Family & Relationships - 18 July 2007

He is the best uncle ever and he is very nice. He has no children and he is always giving money to his family and helping us out. He offered to help me with my books and other expenses (tuition is already paid) I just dont feel ok receiving money just like that, and if i accept it how am i going to do?? am i just going to call him to florida (i live in texas) and say "hey i need 800dlls for this" its crazy! what sould i do???

2007-07-18 11:45:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

He's single, sexy and very attractive, but how do you know if you'll just be another notch in his belt or if there is something more?

2007-07-18 11:44:14 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

any positions or stuff i should know?
what do you actually do? i mean i no the basics..
am a virgin..
embarrassing

2007-07-18 11:43:40 · 8 answers · asked by sxclxc 2 in Singles & Dating

For some reason i do not tell my wife everything. Due to I want to avoid confrontation with her, but she finds out anyway and she gets hurt because i did'nt tell her. Why can't I share everything. Is their something wrong with me?

2007-07-18 11:41:53 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

your sister and mother say i will be back to pick u up and instead they leave u in the hot sun to go to the mall

2007-07-18 11:41:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I bought my ex a birthday gift in Feb and she broke up with me in Mar. Her birthday is this weekend. I know that she is involved with someone else. I suspect (strongly, with evidence) that she broke up with me to be with him. I know I am still not over her. I am thinking about sending this gift to her.
Advice...

2007-07-18 11:41:47 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, what if that person was really special to you, and the break up occured 6 weeks ago. During that time, sure, go out to places and forget everything, have fun, but for that much time, if that ex was an important peson in your life, how would you feel after 6 weeks?

2007-07-18 11:39:39 · 29 answers · asked by Jacob S 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost 5 MONTHS....and we still havent kissed. I like to take it slow and I knew from the begining that I didnt wat to kiss until like atleast after a month but now it is becomming a bigger dill then ever before. For one thing I know for a FACT that he is ready to kiss and so am I b/c he was texting a girl from church about it all night when out youth group was at Mazzios after church Sunday and so then she came over when he left and sat by me and showed me the whole conversation...so I know that we are both ready but I just think that we havent found the right tome yer....and just so you guys know....he has never kissed anyone befor..so I kinda think that he is scared...well actualy I know he is scared b/c he told Kortney so. But I dont know how to go about having our first kiss...all the girls in my youth group and i have all stude around and talked about it several times but it just seems like nothing is happend.What should I do?

2007-07-18 11:38:44 · 2 answers · asked by magan m 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother has been with this girl for about a year now and no one in my family can stand her but we still do respect and be nice to her. they are both 17 and are about to have a baby and he is going to be there for the baby even if they are not together. she smokes even though she is pregnant (sometimes dope) she is not clean and does not brush her teeth. she does not even treat my brother good she punches him in the face and calls him names all the time. i am 14 and she is rude to me sometimes. she wont leave my brother alone she has to do EVERYTHING with him litterally. i miss him so much and i dont know what to do about it. and every time they break up she keeps calling and crying trying to get him back. and it works because he is too weak to say no. he has no friends anymore cause she is always by his side and she said she dont even want him to get a job. he mowed once for a neighbor and she went with him just to stare at him for hours. this kills me! what do i do? thanks!

2007-07-18 11:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My boyfriend is away on the weekdays because of work and he comes home on the weekends......well My mother finally decided that my son, Isaiah can spend the night....so this will be a long time need day off from parenthood. we are young (20) so I want to do something exciting something that will make the night fun for both of us.....especially him!! I dont know if we'll have money or not because I'm not sure when he gets paid so any and all suggestions will help..

Thank You Thank You!!! :)

2007-07-18 11:32:54 · 8 answers · asked by U1S2K3O4 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We exchanged text messages and she knows I work late, so what gives??

2007-07-18 11:29:52 · 12 answers · asked by Delrey23 2 in Singles & Dating

The other day I was at my friend's house.
We were just talking and stuff and we started talking about my singing.
I have been taking private voice lessons for 2 years and I am a good singer. People tell me I am.
When we were talking she said "maybe you should give the whole singing thing up".
Its like she thinks I'm a bad singer or something.
That really hurts my feelings.
She is supposed to be my best friend and support me.
My singing is my one true passion.
Should I be upset by this or am I over reacting?

2007-07-18 11:29:03 · 13 answers · asked by ♫amazing♫ 3 in Friends

will they be like him, he had bad grades, barely made it to graduation and now is struggling in a technical college... he is veyr distracted and not very clever . i love him with all my heart but i dont want my children to be like him ... also my brother has ADD too and it makes it worse! im very smart and i want my children to be doctors and important people to the society but im scared!!!!!!!

2007-07-18 11:24:14 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why guys when they see a beautifull,with nice boobs and nice legs want to sleep with them?I mean when guys meet nice girls they just r narrow minded,im talkin abt sex,so why when u want to sleep with a woman,u always think of sometin nice and romantic to tell her,even if u just dont want a relationship.Why dont u just tell her that u want to sleep with her.The truth.u guys just lie,and leave us girls in the middle.

2007-07-18 11:22:56 · 12 answers · asked by breez222000 3 in Singles & Dating

I will be going to a wedding on Labor Day weekend. The ceremony is at 5pm, and the reception following. Can I wear black, since it's in the evening?

2007-07-18 11:21:45 · 21 answers · asked by KristenCO 4 in Weddings

I am in this relationship for a year and 4 months now, but it seems like everything is going down. We always fight for little thing. We both have temper, I admitted it. I am really againist smoking. My boyfriend likes to smoke cigar, but he gave me a really bad impression when we first dating. He left me out, and spent two hours with his friend smoking, so I was alone. From then on, I told him to stop smoking, or I dont want to be in a relationship. Now, it is to the point that I am just guessing if he smokes behind my back, so, we just have a stupid fight like that. I step back and think, if this is worth it to tell him stop smoking and , on the other hand, worry about he may be behind from me. So, I told him, u can smoke, but please dont smoke when I am around. I am not sure if I would like it at all, but i will try.
I dont know if I am doing a right thing. Please help! Is it worth is to be in this relationshp still, if we fight often?

2007-07-18 11:21:38 · 7 answers · asked by tkc819 1 in Singles & Dating

she keeps calling me. She has already said that she wants out, moved out etc;. I accept it and told her that I agree and that we need to end it.Problem is, she just won't leave me alone.I think she is wanting me to close the door permantly on the relationship because she is too iffy or scared to. I think she is the one instigating it and can take the guilt along with all our stuff she has already hauled off. Does anyone agree with me on this?
She has been dragging me around for over 10 months now; seeing me and talking to me at her convenience. Will she ever just leave me alone?

2007-07-18 11:20:13 · 12 answers · asked by Keeper 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a male best friend & we're angry at each other & haven't talked for a month & a half. My pride won't let me pick up the phone & talk about it briefly & move on, and obviously his pride won't either. Life is too short, but why should I always make the first move?

2007-07-18 11:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Friends

i cant get my ex out of my head, he rejected me and i cant get over it im with someone great but i wonder if hes the 1, the ex i had no doubts he is or mayb would of been then one please help im going insane!

2007-07-18 11:19:11 · 3 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this woman that I really like, But I do not see her that often (we live in different towns). She is dating someone now, But I heard that their relationship is not going well.
I happened to see her two times within the past week. The first time, she was full of smiles when she talked to me and she even asked me what were my plans for the rest of the day. The second time, I got rejected- I asked for her phone number while she was busy with a customer (she's a hair stylist) and she said no. (That hurts!)

What do you think that I should do?
I really really like this woman a lot and I know that I can make her very happy. But I do not want to freak her out or make her feel uncomfortable. Any ideas? Thanks

2007-07-18 11:18:30 · 6 answers · asked by luckystrike_x007 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife of 25 years cheated on me with a work mate, came clean, told me, said she was sorry, broke off with the other guy and will change jobs in two weeks time. I have decided to give her another chance but the problem is I have difficulties coping with is my head space. I am depressed, insecure, lost my drive my get up and do things drive. She blossemed under the spell of that affair, bought sexy undies, had a full shave and increased her sex drive many times over. All this was done for the other guy - not for me so now my EGO is suffering big time. I loved her so much before and she was so special to me. I tell her what my emotions are and her replies are that I have been on many overseas trips and surely I must have cheated on her too?? The truth is no not once! I'am not a hypocrite and yes there were times when I was attracted to some one else but it never happened! So whats the best way for me to get on with my life?

Please see my previous question for more details

2007-07-18 11:18:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have 2 children who are 3 and 1 yrs. old. I love them dearly and want to make the best of this bad situation. I know this is mostly my fault but part of it lies in our marriage going downhill for the last year or so. I guess I could have found other ways to work on things than doing this but that's water under the bridge now. To make matters more complex, I think I may love this new woman. I'm unsure only because I feel our relationship has been romantic and wonderful but it has been only for short durations (5-7 days at a time when I'm on business trips) so it's never standed the test of "everyday life". Plus I can't tell if I'm holding back my feelings for her because I feel so guilty and ashamed of what I've done. With all this said I feel there is no way out of telling my wife sooner or later so any advice on timing, delivery and anything else would be appreciated.

2007-07-18 11:16:02 · 37 answers · asked by tornwhat2do 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Also, she's seven years older than you.
How would you react?
How would you react if they decide to get married?

2007-07-18 11:14:29 · 12 answers · asked by Silent_Smile 2 in Family

THIS WILL BE MY 2ND TIME DOWN THE ISLE,BUT THIS 1 FEELS RIGHT.BOTH OF US HAVE A GREAT SENSE OF HUMOR,SO EVEN FUNNY PROPOSALS WOULD BE GREAT ALONG WITH UNIQUE ONES.THANK YOU

2007-07-18 11:13:47 · 14 answers · asked by codyboy89041 1 in Weddings

Okay, here's the problem. I'm a 13 year old girl. My parents are both smokers and I'm getting really worried. I don't like confrontation so I put this piece of paper that said "Please consider quitting, we're all worried." and taped it on the inside of the carton of cigerettes (big box). Then I taped a piece of paper that said, "You haven't a clue what's happening to your lungs." on the back of the lighter case and a picture of a lung with lung cancer. I was thinking that maybe that would help somewhat.
Now they've saw both papers, and I'm worried. I'm worried that when they get home, they're going to yell at me. They usually do and I was just trying to help. They just won't understand what's going on in my mind because the nicotine has got their brains all screwed up. It's what happens everytime I try to convince them to stop or to say anything, in general.

Please help me. I don't know what I should say when they get home. (should get home in an hour) Thanks to those who helped.

2007-07-18 11:13:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My husband is 1000s of miles away and he is lonely. I send letters, and pics, and emails and stuff that he likes all the time, but he is still lonely. I even use the webcam...what should I do?

2007-07-18 11:11:54 · 7 answers · asked by sckr4luv 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

wat r some good roleplaying ideas because my birthday is coming up and my wife as me wat do i want and i want a roleplay wat r some good ones thanks

2007-07-18 11:08:05 · 16 answers · asked by t(-_-)y 3 in Marriage & Divorce

plz don't be mean or rude

2007-07-18 11:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by Chelsea N 2 in Singles & Dating

We're pretty close friends. I love her so much, and I want her to share in christ's love as I do. I want her to experience eternal life in heaven. What do I say? Give me verses, besides John 3:16.

2007-07-18 11:05:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Any Suggestions on How or what I can really say that will help our situation? cause Her parents are trying to rip us apart. Thanks

2007-07-18 11:04:59 · 19 answers · asked by corey p 1 in Singles & Dating