WE been going out for 9 months by the time he leaves for college it will be a month He has no idea what he is gouing to do i don't wanna end it cuz i care about him soo much and i thin we can make it he is going to be 300iles away tho but we are use to not seeing each ther alot and we been through alot of hard time can you please give me some advise and like he is lieavingin a month but we still do not talk about it and that worries me is it a bad thing that we have not talked about what we are giong to do?
2007-07-18 07:27:08 · 6 answers · asked by countrybitc89 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I say break it off... Most college long distance relationships do not work out. I've witnessed it with some people I know...
2007-07-18 07:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly no one on YA is going to be able to answer this question. The answer to this question is based on your feelings. When I was going off to college 6 yrs ago, my boyfriend and I decided to split. We spoke about it and it became a mutual decision. We are still friends but I have since moved on. When you get to college you will meet new people and experience new things. A long distance relationship is very hard to sustain. The distance will definitely be a test for you and him. Good Luck.
2007-07-18 07:35:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 05:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by chicklis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have been in a long distance relationship for a couple months now and it has worked out well. he lives in New England and i live in Virginia. just talk on the phone each day and buy a web cam so you can see each other. don;t just give up. you gotta fight for what you love <3
2007-07-18 07:32:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you both really care about one another then try to make it work. it'll work if you both want it to. and if in time you come to realize no matter what you do it won't work, then end it. do what you feel is best for the both of you. but if you care about each other a lot, try your hardest to make it work, i'm sure you won't regret it.
2007-07-18 07:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do it now while it is easy...if you wait until later, it will be far more difficult. He is going to college where he is going to meet a ton of woman and they are all going to be drinking and his ability to stay faithful to you will be ummmmm....no chance!
2007-07-18 07:31:33 · answer #6 · answered by Cage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋