I have a male best friend & we're angry at each other & haven't talked for a month & a half. My pride won't let me pick up the phone & talk about it briefly & move on, and obviously his pride won't either. Life is too short, but why should I always make the first move?
2007-07-18 11:19:35 · 6 answers · asked by peaches6 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you feel that you aren't wrong, then you shouldn't be the one to initiate a conversation. It's his loss. Whatever. You decide whether you have been treated wrong and unfairly. Apparently he doesn't care enough about the friendship... so why the hell should you?
I'm going through the same thing. One of my good guy friends likes to blow up about the smallest things. And I'm sick of it. Today is the last day I will ever take his crap. He always says sorry, but this time he didn't because he feels that it won't do anything. I'm not doing this anymore... I'm not putting up with it. I'm not going to be his friend anymore. I refuse to be a doormat.
2007-07-18 11:22:54 · answer #1 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your question is two-fold: Why take disagreements hard with a best friend? Simply because that's what you ARE!!! "BEST Friends"...duh.
Why should you always make the first move? Maybe because you might realize you were in the wrong. Maybe because you MISS your Best Friend and want him back. Maybe because you realize your friendship is more important than the discord between you. You're right. Life's too short. Good luck to you and your Best Friend!
2007-07-18 11:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by bitadkins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what does it matter who makes the first move
2007-07-18 11:23:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
cause a best friend isn't like a family... u can loose a friend but not family...
2007-07-18 11:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by adekie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Push your pride aside for the ones you care about. If your male best friend has any dignity he'll do the same,.................. hopefully before you........Misopretty................ :) .....................
2007-07-18 11:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares, just call him.
2007-07-18 11:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by ☆Zestee☆ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋