with some speeches about pressing charges. You obviously have internet access. Seek help. Talk to your mom first. Type in "abusive parent" in a search engine or something. Good luck - I'll pray for you.
2007-07-18 10:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by rocken_heimer 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely say your father has some major ISSUES he needs to get resolved and I hope you manage to grow up emotionally healthy. I doubt that will happen without some sort of extensive therapy into adulthood. He has caused issues in you that you will still struggle with even when you grow up and that's so unfair. Don't let his issue become yours though. Rise above it and don't let him bring you down. I'm sorry he's treated you this way - there's really no excuse.
2007-07-18 09:50:25 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he is a very abusive bully. http://www.ojp.usdoj.gov/ovc/help/chanumb.htm
Child Abuse States with Toll Free Numbers
2007-07-18 09:28:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I read your profile. You must know you need professional help, the above abuse might be the cause. Call your doctor and get a referral.
2007-07-18 09:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes i suggest you call the police or a local hotline for help clearly what he is doing is not right and considered abusing you mentally and physically as for him he needs to get help..get help as soon as you can before it goes to far
2007-07-18 09:40:23 · answer #7 · answered by bayside602 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
call the police and put his abusive @$! in the slammer
seriously, that's just terrible
2007-07-18 09:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, call the child abuse people. They'll take you seriously.
2007-07-18 09:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by Ian S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, not a bully.
He's verbally, emotionally, and physically abusive.
2007-07-18 10:04:53 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋