my boyfriend gives me oral sex all the time but he knows that im kinda meh about giving him oral sex; plus i just had jaw surgery awhile ago but he says i still can do some stuff... should i listen to him and do it or just trust my gut and do it when i feel ready
2007-07-18 07:14:37 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i was the same way. i say wait until you feel ready and then go for it, if you don't ever feel comfortable he should understand, but at the same time you should be comfortable with him and his body and he wants to pleasure you so you should want to pleasure him :) good luck!
2007-07-18 07:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by protege moi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no one can answer this question for you. If it's something you're not comfortable with then don't do it. Even if he's doing it to you. He's doing it of his own free will right? Well, then the same goes for you. If it makes you feel better tell him not to do it to you anymore until you're ready to return the favor. If he tries to pressure or manipulate you then maybe this isn't the guy for you. He should care about how you feel what you're comfortable doing or not doing. And don't listen to the guys that tell you to do it. They're guys and they're all going to say the same thing because that's just how they are. In the end it's you in the situation not them. Keep that in mind.
2007-07-18 14:22:25 · answer #2 · answered by Star 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT do it because he pressures you. It should be enjoyable for both of you. If he says you should because he does for you, then too bad. If you do it when you are pressured or guilted into it, you will never want to do it and may become spiteful about doing it or it may cause problems in your relationship.
As a female, I really don't like doing it and my fiance knows that and is okay with it only happening every once in a while when I want to, not when I feel like I should or have to. I hope your bf wants you to WANT to please him, not suffer for his pleasure.
PS with the jaw surgery, I really don't think that's a good idea. No offense to men, but sometimes they only think using one head
2007-07-18 14:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by iheartbayley 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it when you feel ready, or not at all if you don't want to. Don't make him force you into doing anything you don't want to do!
If you do it before you're ready, you could either have more jaw problems, or you might end up feeling awful about it forever. Honestly, if he's acting like that, you should dump him for being a selfish asshole.
2007-07-18 14:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by Allie Dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl NO! Just because he does it to you does not mean you have to return the favor. He made a decision to give you oral sex that was his decision. My boyfriend always gives me oral sex but I never did him and i dont plan on giving him head any time soon. Thats not my style! So if you dont want to give him oral sex then dont! You dont have to do anything you dont want to!
2007-07-18 14:29:46 · answer #5 · answered by Florida Hottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a physical problem then he should understand.But you do need to give and not just receive when you feel better.After all a relationship should be a 2 way street or it won't work in the long run.
2007-07-18 14:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you think it will hurt your jaw don't do it...but if you think your well enough that's ok....giving head is something that takes getting use too...but just go at it slow and easy till your comfortable with it..even tho you don't do it all the way you can just do what you want till ur ready for all of it. just take your time and do what you want..cause first time you may be shocked at what comes out.
2007-07-18 14:21:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it when you feel like doing it, and use the jaw surgery as an excuse for now, and do let him know that you dont think you are quite ready, but you will do it when you are.
2007-07-18 14:18:17 · answer #8 · answered by doo doo head 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Of course do it only when you feel ready. Don't let anyone pressure you into doing what you don't want to do
2007-07-18 14:17:08 · answer #9 · answered by forgottenlove25 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
do it when your ready, oral is something you should enjoy doing, not something you should feel pressured to do. tell him that if you do it just for him your not going to do it right and he most likely wont enjoy it anyway, so wait until your ready so you can blow his "mind", lol
2007-07-18 14:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by lita1299 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋