she doesnt let me go to my friends party because she planned something else. i dont have a cell phone. i cant go to my friends house when ever i want. she gets into my business. she is way over over protective. my friends hate hate her. i cant do normal teen stuff like go to a store and im in high school. thats not all...
2007-07-18 09:28:55 · 15 answers · asked by [[you're only selling sex now]] 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Express ur disapointment to them as many times it takes until they understand you are mature and old enough to earn their trust. By the time you get their permission take ur responsibilities and do not overdo it. Keep away from drugs and
teenagers who want to take advantage of you
2007-07-18 09:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Peterc 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your mom isn't ruining your entire life, just this little part of it. For centuries teens managed to have lives without cell phones, you will too. I know its horrible to have a mom who gives a d*mn about your well being, but you just got into the wrong line at birth. You should have picked the "mom who couldn't care less if you lived or died as long as you don't bother her" line.
My advice is to study as hard as you can so that you can get into a good college on scholarship (you weren't planning on your mom paying for college were you?), and then you can do whatever you want to. You don't have to come home for family things, you don't have to have her telling you what to do, and you can get several jobs with all that free time you have to pay for your cell phone, clothes and food. Just hold out, and you will soon be at the age where you can leave mom in your dust.
2007-07-18 09:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honey, your mother is doing her job at the moment and apparently affectively. You should be on your knees thanking God he gave you a concerned, loving mother. Maybe have a talk with her about trust and acquiring those things you want in your life. You have to earn them you know. So, stopyourbitchin' and have a mother-daughter talk or lunch and tell your mother how much you appreciate her and ask if you can have some of those priviledges. Betcha she'll ease off a bit. Godloveya.
2007-07-18 10:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm thinking there is more to your mother's distrust than simply her lack of a life. I'm sure you've disobeyed her wishes on more than one occation and probably on such a level that would put you in harm's way and exposed her as a lienent, and poor parent. Now she must keep you from simply causing trouble.
If this is not the case, then you wouldn't be ranting like a toddler "unfair, unfair!" with a sense of entitlement.
IF YOUR MOM REALLY WANTED TO RUIN YOUR LIFE, SHE WOULD HAVE ABORTED YOU!
2007-07-18 09:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If i was in ur place i would enjoy every second spending it with my family, family is number one, and soon you will be a grown women and on ur own, no more mom who loves you unconditionally, and let me tell you this, nothing good comes from friends, so ur hurting your mom's feelings for what?? for these friends who won't do you any good and make no good difference in ur life whatsoever..
Appreciate her, and be careful of how u treat her, she has a life and real problems too, communicate with ur mom, be closer to her..
2007-07-18 10:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by ssoussa22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom is not ruining your life. On the contrary, she is protecting you because you are still a minor and as such, you make stupid decisions. Be thankful that you have a loving and devoted mother.
2007-07-18 10:06:47 · answer #6 · answered by Belen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch the news honey. Kids your age disappear every single day, and most are found raped and murdered. Did you ever think that maybe your mother is overbearing because she loves you? My parents were the same way, but you know what? I didn't wind up an unwed mother, I didn't wind up in rehab, I didn't wind up raped, maimed or murdered, but I did wind up respecting my parents and loving them for loving me enough to protect and look after me even though I thought THEY were ruining MY life. It's the circle of life and one day you are going to ruin your kids life too. And they will love you for it when they are grown.
2007-07-18 09:40:20 · answer #7 · answered by irish_indian_fantasy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your mom just cares about you more than your friends' parents care.
Maybe your mom doesn't want to just give you everything, so you learn how good it feels to earn something.
Maybe your mom is willing to let you be mad at her, if it means she is doing what she feels is best for you.
Maybe your mom has your best interests at heart, and you are just being too self-centered to realize that.
Sounds to me like you have a good mom....
2007-07-18 10:09:57 · answer #8 · answered by American Girl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want a cell phone? Get a job. You want to go to your friend's house? Make plans in advanced so it doesn't interfear with your mother's plans. You want her out of your business? Turn 18 and move out.
2007-07-18 09:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 6⤊ 1⤋
well i know your probably sick of hearing, she only wants whats best for you. am i right? well its partly true. she probably only does want whats best for you btu now that you are in high school you should be able to make your ownb mistakes and stop her from letting you. your only in high school once and im sure you want to make the best of it. tell you mother that and maybe she will ease up a bit.]
2007-07-18 09:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by Carmel Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋