ok so i like 2 guys...and they both like me. im 16..ones 18 the other is 19.
the 19 year old just moved to florida! but hes sipposed to be comin back.
the 18 year old lives like 2 minutes from me and is just going to college an hour away so i would see him a lot more. but i like both of them a lot. and they are both really good friends too. i see the 18 year old a lot at basketball and stuff.
so wat do u think i should do? which one do i chose? i dont wanna hurt them? idk wat to do? help me! :]
2007-07-18 07:55:23 · 23 answers · asked by bballchick24sc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
choose the 1 thts close by and younger cuz u have more oportunities
2007-07-18 07:58:58 · answer #1 · answered by Doing Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, I don't want to hurt your feelings, but most of the time, boys go away to college and cheat on you. This happened to me, and it caused a lot of hurt and pain. I know you like them a lot, but do you want them to go to jail? Have you checked the dating laws in your area. Because most dating laws state a person of 18 or older are not allowed to be involved with a minor. Which you would be considered a minor since you are under the age of 18. So, I reccomend neither, find a boy 17, or even 16 [[I wouldn't reccomend a 16 year-old though]].
2007-07-18 15:01:23 · answer #2 · answered by steph 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your 16, still a kid. Enjoy it while you can! It will be gone so soon! You young girls, you just don't get it. You have plenty of time later on in life to worry about guys! BE A KID!
P.S- If ANY 18 or 19 year old wants anything to do with a 16 year old girl, its just for sex....trust me.
2007-07-18 15:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were my daughter, I'd advise you to find a 16 or 17 year old guy, but...
The next time you see the 19 year old, he will probably have a girlfriend his own age, so, well you figure it out.
2007-07-18 15:14:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd pick both if I were you. Keep it open for all parties involved and everyone will be glad you did. I know from experience that dating a girl in high school and then you go off to college is TOUGH! Girls are all over you and the parties everywhere make it real TOUGH to have a long distance relationship with a girl still in high school. Good luck.
2007-07-18 15:02:29 · answer #5 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The 18 year old guy,he closer to you and you will see him a lot more than the other one
2007-07-18 15:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may like them both, but if you actually hung out with each of them one-on-one, you would be able to tell which one you truly cared for. I'm not saying you have to hook-up with them, just test it out on more of a friends-type ordeal. If you find a strong attraction to one of them, then go for it. But hunny, you are so young...you do not need to be tyed down. You have the rest of your life for that. Just whatever you do, have fun and never forget about the one who is most important...YOU
2007-07-18 14:59:38 · answer #7 · answered by mally_pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with the one who lives close. Relationships with less complications work the best.
2007-07-18 14:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by David 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
long distant relationships don't work. Tell the guy that just moved away that you'll still be friends but you are going to start dating other guys.
2007-07-18 15:02:16 · answer #9 · answered by mccoyblues 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to choose.
Do what us guys do. Put em in your rotation.
But you if absolutely MUST choose cuz you're OCD like that, make them compete for ya. Make em jealous.
this is like, guy 101 =/
2007-07-18 14:59:29 · answer #10 · answered by asdfasdf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋