My Fiance will swear up and down that he doesn't "look" at other girls. Even tho I have caught him before. He doesn't deliberatly do it, but it makes me more mad because he tries to lie about it and say he never did. I just want him to be honest w/ me. I don't lie to him about things like that. And I think it just aggrivates me more because I know he thinks other girls are attractive...its normal. I try not to make a big deal about it, but when I know he does it, I just want him to be honest w/ me. Thats all I want. I don't know what to do...
2007-07-18 09:05:09 · 7 answers · asked by Teeny 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Im not jealous at all, like I said I KNOW its natural to look. I do too, but not on purpose...but if he catches me looking he will say something and be all over me about it and then I will say yes I did glance but nothing to worry about. I just wish he could be as cool about it as I am and not try and cover it up. Seems to only make things worse.
2007-07-18 09:15:48 · update #1
He probably feels guilty, and wants you to know that he wants you more than anyone else. It's just nature, but he doesn't want you to misinterpret his wandering eyes as a sign of cheating or interest in other women. As the saying goes:
"You can have my heart and soul, but you can't have my eyes."
2007-07-18 09:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont worry about it. I'm sure that in all the tyime you guys have been together, you've looked at another guy. You dont do it on purpose, and you wouldnt act on it, your eyes just wander. He wont admit to it because he dosent want to hurt you. If he is marrying you, then he thinks you are the most beautiful girl in the world. And from your picture, you look really pretty! so dont sweat the small stuff!
2007-07-18 16:10:06 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys doesn't know they they are looking at girls. It comes naturally. Just a sort of glimpse up and down for a quick sec. Don't take it so seriously.
2007-07-18 16:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he doesn't want to hurt u so he didnt honest with u. If he say yes then u might feel sad . However, he doesn't know u want him to be honest.
2007-07-18 16:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by k3lly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that it really hurts your feelings when he looks at other girls, especially when you're standing right there and then he denies it. Tell him that you understand that's it's natural to look, but you would appreciate it if he didn't do it in front of you.
2007-07-18 16:11:35 · answer #5 · answered by magnadudl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teeny
You are a jealous, petty control freak. Go out and get some self esteem. You need to toake the window shopping mentality.
Look, don't touch.
Let it go. Your obsessiveness about this issue will kill your relationship. And it will be your fault, not his.
2007-07-18 16:10:21 · answer #6 · answered by Spiral Wizard 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him. Maybe to show him you don't care about the looking at girls, point one out he might have missed.
2007-07-18 16:09:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋