I really love my boyfriend to death and i wanna have sex with him PLEASE HELP! I dont know if I should!
2007-07-18 09:32:27 · 30 answers · asked by Trueluv 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you shouldn't. Honey, if you have to wonder about it, don't do it. Wanting to have sex isn't a good reason to do it. If you give him your body, it's kind of like sticking your heart to a frozen pole instead of your tongue - if you ever have to pull it off, it hurts more than you'd imagine. When you give him your body, you give a part of yourself that you'll never get back. Save sex for the one person you'll spend the rest of your life with. It's SO worth it. Just a few reasons (1) no past lovers to compare to (and comparisons ruin so many ppls sex lives), (2) far less chance of STDs (3) the more guys you have sex with, the less you begin to value yourself, and you begin to sell yourself cheap. Your best bet? Wait until you're married.
2007-07-18 09:37:48 · answer #1 · answered by HollywoodHousewife♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honestly you have to ask yourself certain questions:
How old are you and is it appropriate for your age?
How long you've been dating? If its been a year and your above twenty, it seems you should know very much about the guy.
Is he someone you want to be with for a long time and will he protect in your in deepest and darkest moments?
Is he forcing the issue? A guy who forces the issue means he wants sex more than he wants love. So think about all that. If you feel confident about your answer then maybe.
But if you still hesitate then that just means your not ready.
2007-07-18 16:39:13 · answer #2 · answered by MMSportsPartySchoolETC 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on whether you are ready to take that step. Having sex is a huge decision that should not be taken lightly. Take a step back and think about how long you have been dating, how old you are, are you really ready for this step and whether or not it is going to last. Then you must also think about what happens if you get pregnant. Does he really love you back? How can you be so sure. There are a lot of guys that will tell you they love you just to get into your pants. You have to be prepared for that.
2007-07-18 16:41:58 · answer #3 · answered by Rebecca C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This has to be your decision. You have to be ready for consequences. Pregnancy scares are not fun. If you love him, make sure he loves you too. I will say that me and my boyfriend had sex and I asked him if he could go back and change anything what would he change, and he said that he wouldn't have had sex and I agree. Talk about it with him and make sure you both know what you're getting into.
2007-07-18 16:37:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a great relationship now. If you have sex then it will change things. Sex is what draws us guys to women and some guys stop working on the relationship when they get what they want. I'm sure you'll do it anyway so good luck with that.
2007-07-18 16:40:33 · answer #5 · answered by Shinigami 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really suggest waiting for marriage....you never know where life takes you with all its twists and turns and honestly losing your virginity is something you'll always remember...and once you lose it....you could n e v e r get it back! So think about it. YOU know the answer to this question deep inside
2007-07-18 16:39:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. the fact you have to ask the question shows you are not even close to be ready to have sex. a grown mature women would never ask this question.
2007-07-18 16:40:42 · answer #7 · answered by BLOODHOUND 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are asking some question forum if you are ready to have sex, then you are not ready. WAIT. If you love him and he loves you-there is no problem with waiting-you guys will have plenty of time to be more "intimate".
2007-07-18 16:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My best advice is no. It's because I did everything wrong that I know this. Get a vibrator and have fun with that. Keep on loving him, but you don't have to subject yourself to disease or pregnancy to prove that you love him.
2007-07-18 16:36:41 · answer #9 · answered by nita5267 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Damn who said 21....17 18 maybe to be good
I would guess he has been asking for it for a while....so now your unsure
Don't be forced if you don't want to
Be responsible for your own protection
2007-07-18 16:39:46 · answer #10 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋