I have had a long distance relationship with this 24yr old woman for 7 months now. We would talk on the cell phone everyday. We recently planned to meet this month. Last Friday, I never got a call from her. That seemed strange. Then on Saturday I got a text message that her uncle was in the hospital again. Then Monday, I txt her asking if she was mad at me. She said no, just alot going on at home. Then she txt me back sayin she would call me later. She never did. I kept calling her and sending her txt messages and no response. Which is very odd. I mean we would communicate daily. It is now Wednesday, 2 more days and it will be a week since I heard from her. I didn't send her anything today. I am tired of trying. This has never happened in this relationship. What should I do? Should I wait it out? or should I just move on? Would be a shame for it to end this way after all we have been through. I mean if she doesn't want to talk to me anymore wouldn't she just say so?
2007-07-18 05:42:30 · 18 answers · asked by lifeisgreat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give her some space. She said she'd call you back, she just didn't tell you WHEN and you ASSUMED it would be that day. Family issues always take a front seat to relationships. Back off for a bit.
2007-07-18 05:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
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2016-09-30 06:26:43 · answer #2 · answered by bedlion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. This is the hard part about long distant relationships.
And of course- she's either telling you the truth, or she's not.
If it is the truth, and it was her favorite uncle, she may be under a lot of stress... and not thinking clearly...
However- if you've been talking everyday for 7 months... like 200+ days in a row, then suddenly it stops cold turkey...
Well that isn't a good sign. I just did that with a girl l was with for a year and a half. 600+ days of talking everyday... then BAM, nothing one day. Then the next we talked for a sec, and nothing. It was a long distance relationship and she said she needed some time and just wanted to be friends. She loved me, but needed me as a friend.
That was when I found out about... you guessed it. Another guy.
It killed me for 6 weeks. Still does really. But- there were a series of clues that l should have looked at and noticed, but didn't want to see.
Are there any clues there? If so, it may be time to move on.
Sorry Bro, but l think it may be that time.
Also- she may not want to say anything because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings, and/or she may not know what she wants. I mean obviously she really likes you, but you aren't there with her, and people NEED to have the physical part of a relationship to support the mental and emotional part. She may be confused about her own feelings and not know how to explain it to herself, much less you.
2007-07-18 05:50:48 · answer #3 · answered by Rif Tahoe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well in reading your previous questions on your profile, did you leave your wife before pursuing this relationship? If not your girlfriend may have come to the conclusion that she could possibly be interfering in a marriage. Any smart girl would not be involved with a married man no matter if he says he will leave his wife or not. Really would you want to be #2 to anyone? I certainly would not in a romantic relationship. If you did in fact leave your wife, maybe she ( your girlfriend) just has things going on at home as she said her uncle had to go into the hospital. It does sound strange though that she would just not contact you as you said you always had open lines of communications before now! Sounds possibly like there has been a lot of drama involved and she may have just realized that this is not what she wants for her life!
2007-07-18 05:58:56 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine's Pic Is on 360 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are a jerk. How can you cheat on your wife? Did you know you are cheating on your wife? Men like you are sorry and have a serious problems. You need to talk to her and if that does not work ask her if she would go to a marriage counselor and try to work this out. If you love her you would tell this other woman I am sorry, but I cannot be friends or anything more because I love my wife. It sounds to me like you are losing interest and are no longer in love with your wife.
My parents marriage is falling apart because of a woman my father works with. He is doing things he should not do. He is acting like a teenager just like you. My parents have been married for over thirty four years. Do you still love your wife? Give me a break? You are making it sound like in your other question that it is your wife's fault. You are to blame as well. You are cheating. Cheating is a sin. My uncle did that to my aunt and crushed your heart. It took her a long time to forgive him and their marriage is doing well. My mom is like your wife a stay at home wife and my father has a good job.
2007-07-18 05:48:41 · answer #5 · answered by sis74100 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well that's tough I would call her if she is not answering the phone then leave a message and say "listen I need to know if this is over or if I just need to be patient I really like you and I want to give you the benefit of the doubt here but lets be adults and be honest with each other ... please just let me know how you feel and whats going on ... send me a message anything I just need to know if this is over?" Its not hard .. if she responds FANTASTIC if you never hear from her again WELL screw her obviously she never really gave a crap... good luck to you I hope it works out for you =) you'll be fine either way .. we live and learn =)
2007-07-18 05:50:56 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to just say so, afterwaiting a few more days, it is possible that things are going on, or that someone in her family didn't want her to see you, rather then her fault.
Ask, calmly and nicely, with a text if you must, if you would like to move on, but wait for a few days. Also that you would rather stay, but that it is her choice.
Reft
2007-07-18 05:48:13 · answer #7 · answered by Reft 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I say wait it out cause what if things r so bad at home that she forgot about her phon and u start to move on then it will make her feel worse, than she feels about her uncle right now, so if u love her wait on her.
2007-07-18 05:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will know if she likes you if she contacts you. Don't bother her if there is a lot going on at home, her uncle could have passed away or something.
2007-07-18 05:50:18 · answer #9 · answered by lil_munchie_x 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life doesn't last forever, it is finate. Don't waste your years persuing worthless long term relationships. Get off your computer and talk to women in person. Go to the gym for the atletic types, church for goody-goody types, library for nerdy types, nightclubs for the punk and new-waver girls.
2007-07-18 05:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋