I've been in limbo for two months now stupidly waiting for a girl who will never be mine yet I still can't make sense of it. She wanted to go out with me yet decided after a few weeks to get back with her ex for "the sake of her kid." I knew the fact she had a kid would have made any relationship difficult and that she probably still loved her ex. However, I didn't find this out until about six weeks ago when I asked her what her intentions were. Despite the fact I feel like an idiot it hasn't helped with her telling friends that she knows she'd be happier with me. She's now getting married although she seems to change her mind every other day. Her parents don't even like their grandkid staying with the father when she's there because they are always arguing! They missed out on a house because he couldn't be bothered to fill in a form properly. He's a loser and has hit her in the past yet she's gone back for more. It's just so hard for me to understand her or why I'm still interested?
2007-07-18 09:07:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm so sorry. Maybe she is doing it for the sake of her son.
It sure sounds like a bad idea to me to marry someone who hits her.
2007-07-18 09:11:59 · answer #1 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why women stick by someone who disrespects them - but that's life. Don't let her use you just because she knows she can. She has made her decision to marry this man, so just take a step back and leave her to her fate. I know that sounds cruel, but some people just cannot be helped and are their own worst enemies. Find a more grounded woman who can give you peace and love without any hassle. You deserve that. You are not an idiot. You are a lovely caring person.
2007-07-18 16:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by Normsgirll 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand it either. You have given her so much love and attention, yet her heart is torn between two lovers. Don't give up on love if you love her. It sounds like her relationship with the Ex will not last long. Keep waiting for her.
2007-07-18 16:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To answer to your question..
1. You're still interested because you truly like her and for some reason, thinks that you could save her or that she needs you to save her.
2. You will never understand her choices because life is as it is complicated.
My advice...Move on. You deserve to be happy, too :-)
2007-07-18 23:34:03 · answer #4 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have heard the saying treat them mean and keep them kean if u are running after her stop it now and let her lead her own life and you live yours if she is telling her freinds that she will come looking for u in time just have to wait thats all
2007-07-18 17:01:55 · answer #5 · answered by DIANNE E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is a circle.............no doubt a circle. If you don't keep moving that what is to be your life will not add up correctly. Timing is everything and if you in time than you will always see that things come around. Perhaps not her, but the other one who is waiting for you.
Don't wait for anyone, keep moving. If she is your future than it will come around...........if not, than it wasn't meant to be part of your life.
Trust me
2007-07-18 16:13:53 · answer #6 · answered by NoAnswers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is human nature to feel sorry for people; and who knows what women think or why. Move on with your life and let her go her way.
2007-07-18 16:12:26 · answer #7 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to let her go.. Im sure u'll be find someone to make u happy too....
2007-07-18 16:20:29 · answer #8 · answered by back2future 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hit her harder than he does and she will come running to you!.
2007-07-18 16:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋