My husband and I were seperated for 8 months and seriously contemplating divorce. During this time, his ex-boss and I developed an emotional connection.
One day, the ex-boss called me on the phone and told me that my husband was a liar and hypocrite and said that our marriage was a fake and that I would regret my decision to stay with him. Was he envious because of me or was he just being a jerk?
2007-07-18 07:49:59 · 8 answers · asked by willow 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You sound inexperienced, but not your fault. You are making the same mistake millions of men and women make in the U.S. You are rebounding from one person to another based on satisfying your emotional needs. You and the ex-boss will hit it off for a few weeks or if you are lucky a few months and then you will be back in the same spot you are now with your husband. Forget what other people have to say in regards to your ex. Try to figure out what both you and your ex did wrong and correct it so you don't make the same mistake. I've been divorced once and remarried. The maritial issues only go away when you confront and fix them, in other words fix yourselves. Sounds simple, but most of life's problems are solved that way.
2007-07-18 07:58:32 · answer #1 · answered by frank 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Initially, when I read the question, I was thinking "that his wife is into kinky stuff. That is what would make a guy envious of another."
But upon further reading (hey, I'm a guy. If something takes more than a sentence to read, it's too long), the ex-boss is trying to get somewhere with you. And he's tired of waiting, so he's trying to get you all mad and revengeful against your hubby. And nothing says revenge than sleeping with your hubby's ex-boss.
2007-07-18 08:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by RM 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say, but he could very well be lying about this to get you. Or, he could actually be telling you the truth. What I would do is to concentrate on the reasons why you separated in the first place. Have both of you addresses these issues? If not, then move on. If so, I'd start seeing if you can work things out. Good luck and best wishes to you.
2007-07-18 07:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by [><] Rebel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys aren't envious of other men's wives or of other men. Sounds like he's telling you the truth. You just don't want to believe it. If he was really a jerk, he wouldn't talk bad about your husband so you would stay with him and then he could have his fun with you on the side.
2007-07-18 07:55:45 · answer #4 · answered by YBMEUBU 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He wants to do you. By creating doubt in your mind he's thinking he has a better shot. Dont be with any guy who plays games like that off the bat.
2007-07-18 07:55:12 · answer #5 · answered by csiders30 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
More likely he felt sorry for you and wanted you to open your eyes and move forward without suffering pain and more.
2007-07-18 07:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both.
2007-07-18 08:21:39 · answer #7 · answered by tercentenary98 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both I guess....
2007-07-18 08:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋